So Yea Forums , I've rently come back to the dating game after a 6 yr relationship, im now 30, and as much as I like meeting people out and about, I figure I'd like some casual sex that wasnt just picking up chicks in bars.
When I was younger I would just approach chicks too and just say 'wanna grab a coffee blah blah'.
Anyway, being a boomer, I figure why not try this tinder nonsense, I mean, everyone uses it for casual sex, right? right?
Thing is I keep getting matches and like the bitches dont talk, at all, like 10% of my matches will have some kinda half committed convo and never goes anywhere.
So, is this just a meme, does it actually work for anyone? is it just an opportunity for women to get some affirmation and boost self esteem?
I'm not at all bad looking and /fit/, ive been known to punch above my weight ,bagged a few 9/10-10/10's in my life. Do I just handle the chat bad or what, usually open with casual interests, once build a bit of rapport say that IM isnt great medium of communication, coffee sometime ?
Or is it that most people use instagram to actually communicate through etc.
Im abit of an oldfag for my age, I dont use any social media, I have whatsapp and thats about it.
>pic related, basically most girls on there making out how much of a crazy active lifestyle they have or just straight up in lingerie.