Yea Forumsros, would you buy your 16 year old son a sex toy?

Yea Forumsros, would you buy your 16 year old son a sex toy?

I'm a gay single guy and about a year ago my teen nephew moved in with me. When he was 15 he came out as gay and his dad kicked him out and my sister asked me if her son could live with me.

My nephew isn't the kind that gets embarrassed or shy about things and a few months ago he started asking me a lot of questions about sex. Eventually he asked me if I could get him a fleshlight quickshot. I figured he probably saw guys on tube sites using them or might even have seen my fleshjack drying in my bathroom, and I told him I'd think about it. A few days later I went ahead and bought him one along with a fleshjack go.

Should I have done this? When I was 16 I would of given my left arm for one of these things. He seemed pretty excited when I gave it to him and I can only assume he's putting them to pretty good use as for the first couple of days after he barely left his room.

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Assuming that is true. You prolly saved your own fleshlite by giving him his own.

Well your sister gave you a sex toy, only fare to pass on the favor.

Honestly and genuinely speaking, you should be relieved that he felt comfortable enough to come and ask you over going to someone else. It's definitely an embarrassing subject, and given the situation, could have even been a little risky had he asked anyone else. If and when I have my own kids, I would MUCH rather they felt comfortable enough to come to me as their parent in order to inquire about discussions like these.

Lol

>buy sex toy for sex toy
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you top?

I kinda thought the same while I was thinking if getting him one. I figured if he did see mine he might look for it and maybe use it so I'd better get him his own

That's... pretty disgusting. I know a lot here on Yea Forums have a thing for incest, but to me it's pretty gross. I couldn't fuck around with my nephew.

He is going to ask for it

How foul would you feel if you found your fleshlite in his possession?

I agree the kid must feel safe around you to be able to engage in these types of conversations.

Just buy it, its better than him buying behind your back.

Don't tell your sister and tell him to keep it a secret. You probably should've given him the money and have him order it online himself since most people would find it weird for an adult to buy a sex toy for a teenager but now that it's done, keep it under wraps.

Pretty foul. I know I wouldn't ever be able to use it again.
The better question would be would I throw it out or act as if I never had one and let him keep it.

Tell him to clean it every use lol

I have this exact toy pictured

Best $60 you ever spent to avoid these difficult questions life throws at us

If he needed one I'd get him one at age thirteen, if not before.
Surely you remember how horny you were when you were that age?
A teenaged child of either gender should be able to approach their parents/guardians with confidence of being listened to sympathetically, and with a good prospect of getting good advice that actually helps to relieve their problem(s).

I believe I gave reasonable answers to reasonable questions, when asked:

(a) how can I last longer ? (in a context that made it obvious what he meant) ; and
(b) how can I make more cum ?

I neither know, nor really care whether the answer I researched for (b) above was scientifically/medically accurate, but it was the best I could find. I am sure the answer he eventually got helped him get through a period of anxiety with a renewed enthusiasm for his slowly maturing sexuality and developing the sexual skills that we all hope to master with personal confidence rather than doubts and furtive shame.

Tf?

I think it was a pretty rational thing to do. As another user said, it's good that he felt comfortable enough to bring the subject up. I don't see any harm in it

You're his uncle, just fuck him.

>talk about sex
that's fine
>buys sex toy for a minor
you're a disgusting pedophile and should kill yourself

No that was a terrible idea,
In this phase of his life his brain is pretty much still developing extended porn consumption and masturbation could demage his sexuality even more.
Yes he should explore his sexuality, but with other girls/guys not alone.
If he dosn't want to end up as a incel.

This, it's kind of fucked up you did that, its something they should definitely decide for themself to do. Whatever in his head he needs to sift through and figure out, you've put off for instant gratification of guardian approval without that coming from his own actions of looking it up, and clicking "confirm order" themselves on their own without basically coersion from you. It's good to talk to them and help them be comfortable.with thrmselves,but its not okay for you to be taking action for them.

It's either going into a fleshlight or all over the carpet

Masturbation doesn't cause inceldom, being ugly does

>being a fag automatically means you're an animal that doesn't know what tissues or the toilet are
>encouraging coersion of sexual acts upon a minor
He shouldn't have done more than talk to him and maybe give him money for it. The final decision should have come from the kid himself.

I sometimes wish I was gay so I can be legally a pedo. Those guys get away with fucking underage boys all the time and openly without being hated and thrown in jail.

I'm just acknowledging that teenage boys are walking sperm tornadoes who rarely clean up anything.

is it stainless steal lmao

This.

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Wow, then talk to them about it if it's a problem, like any reasonable adult would.

I see no problem with this, but I plan to buy industrial strength vibrators for my daughters as soon as I notice them start to take an interest in boys. ...JUST so they don’t need a boy’s help to figure out how things are supposed to feel, and maybe they won’t think masturbation is so taboo like a lot of girls/young women I’ve known.

If it was my niece or nephew and they were asking directly, I wouldn’t even think about that shit. I’d just do it. But I have a good relationship with their parents lol.

Why wait til it's a problem? I'd rather solve problems before they become a problem. It's called being proactive

>sexually involving yourself with a minor's personal life to "keep the carpet clean"
Yeah, no.

It's not like I'm going to jack off with him or anything. It's literally just plastic and rubber. If I'm giving a teen the talk, I'm giving him condoms too. Where's the harm?

Also, do you have any idea how much carpet replacement costs?

totally agree with this. not like he was bought a hooker.

I'm 20. I have a brother that's 17. I buy him condoms, does that make it wrong?

No, but why are you buying condoms? They give them out for free at your campus health center

I live waaaay out in a small town in the country, only place to get them is at the local grocer/pharmacy. Only reason he doesn't buy them himself is because everyone knows everyone, and he'd be embarrassed if our parents found out he was buying them.