Have there actually been any books in the past decade or so that accurately portray how society is becoming more and...

What do you look for in a partner? someone who's wealthy and fit while eating nothing but oatmeal living an incredibly boring life isn't attractive, wealth and looks are good but they won't save the most boring guy on earth.

Mein Kampf Vol 1

I would never meet an internet weirdo in person.

t. femanon

define boring. I go to indie/punk type concerts all the time. Went to one last weekend even. I ski in the winter, surf in the summer. I usually go on a 1 or 2 vacations per year. A few months ago I spent a week in California with some friends I know out there. Did some hiking, drinking, etc. I try to go out to a bar at least once per week.

The good ones; passion, humor, sexual satisfaction (werewolf factor), activity, humility - self respect, organisation, work ethic. Not oriented toward any specific occupation mind. I've seen below average looking guys with smiling girlfriends.
Just look at what women say they want in a man, and literally take it at face value. If that shit isn't true, what is? I
All women aren't the same, some have higher test, some are more domineering. Some women are lesbians.
Most importantly, If you have such broad and simultaenously high standards that you would swipe thousands of people on tinder yet not attempt to 'convert' any women, you need to sit down and think about a better strategy, or just sit out all together while you work on yourself. It's exactly the kind of swiping/scrolling addict activity one would expect from someone completely burnt out. It's exactly these things that would make a woman unattractive because it signals they haven't got much going on, but they also aren't willing to compromise for a quick fuck or intimacy. Do things qualitatively, wholly and intentionally.
What society is increasingly rewarding is negativity. You can post all day about what you hate and you don't even have to be literate. Easier to sweep up a furious pile on than it is to deal with yourself.

I bet you think all this shit necessarily means you're not boring.

Go to places where women are I.e. common interests like clubs and stuff. Or just ask girls out on the street

>I bet you think going out and doing things you enjoy makes you not boring
I don't know what the fuck "boring" means for you, explain yourself of fuck off faggot. Whenever I do things with my friends we always have a good time. I've been called weird, quirky, an asshole, crazy, retarded, autistic, but never boring.

>Most importantly, If you have such broad and simultaenously high standards that you would swipe thousands of people on tinder yet not attempt to 'convert' any women, you need to sit down and think about a better strategy, or just sit out all together while you work on yourself. It's exactly the kind of swiping/scrolling addict activity one would expect from someone completely burnt out. It's exactly these things that would make a woman unattractive because it signals they haven't got much going on, but they also aren't willing to compromise for a quick fuck or intimacy. Do things qualitatively, wholly and intentionally.
I don't really get what this means. What do you mean "convert"? I've matched with literally hundreds of women across Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge and they always just ghost. I've tried asking them out immediately, trying to have long drawn-out conversations, everything in between, saying random shit, cheesy pick-up lines, basic and generic greetings. None of it seems to make a difference. It's almost like every time that I match, I match with the same exact person. There's almost no difference at all. Maybe a slight variation on their answers, but always low effort, always take hours to respond, will either ghost me in a few messages or give me their number and ghost me before we can meet. How could I be burnt out, I've been on like a single digit number of dates in my entire life. There was never even a fire.

>maybe try /fa/
fa/lit/ here. This is not gonna work.
You'll gonna get more signs of choice but contemporary culture is gonna fuck you anyway.

>just ask girls out on the street
Don't do this, OP.
Culture will fuck you really good.