Hey Yea Forumsros I need some help

Hey Yea Forumsros I need some help.

My gf and I have been together for almost 2 years now and we live together. She is an insecure person and during the beginning of the relationship she’d constantly get on my head for fucking this girl before we got together. And she would get on my head for being friends with this other girl whom I used to like. There was nothing I could do to make her understand that I only wanted her. Until about 6 months ago. She told me that I could no longer be friends with the girl I used to like. So I said that in return she can’t be friends with her one guy friend I’ll call x. I understand that’s retarded and what not. But I figured a compromise would be fine. Well about 2 months ago she was going behind my back hanging out with x. When I caught wind and asked her multiple times about it she would deny everything. She would deny it to her grave! So I sent some screenshots of mine and x’s conversations and she started to cry and tell me she’s sorry and blah blah. Things were going okay again after that. Until last weekend... when she was hanging out with him again. So I pressed her about it and asked her multiple times to not lie to me and yadda yadda. She lies to my face and then I show her some screenshots and she starts crying and saying she’s sorry and “it will never happen again”. Things have been rocky between us since and I just feel weird about being with her now. Am I just being a pussy here? What do I do. I’m so lost

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To be honest user, ik she may be really nice etc. but lying is not acceptable in a relationship (especially if she's insecure). Won't happen again? It shouldn't have happened in the first place.

Do you happen to know if she has borderline personality disorder? You seem like a nice guy so please lose hope that she's going to change and stop lying, she's not. Two years is commitment time so really start thinking if you can trust this woman with your life and life changing decisions. I'm jaded but I went through the same shit recently after a 6 year relationship. Cheers user you deserve someone you can trust.

I'm not relationship expert, I married the 5th girl I've ever been with. But that sets an example of what your future will be like. She's done this to you twice. Do what you need to, you probably deserve better.

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I don’t think she has a borderline disorder. Two years is commitment time; I’m dumbfounded that she actually lied to me about what she did. Not to mention that she would constantly go through my phone. By no means am perfect but ffs. 6 years? My heart goes out to you user and you deserve someone you can trust as well. God speed.

It shouldn’t have happened in the first place you are correct.

Maybe you should beat her and see if she develops Stockholm syndrome. Real talk tho just leave her

Fuck bro thats heavy. I hope the best for you man. Legit i will pray for you, you need all the strength you can get man. Honestly nobody in any relationship should be hanging with anybody of the opposite sex alone when they are committed to someone, even if there is no physical contact, it will always look shady and it will always cause a disruption in the relationship. I hope man that you guys evaluate what her deal is man. Godspeed bro.

go look for another girl, yours is damaged goods

if a girl lies once she will cheat on you when you will have children with her and she will destroy your life

I appreciate your input user

The only reasonable thing would be to kill her and the friend in the public somewhere

Real talk, I’ve been thinking about it multiple times a day.

She's just a hypocritical manipulative arrogant whore who only cares about herself, trust me she couldn't give two fucks about you. Go hang out with your best friend and see how she likes it.

Tell her she has to have anal with you for you to forgive her, then after you rectally destroy her, tell her to pack her shit and get the fuck out of your house.

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Coincidentally, she cheated on her last bf. Seems as though I put myself in a position here that I should’ve been able to see coming.

Thank you. I was a codependent faggot and forgave her bullshit. Don't be like me, my dude. You set boundaries and respected them and she didn't, twice. I hope it helps.

I couldn't help myself but beating her shit, but just leave her and tell her to kill her self man

Thankyou user. God speed

I wish you the best user. Keep your chin up. We both aren’t alone and things will get better

Lmfao

She wouldn’t like it. That’s the hilarious thing.

I meant leaving not the beating part

Thank you anons. I appreciate you all. I’m going to move forward and make a decision

i’d say keep hanging out with your female friends and make sure she finds out; if she can’t respect your terms why should you respect hers? also you could go ahead and preemptively cheat on her since she is obviously trying to hide stuff from you and has a history of cheating seems likely she eventually will especially since there is now tension between you: cheaters will revert back to old habits when they feel insecure in a relationship. alternatively, you could opt not to put yourself through this whole mess any further and go ahead and break up with her now before you waste any more time on someone who doesn’t respect you enough not to lie to your face.

Not a bad plan either. Like a week after you rectally destroy her just tell her you're done

Thing is a good gf/wifey material shouldn't make you want to leave

Thank you, that is solid advice.

You’re 100% right. As much as I want to stay I feel betrayed. I don’t feel the same towards her. I feel as if I’m being cold but that statement rings true. Leaving shouldn’t ever be thought, yet it was.

Trust is broken. You can rebuild it if you want to take the risk, but theres a good chance shes lied about other stuff. You have to decide if its worth the risk and the hard work. It sounds like she isn't. But thats up to you