I'm not really able to work cause of paralyzing anxiety ....plus my applications go into the void

You used metropolitan wages vs liveable wages or some shit like that. I assume that 62% number us relative to the areas housing costs. Not sure where the data you posted came from. It is smart to look at buying power when moving somewhere. Also look at the job market to make sure it has the kind of job you want. What states are you looking at?

Florida

> but it's your laziness that stops
you are a retard. that is not laziness but anxiety. it is a loop. he doesn't do anything about it because of anxiety.
I used to have that too. what you have to realise and do eventually is to cave in to you anxiety and say yolo what the fucking worst that can happen. Our brains are sometimes stupidly wired up.

I'm not talking about his laziness in getting a job, I'm talking about his laziness in getting his anxiety treated. No matter how your brain is wired up, you can't craft your experience to match your expectations, you have to match your expectations to the experience. Some events are anxiety-inducing, even people who don't have an anxiety disorder, do you believe you will be able to avoid all of them? Or shouldn't you be working on treating your anxiety, putting your mental health on project status and working at it every day because you know that you have anxiety and you need to get ahead of it before you get into a situation nobody else can help you out of.