Yea Forums, I need your help. I've been with my GF for over 6 years now and she was my first, like I was hers...

I don't think you get it, I said cheating isnt an option as I'd never forgive myself for it. All I do is looking. Still, I want the urge to go away.

ikr! well, get a decent phone and a cardboard vr and buy her a day or two at the spa.. that might buy you some time

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I am currently in this situation but worse. Been married 10 years and have been with my wife for 14 years out of high school. We have 2 beautiful kids... She was my first with just about everything. Last year i gave in to my desire and sought out a woman at work. We click in the office and started texting / calling each other. She was also married with one child.

We took it up a notch in March of this year. I started to come over in the early morning while her husband was out working. We would do our deed take showers and go to work.

All seemed fine till May when she missed her period. Went to the store bought a couple different pregnancy test to be blown away. We had provided each other with or notes from the doctors with our clean from any diseases. We figured the IUD that was in her for the last 4 years was sufficient. The IUD failed either because of the rough sex or my length girth as her husband is not my size.

My wife found my conversations with her on my work cell phone stormed into the shower when I was cleaning before worked. Asked me smacked me and then through the phone at me. I left for work and she changed the locks.

She is now 10 weeks pregnant and her husband still doesn’t know. She wont be able to hide for very much longer. She asked him about sex with me first and he agreed. Had he said no I don’t think I would be in this spot.

Now I am living at my buddies house until September till I can get my finances straightened out. Lawyers fees..

Don’t do it. This woman I am sleeping with cares for me a lot but I feel like I am the backup quarterback waiting for him to lose his shit and throw in the towel.

Good that you advice against cheating but still man, how did you rationalize cheating? The MAIN reason i don't cheat is for myself. I don't want to be a cheater, someone too weak to resist urges and too cowardly to be honest about them.

Holy shit man that seems like a worst case scenario. Do you still love your wife though? Isnt an abortion an option for your mistress?

Highly recognizable for me. I've been in a happy relationship for 13 years, but other pussy just keeps haunting me for some reason.

Until now I have never given in to the urges but I've hit it off with some chick via teh internets and she is deffo dtf. Lives about 2 hour drive away so no change in hell I could accidentally run into her with my gf.

I am so fucking split because of this. I want to give in to these urges but my GF doesn't deserve this shit. Monogamy sucks.

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>I'm an Arian Chad

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Don’t cheat, it isn’t a chad move. I had a buddy who knew a person who had a cousin who cheated once. He lost his job, his fiance, and was thrown through the dirt for some time. The guy has been unemployed for like 6 months because of a thot. Become a conservative Christian and stay away from thots brother.

well I can tell you that everybody is going to have a differing opinion on the matter when you’re with somebody for nearly 15 years in the last three years is the same routine over and over again you’re just looking for that a little excitement that can make you feel happy. Yes in some regards I do feel guilt and shame for about what I have done but I am also very young 33 and I am looking for potentially the second half of my life now. My wife was very controlling on who I could see when I could see them the amount of money that I could spend given the scenario I was the breadwinner of the household and allowed her the luxury to stay home and watch our children before they went to elementary school. I Fun did her business which is finally now getting some traction and that’s great for her she is definitely in a better spot than the day she met me. I do Care for her and in fact I have been over there a couple of times now to fix things at my house that are broken so that it could be a little less stressful on her and my two kids