How do you know if you’re in a mentally abusive relationship...

I don’t get it, how will this help?

just break it off you faggot

You don't hit your wife, dude. Not for that kind of shit. If you're slapping your wife because she's getting too loud then you're a real piece of shit. Full stop.

>i'll have to nod my head
Dude, my best advice to you is to spend some time reading about 'setting up boundaries in a relationship'. Search and read 10 websites on that, find the good advice and internalise it. It is one of the fundamental parts of having a good, solid relationship.
RIGHT from the beginning, you have to set up boundaries, that means letting her know what you will and will not take, and what you like and dislike. If you nod your head, she will never stop. If you say you don't agree, then she might be annoyed at first, but then she will know what you really think. If you tell her straight that you aren't going to listen if she is shouting/ranting, and leave the conversation, then she will be forced to speak like a normal person.
Those are boundaries, they aren't easy, but they are very necessary.
If a girl can't accept your boundaries, or she can't accept yours, then you break up, but at least you've been honest and true to yourself.
It really isn't easy, and it is a lot of work, but it is necessary and it is a skill you should learn as soon as possible, because it will help for the rest of your life in all kinds of relationships/work.

How is electrocuting yourself with a toaster in the bathtub related?

youtube.com/watch?v=4vLiJIgVlRQ

Casue I’m at my fucking edge, and I’m considering this option at this point.

Heyy! he was behind of this...?

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1. ranting not accepting anything you say
2. she lies/exaggerates about stuff
3. emotional manipulation
4. abortion without telling you???????????? MASSIVE RED FLAG
5. hits your pets?????
6. free bleeds, is this a joke?
7. emotionally manipulates your family against you
8. lies to them that you hit her???
9. threatens to kill herself
10. only started when she had you locked down in the apartment
11. manipulative
Sounds like she has a personality disorder dude, NONE of this is normal. I'll write some more detailed responses.

user, we’ve told you what to do. You’re gonna have to help yourself at this point.