I was a manager/head of security for strip clubs up and down the best west coast and vegas during 2005-2012 ask me...

I dated a girl that eventually became a stripper, and I am friends with her now. She has told me some horror stories about managers trying to force them into shit. Would you push for shit, or did you just ask and let that be it if it didn't happen?

I never pushed anyone to anything that wasn't business related. Anything on the side that I did was all offered to me, and usually i only benefited so little vs what she'll get. But I knew managers who I wish would die, they are so scummy asking forcing letting girls go etc.
It was a negative about this industry, the lifestyle is great for those who want to be In a position of authority.