This.
How do you know if you’re in a mentally abusive relationship...
Andrew Bailey
Cooper Cruz
VRO HONESTLY FUCK HER JUST LEAVE ONE AND NEVER LOOK BACK AND START A NEW LIFE IN A SMALL OART OF TOWN
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Lincoln Powell
This user is right. You need to grow a pair and stop worrying what your family will think. I have experience with a similar issue. Actual true story inbound:
>be me
>living with roommates
>have online friend from Cali
>best bros online
>I’m stupid, only 16 or 17 at the time
>he gets kicked out
>has nowhere to go
>I help him come to Colorado to stay with me
>roommates are cool with it
>big mistake
>first thing he does is complain about our WiFi
>sleeps on our couch for months
>no job
>no school
>starts dating my fucking SISTER
>should’ve beat his ass then and there
>my family loves him
>as disillusioned as I was before we met in person
>push comes to shove I tell him he’s out
>my parents tell me to bring him to their house
>I do it and he’s their problem now
>I cut them off
>talk to them again in about a year or two
>they’ve had it with him
>took them a week to realize they were wrong
>lost multiple jobs, still no school, always plays video games, rude, liberal
>finally he moves to Texas and I never here from him again
>mfw I was right and taught my family a lesson
Jackson Anderson
She doesn’t like to be wrong first off, when she’s ranting about shit I’ll have to nod my head and not say anything, if I say anything opposite she’ll go off on me. She leaves messes everywhere, I ask her about it and she yells at me Athar she has to clean up after me all the time (I rarely leave messes because I don’t like having things out of place de to Autism) and she starts to cry and says she’s not appreciated. Apparently she got pregnant once and never told me, she got an abortion without telling me too, the only reason I found out is because my brother called me to ask me how she was doing. I used to have two cats, I had to give them to my sister because she used to hit them if I argued with her or if she came home from work stressed. She free bleeds so there are blood stains on our sheets, I asked her to get some pads or something then she called me an asshole and told me I’d never understand. When we get into heated arguments, I’d come home the next day to either my brother, one of my sisters, or my mother on our apartment with her crying about me. She once told my brother I hit her, but I never touched her, and she has threatened to kill her self twice. She never showed these toxic traits much until we bought an apartment together, I just really don’t know how to break it off without a huge mess. She can be very manipulative.
Jonathan Gomez
My brother’s gay though.
Christian Young
HAHA
quality post
Sebastian Diaz
Just rip it off like a bandaid OP. There’s no easy way to do it. But after a few weeks it’ll get easier, as anything does given time, except cancer.. cancer’s a cunt. Hey, I’m not sure if anyone else has already suggested this but have you thought about investing in a decibel reader? I use mine to keep track of when my Wife raises her voice, Lol. Every now and again if I find that she’s raised her voice too often, I just give her a little slap. It’s easy, it’s effective but most importantly, it’s affordable. You can get your decibel reader for around $100 on websites such as eBay, Amazon etc
Good luck OP!
Ethan Phillips
Yep. Good example.
Trust your gut, if something feels wrong and it keeps feeling wrong, then it likely is wrong and you should do something about it.
If you don't do anything about it, you are ignoring your gut, not a good idea.
Trust your instincts, trust yourself.
Dylan Scott
Was just about to suggest the decibel reader, you beat me to it.
Jordan Carter
>I used to have two cats, I had to give them to my sister because she used to hit them if I argued with her
That's a red line if I ever heard one. I do my best to stay out of these sorts of threads because there's always two sides to every story, but if this is true then that's all I need to hear. If that sort of behavior is happening often enough that you need to give the cats away then you need to put your foot down in a serious way. You need to either kick her ass to the curb or have her go to a real therapist on the regular to work out whatever issues she is having. That shit is not acceptable.