You should have said this from the start, but still, this just means you guys have to better yourselves, tell her about your sex life and be honest and you have to man up and ask her to also tell you honestly what you are still fucking up because from the looks of it there might be quite a lot.
Alright boys, time for a genuine question
user I think you use to love her but don't anymore since you recognized her own issues that she seemingly isn't working on. My advice is to not get this woman pregnant, not marry her, and keep her around until you can get on your feet without her. Best of luck
I don't think you love her user. You are just dependant.
>just biding my time
just making up excuses to stay in a co dependent façade because you're too scared to be alone
Ok you’re retarded. I’ll explain a little further. I can’t start this job that will make actual money until I am 21. I live in a shithole big city, so housing and gas are expensive. If I used public transport, I’m asking to get killed.
I need (in this order)
- a career
- a car
- place of my own
Then I can be independent. Grow up. I can’t just magically have money and a car and an apartment/rental home in a months time. This shit is probably gonna take a year. Rome wasn’t built in a day.
You're cute. And in most circumstances i'd try and roast you for daring to be empathetic on Yea Forums but I won't. My initial advice stands. Improve yourself first before trying to improve her. It sounds like you have a lot to work on so get off the internet right fucking now and go for a walk outside. Also, stop fucking caring about random btards opinions of you are. You do realize that literal murderers lurk here and post their kills for the lulz right?
Also, as others have pointed out. You have a dependency problem and it also sounds like you're cucking yourself by thinking you can't do better due to reasons outside your control. Both those things can be fixed in your life. But you have to want to fix it first, and you have to fix it yourself. Start right now. You literally have nothing better to do.