Alright Yea Forums, let's get serious

>You younguns don't know shit
Nor, apparently, do you. As demonstrated by your bragging about your marital status and lack of virginity on an anonymous Mongolian nose-flute board

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If you're a virgin at 39, I'm gonna assume youre either ugly or completely lacking social skills. If it's the first, get rich. If it's the second, there's still time to learn, but I doubt you'll get it, if you haven't already. It's like learning a new language, much harder as you age.

Best bet? Get rich, or move to a 3rd world country.

Complete lack of social skills, I'm objectively not ugly and kinda handsome (which speaks more for my non existent social skills and total lack of confidence)

Well, there are plenty of YouTube videos on how to project confidence and be more likable. Start there, I guess, and good luck.