Yea Forums, I need your help. I've been with my GF for over 6 years now and she was my first, like I was hers. I've made out with and fingered some roasties before I met her, never fucked though and I actually turned down some pretty hot chicks in retrospect.
The thing is, I absolutely love my GF, she's an amazing partner and really hot. I catch myself thinking about stuff like marriage and kids. However, since I haven't fucked anyone else I can't get the urge to grab some pussy out of my head.
I know that I'd never cheat on her because it would ruin my life and I'd instantly regret it, I still want to know how I can not think about other girls as much when I know I won't act on it. Anybody in a similar situation?
Yea Forums, I need your help. I've been with my GF for over 6 years now and she was my first, like I was hers...
Isaac Thomas
Josiah Fisher
Same here, though I think there is no escape from our tormenting mindset. I've tried forcing myself to not care about dating apps, other girls, porn even, but no matter what I gravitate towards cheating, knowing it will be (and has been) my downfall. Sometimes I think everyone is going through the same, but then I sober the fuck up and realise there are no 2 same scenarios anyways there might be a way to fuck someone else without her finding out. It's deffinetly worth it considering your craving, it's unnatural to fight against your true self. Unleash the whore.
John Watson
Definitely dude. I wanna smash all the time and after 5 months of not having sex it's getting harder and harder to turn people down. I'm not massively attractive, but I'm always getting looks and dances when I go clubbing.
Maybe start talking to someone to measure your moral compass a bit. If you can cope with cheating then do it.
Grayson Collins
Yes. 11 years here.
The best way to deal with this is to have sex with strippers.
Adrian Taylor
Since i quit with her this is what i hunt for... young sluts... pic related is shot a week after breaking up with my gf (5yrs)
Blake Perez
Feels good to know I'm not alone at least. Cheating isnt an option as I couldn't get it out of my head, but I might try watching less porn. Also summer makes things extra hard with all the hot thots running around basically naked.
Tyler Thomas
People who cheat are trash
Either break up with her or STFU. Every guy looks at other women, but that's where it should stay. I'm an Arian Chad that can fuck almost any girl but why the fuck would I put myself at risk of any backlash when I am perfectly happy in my relationship.
Stop looking at porn and get extra kinky with your girl. Your bad habits are probably pushing you to be a shitbag, not your morals
Evan Hughes
To elaborate...
I have far above average game, below average looks but I wear a uniform and pull 100K a year. I have thought about just doing the one night stand with some slut thing before, and I have had several instances where i could have done it easily, but that kind of thing i think goes a bit too far.
What you do is open a separate checking account, slowly build it up and when you feel the need you take out some cash, go to a strip club and just ask the hottest stripper what's the most expensive thing we can do together. Give fake name, info, etc. You dont have to worry about a stripper falling in love and showing up at your house. It's just a business transaction and you both move on. Repeat as necessary
Alexander Morris
Are you me? I am in pretty much the same situation. The urge comes and goes. Whenever i catch myself having such thoughts i try to spice things up and fuck more. It also tends to go away whenever we don't see eachother for a few days.
Landon Campbell
>claims to be chad
>satisfied with a single woman
No, you are a low test faggot masquerading as a chad.
Kayden Reed
I don't think you get it, I said cheating isnt an option as I'd never forgive myself for it. All I do is looking. Still, I want the urge to go away.
Wyatt Allen
ikr! well, get a decent phone and a cardboard vr and buy her a day or two at the spa.. that might buy you some time
Colton Gutierrez
I am currently in this situation but worse. Been married 10 years and have been with my wife for 14 years out of high school. We have 2 beautiful kids... She was my first with just about everything. Last year i gave in to my desire and sought out a woman at work. We click in the office and started texting / calling each other. She was also married with one child.
We took it up a notch in March of this year. I started to come over in the early morning while her husband was out working. We would do our deed take showers and go to work.
All seemed fine till May when she missed her period. Went to the store bought a couple different pregnancy test to be blown away. We had provided each other with or notes from the doctors with our clean from any diseases. We figured the IUD that was in her for the last 4 years was sufficient. The IUD failed either because of the rough sex or my length girth as her husband is not my size.
My wife found my conversations with her on my work cell phone stormed into the shower when I was cleaning before worked. Asked me smacked me and then through the phone at me. I left for work and she changed the locks.
She is now 10 weeks pregnant and her husband still doesn’t know. She wont be able to hide for very much longer. She asked him about sex with me first and he agreed. Had he said no I don’t think I would be in this spot.
Now I am living at my buddies house until September till I can get my finances straightened out. Lawyers fees..
Don’t do it. This woman I am sleeping with cares for me a lot but I feel like I am the backup quarterback waiting for him to lose his shit and throw in the towel.
Gabriel Perez
Good that you advice against cheating but still man, how did you rationalize cheating? The MAIN reason i don't cheat is for myself. I don't want to be a cheater, someone too weak to resist urges and too cowardly to be honest about them.
Justin Mitchell
Holy shit man that seems like a worst case scenario. Do you still love your wife though? Isnt an abortion an option for your mistress?
Gavin Cruz
Highly recognizable for me. I've been in a happy relationship for 13 years, but other pussy just keeps haunting me for some reason.
Until now I have never given in to the urges but I've hit it off with some chick via teh internets and she is deffo dtf. Lives about 2 hour drive away so no change in hell I could accidentally run into her with my gf.
I am so fucking split because of this. I want to give in to these urges but my GF doesn't deserve this shit. Monogamy sucks.
Blake Allen
Elijah Parker
>I'm an Arian Chad
Owen Morris
Don’t cheat, it isn’t a chad move. I had a buddy who knew a person who had a cousin who cheated once. He lost his job, his fiance, and was thrown through the dirt for some time. The guy has been unemployed for like 6 months because of a thot. Become a conservative Christian and stay away from thots brother.
Elijah Sanchez
well I can tell you that everybody is going to have a differing opinion on the matter when you’re with somebody for nearly 15 years in the last three years is the same routine over and over again you’re just looking for that a little excitement that can make you feel happy. Yes in some regards I do feel guilt and shame for about what I have done but I am also very young 33 and I am looking for potentially the second half of my life now. My wife was very controlling on who I could see when I could see them the amount of money that I could spend given the scenario I was the breadwinner of the household and allowed her the luxury to stay home and watch our children before they went to elementary school. I Fun did her business which is finally now getting some traction and that’s great for her she is definitely in a better spot than the day she met me. I do Care for her and in fact I have been over there a couple of times now to fix things at my house that are broken so that it could be a little less stressful on her and my two kids
Cameron Young
Well here’s the scenario her husband and her have been together for as long as me with my wife 15 years he has no urge and no desire for any more kids he is also in his very late 40s and both of us are in our 30s. She has wanted a child for the last five years and he is unwilling to provide her that gift now I am not saying that I purposely did this because this was a gift from the Lord and I don’t understand how and why it has happened but for whatever reason this is going to bring us closer together. Abortion is not an option for her