I'm not really able to work cause of paralyzing anxiety ....plus my applications go into the void

I'm not really able to work cause of paralyzing anxiety ....plus my applications go into the void.

Severe anxiety + cut throat job market (high barrier to entry) = I'm a NEET

I'm discouraged... I apply to big 5. I apply to random jobs on indeed and shit that I see have low barrier to entries (like 0-1 yr experience, etc.)

But... they never email me. If someone calls me, I don't pick up unless they leave a voicemail since I don't like talking to telemarketers due to anxiety (and I feel like shit just hanging up on them since I know they hate that shit too and are just doing it to have a roof over their head and food)

also, I CAN'T do labor jobs or sales. Just can't do it. Like I just can't.

Every other place won't hire me though. Just those two.

How the shit is unemployment so low? Damn it.

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Have you been to counseling?

Ya. Doesn't help. Also, another thing.. I have a driver's license, but I can't drive. I get immense anxiety with it too sonce I always feel I'm going to crash.
It's like my brain is stuck in a "fight or flight" response.

Okay yeah.

>"I'm too sick to work"
>have you been to a doctor?
>"no way man I went to a doctor once and I didn't get immediately cured"

You may have an anxiety problem, but it's your laziness that stops you from living a full life.

I wonder what is going to happen with this rise of neets. Yall are just as bad as gays

I've talked to a therapist for like over half a year

And what did the therapist tell you do do to improve your anxiety and how did you implement that in your life? How did it succeed or fail?

Advice can't morph your emotions. Also, I've been to the mental hospitals twice and had 2 therapists total. They were stuck with me.
I don't remember everything they said,but it was basically to try to "change my mindset".
I really don't see how talking can fix my issues. My issue is severe anxiety and no amount of "talking it out" can fix that.

Then see a behavioral therapist instead of a talk therapist, user. You probably said you want to feel less anxious, that's changing your mind. What you really want is to be able to participate in your life, that's changing your behavior, you need a behaviorist.

Society is ending soon op. Get ready for the chaos.

Ever tried manning up? Only women are allowed to act this way. Quit being a woman.

That's like telling someone woth depression "just stop being sad" kek.

Can relate OP

>have education
>have social skills
>not disabled

Can't work because I can't even leave the house without feeling like I'm going to passout from panic attacks

Acid. Try it. 3 tabs first time I had deadly anxiety wouldn't even leave me house, parents were on the verge of disowning me. Now I'm 36k net 22 yo

I just think about starving africans and muslim beheadings and then I suddenly feel better about where I'm at. The rich, mostly jews, have caused what has happened in the OPs pic, but have made it illegal to talk about. It will only get worse as they keep power.

You sound like a classic presentation of low testosterone. The very first symptoms always get ignored and treated like a psych problem. Anxiety, constant fight or flight, sleeping problems, weight gain. Sound familiar?

Get a lyrica script
Double down

Grow up.

Medical establishment does not want lots of high test males. They want easily controlled betas. This is why it's hard to supplement testosterone and many doctors won't but psych meds and opiates are literally handed out like candy. I'm amazed no one sees through the veil. AMA, DEA and FDA are all controlled by the government. They decide these things.

Well you're not doing anything to fix your situation. Did you come here for attention?

Those numbers are clearly bullshit. The pay of minimum wage workers FELL 5.5% in the last 40 years? I'm not buying it.

Have you seen a behavioral therapist and talked about all the stuff you can't do and try to do them?

"Real wages" means buying power and its true.

Not sure if this is same guy but he's giving you real good advice op. But op won't listen. Op never listens.

Hey some psychology advice for ya:
You know every time you do or don't do something due to anxiety you reaffirm to your brain the anxiety is keeping you safe and it gets worse or self maintains?

Get out there fatty. Only way out is through.

Probably adjusted for inflation would be my guess

Correct. Giving trannies a shot of testosterone should be a first line treatment. Give them the hormones for their birth gender and then see if they still want to change their sex.

Where does it say "real wages"?

Wages relative to cost of living. They are MUCH lower than in the 50s and 60s. The rich have gotten much richer. This trend will continue until there is no middle class and we are all wage slaves of a tiny wealthy elite.

So the graphic is misleading at best.

sure but if buying power has fallen by 5% that already takes into account CPI, so including it in the list next to a straight up percentage comparison of food prices is misleading

>low testosterone

I used to do 17k pushups with 45lb in a month, mvp of track at 15, 51k situps in a month, curl a 20lb dumbbell 1800 times without stopping, curl 50lb dumbbells, almsot maxed the machines I used, trained for 4.5 years 2-3 hrs a day.

I doubt I had low testosterone. Actually, one of the causes to my destroyed egotistical conceited personality I used to have was finding out my final height was 5'5". I used to be the most dominant male. Because of this height however, I turned into a little boy. In both body and mind I'm a little boy now.

With INFLATION taken into account

That seems to be their endgame. Hence all the bunkers in NZ.

Wages adjusted with inflation

Wages were so high in the 50's and 60's because America was the only first world country that wasn't blown to shit during WW2. We had the infrastructure to become the world economic leader while everybody else was struggling to rebuild their cities.

Wait, misread. It was obviously implied. Obviously the actual wages themselves didn't decrease. That's just stupid to even consider.

Holy crap, user! You're the only motherfucker I've ever heard recognize this problem.

Yeah I'm currently seeing one, we're trying to make me "accept" the fear and therefore making it manageable. Was constantly scolded as a child for having and showing emotions (and being "weak") so a big part of it is learning to manage emotions in general too.

I know a guy that height. He gets mad pussy. Lots of chicks are under that height and dgaf how tall you are.

I think you're just a sad broken person. Probably nothing to be done, except, you know

Nofap and keto diet. Give it a try for 2 months. Inflammation and lack of nutrients could be the cause. These two cured my depression and anxiety.

We have also had other prosperous times. But we've never had quite this disparity before. This is more like oligarchal europe, which was the whole reason america wanted to do it's own thing, to get away from that old money shit. Money tends to act like a black hole as long as you don't blow it like a retard, so it will keep accumulating in a small number of hands who have a huge head start.

It's much easier though to sit and complain about problems than do something, only with physical problems people say, "WELL SEE A DOCTOR!!" Whereas with mental health, people think they have an incurable problem that they need to organize their lives around.
And the sooner you stop organizing your life to avoid anxiety and start confronting and curing your entire life, put it on project status and really work on therapy, you will stay as you always have been, sick.
I think you understood it well. You're just looking for an argument.

Wrong.
I don't care about your little friend. Just because others can handle being DEFORMED doesn't mean I should too.

Your friend lacks pride. As destroyed as I am, I still retain enough pride to mot accept this deformed body as my equal.

imgur.com/a/LoqedTG

You're friend is a little kid too. He just doesn't realize it. It's disgusting.

Yes you have to be mindful of anxiety producing situations and recognize them before the anxiety starts. Knowing what to expect reduces the anxiety response, do this enough and eventually you don't notice.

Wrong. Corporate taxes and taxes on wealthy individuals were way higher, which forced companies to reinvest their profits instead of giving it all to shareholders.

It was illegal for public companies to buy back their own shares before the 80's, which is pretty much when everything started going to shit

Testosterone can and does fluctuate. Dihydrotestosterone is a neurologocally active steroid and is almost soley responsible for our sense of maleness. No testicular testosterone = no dht = brain stops acting male. I'm not attacking anyone's masculinity, I'm relating the medical phenomenon that we're ignoring nowadays. The average man needs a test level well above 800 to have male brain functions. Brain damage and endocrinologist disruption cause these problems.

Note, since we went off the gold standard everything was ruined....

But that's what the graphic actually stated, that wages decreased. Not "inflation adjusted wages".

You are a virus to society

Why do you care about the disparity between the rich and the rest? How would Mark Zuckerberg making less money help you make more??

Nofap makes me feel horrible. Doesn't work for everyone. My sex drive actually plummets when I suppress it like that.

Keto was fine for a while but I started constantly cramping and having muscle spasms.

Ya.. and I still stand by what I said.

I was the most dominant human on earth in my eyes.

Being short messed me up. My problems have nothing to do with a lack of testosterone. What destroyed my manhood was my height.

Companies could always buy shares off the market. It's called treasury stock you idiot.... Companies do it all the time for paying their employees ESPPs. In periods where corporate taxes are high, they negotiate complexity and exemptions into the tax code. The effective tax rate has resulted in the government collecting 10-15% of GDP in revenues.

Yeah idk why no one has proposed that. Overall testosterone levels have tanked among males over the past 50 years for whatever reason. The solution seems obvious to me.

I agree. This is why assisted suicide should be a thing.
>inb4 get a gun and do it yourself

1. I don't know random thugs

2. I got my gun rights taken from me for being confined in the mental hospital

Because when a tiny number of people control the vast quantity of wealth, it is in their hands forever. You might want to live under a new feudal system, but most don't. Capitalism needs some controls to be healthy. What we have instead are mega-monopoly giants who are becoming the new government.

Ok. But I'm telling you there's a fix for it and you're choosing to suffer. No one can help you so now what?

High taxes was not what drove the economy of the 50's and 60's. It was the fact that we had no global competition. It's not even a debatable fact.

So explain to me how Mark Zuckerberg making less money helps you make more.

Being on the gold standard and not being able to inflate the currency as easily helped considerably during this time period as well.

>there's a fix
You're answer was giving me more testosterone. That's not the issue.

We were on the gold standard in the 30's. Why did it not help then?

Aaaand I already debunked that for me specifically

It's not about one person. But hey, if you want completely unchecked capitalism that results in what is essentially slavery, then you will get it, because that's where it's headed.

Stock market corruption.

He then pays more in taxes, which are then used to pay for things like healthcare and education.

Or his money is distributed back into the economy via increased pay for his employees, which drives consumer demand and creates jobs and wealth.

Billionaires are like hoarders. Their money isn't helping anything just sitting there. Spread that shit around

So you have no answer, you just hate rich people. Got it, you're a bitch.

we weren't. FDR confiscated all the gold.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Executive_Order_6102

It was a major factor. Also the pent up demand for consumer goods and the post war baby boom. Germany Japan and the UK had their shit back together by 1960. We paid for it via the Marshall plan

This is false, if you do a simple Google search you can see that in 1978 the average salary in America was $10-17k depending on the source you check, now it's around $50k, that's a hell of a lot more than 10%

hi guys i refuse to work how do i job???

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>He then pays more in taxes, which are then used to pay for things like healthcare and education.


Rich avoid taxes like the plague. Just look at what amazon paid in taxes in 2018. $0.

>Or his money is distributed back into the economy via increased pay for his employees, which drives consumer demand and creates jobs and wealth.

Trinkle down economics has been debunked reuters.com/article/us-usa-economy-investment/1-5-trillion-u-s-tax-cut-has-no-major-impact-on-business-capex-plans-survey-idUSKCN1PM0B0

>Billionaires are like hoarders. Their money isn't helping anything just sitting there. Spread that shit around
You confused me here. It basically contradicts the 1st 2 paragraphs you wrote.

Were you being sarcastic with the 1st 2 points?

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The sources in the bottom are from credible sources. Maybe they just mean in terms of buying power

No. Last thing we need is a bunch of juiced up degenerate men wearing dresses running around in public with raging boners.

Well that's my point. The numbers on the bottom of the graphic are not explained. So they look much worse than they actually are. That's on purpose. Whoever made the graphic put real numbers on it, from real sources, but without explanation the numbers are meaningless.

Why can't you work? What do you mean you just can't? Like you're fat and unfit and can't walk, or you have anxiety and can't leave the house? I need more to go on.

Are you joking? There are fucking bookoo Test supplements out there.

Yes. 100%. There are several of these guys who come here and repost this shit all the time.

OP are you the guy with the worthless electrician associates degree?

Where you live?

If you're near western Massachusetts I can get you several jobs making more than the average American tomorrow

OMG ur this guy. lol.

This is correct.

>I CAN'T do labor jobs or sales. Just can't do it. Like I just can't

Get over yourself and grow up

Mostly anxiety. That plus I am having trouble getting interviews. Even after interviews, I don't get the job anyways. I get discouraged easily.

As for labor jobs, I've done it before and I hated the environment. I hate being inside a factory.

I am honestly just trying to go for some bank job like wells fargo and am applying for a teller position. I don't really expect to get it, but I can imagine doing it if given the chance. I don't even give a shit about pay as long as it's a livable wage OR if the company relatively quickly offers a livable wage. I just want a job that won't cause my brain to explode with anxiety. Something calm.

Yep and and an incomplete bachelors (need a yr).

Call it attention if you want. It's more like venting.

California

In what world are women ALLOWED to live like this? The only women I know who think like this are homless, mentally unstable or addicted to drugs.

To OP-
If your anxious to answer calls, try to muater up the courage to make the call yourself. IMO thay is the easiest way to get any job is to show them that you actually eant the job.

Take it for what it's worth, but I've had two friends work for Wells Fargo and both said it was by far the worst company they ever worked for. Low pay, unrealistic expectations and high stress environment.

Just guessing but you probably dont have the look or personality they want for a teller. They want very well groomed young men, but mostly women.

I suggest fast food, or fast casual. You can build your confidence in a low pressure situation.

Worked for me. Ive seen your threads before.

No. I think though that if you're posting this here instead of Facebook you're asking Yea Forumstards to comment. If you're not getting the responses you expected, perhaps find another forum.

He just comes here to BAWWW/Rage. Im trying to think how long its been, my years kind of run together now.

At least a year of those posts op?

Wells Fargo is a bad example. That company is taking its medicine now for how it used to be run.

Well I think my face looks good, but my personality is pretty shit since they probably want an extrovert. Most jobs want extroverts.. shit.

Fast food sounds like it would be faster paced than most jobs.

What a fuckup. It's pretty obvious now tho. If I'd repeated this shit to myself every day for a year I'd start to believe it as well. It sounds like one of those
>these stories are fake
>the people posting them are paid to do it
>it's literally just spam
>the point is to keep you angry about shit you have no control over
>it keeps you angry and makes you feel an acute loss of control over your life
>then someone comes in with a redpill to tell you how you can hold power over this fiction
>but it's a fiction
>and it will never be anything else.
posts.

That's not op, stupid.

This is me

Except none of it is a lie so???

go figure a libtard trys to bring up a point by saying college tuition and medical care has increased.lets just make it free! because thats you braindead liberals solution to everything isnt it?

I am aware. I know you look at all the posts, so why not ask a question to you in my response to another.

Nah, fast foot is a cinch. For real.

An yea, like you said. They arent going to hire you as the face of customer service for a branch of a bank. Sorry. Besides, teller jobs are more and more scarce as that shit gets more automated.

>so why not ask a question to you in my response to another.
Speak english.

>can’t work because of anxiety

Kill yourself. You can’t contribute to society because you’re too scared... of what? Your own incompetence? Just go do shit and roll with the punches. Stop being useless.

Waaah I’m scared and anxious. Nobody fucking cares. Grow up

That wasn't what I was showing, retard.

>hurr durr,im a welfare abusing libtard who uses the anxiety excuse so people dont call me a moocher because i dont want to work a real job to begin with

this is what i already assumed judging by the picture you posted with the original op

Seriously, though food service is a way for fuckups to get into the work place. You may or may not remember me. But thats what I did after a post college period as a constantly pot smoking/selling neet.

>calls me a retard

cry more snowflake,why dont you just smoke crack and live off welfare like a good little democrat.since you more then likely are

That literally was perfect grammar.

>contribute to society
I don't give one single shit about society. I want to work for food and shelter. Not to "contribute".

And ya, I don't like being judged and I don't like "putting myself oit there" either.

Not a counter-argument, so yes, you are a retard.

>i want to work

nope,you want to be a welfare abusing parasite.if you really wanted to work,you would get a real job.instead of using the anxiety excuse or thinking flipping burgers at mcdonalds is a real job

I don't think it's the job that's the problem, I think it's you (with the least amount of disrespect, nigger faggot etc etc)

Assuming you are in your late 20s, have never held down a job and have trouble with relationships.. Have you ever been tested for ADHD?

Granted my issue wasn't entirely anxiety. I'm a right cocky shit but I still have anxiety. I've had more jobs than I can count, I've quit them, been sacked, suspended.. you name it.

For me, it's fucking ADHD. When I was growing up they didn't have a clue what it was, but it affects everything about a person. Yanks and fags on here will disagree, call me a faggot and tell me ADHD isn't a real thing and you just need discipline.

I only discovered how much it affects after I watched this TED talk.

youtu.be/JiwZQNYlGQI

If you've ever taken amphetamine/Speed and calmed the fuck down instead of getting a buzz, there's your issue. although your anxiety ridden ass is probably too scared of drugs.

I am not on welfare. And it really isn't laziness (besides the general labor jobs). I feel I can work all day, what i don't like is needing an employer for survival since I get anxiety when I am around people, asswipe.

It literally makes no sense.

>why not ask a question to you in my response to another.
Ask a question to "you" (me)?

Ask a question to MYSELF? That is literally what that means. Learn english.

>in my response to another
Absolutely makes no sense. I have no idea what you're trying to convey here. No, not because I'm "dumb". It genuinely makes 0 sense.

Then figure out how to offer value to society directly. By selling a product, offering a service that you can offer that doesnt need the support of an organization.

But in that case, you will actually have to sell your product to the customer (even if its online), so I guess thats a no go for you too.

What skills do you have?

>you want to be a welfare abusing parasite
Stop projecting, retard. I NEVER implied this.

>>Im unable/unwilling to speak to people over the phone
>>I dont have any experience worth mentioning
>>I only apply to jobs on indeed
>>WHY CANT I GET A GREAT JOB THE >>WORLD IS SO CRUEL
do you think thats how the world works? You can just throw applications around and someone is gonna say "wow, this guy right here, this guy with no experience and a spotty work history that doesn't seem to be even currently employed and didn't pick up the phone when we called, lets give him a high paying position with a lot of responsibility"?

Lol whatever kid. Just so you know you may have some reading comprehension issues on top of your behavioral problems.

I wouldn't be surprised if I had that

Which is why I have an associate's and 3/4ths a bachelors, huh? Cause of a lack of reading comprehension?

Maybe the problem is you suck at writing? Ever consider that, "kid"?

If what he's saying is true, that it's been a year and you're still in the shit, it's because you've done nothing to change your situation. You've gotten great at coming up with the kind of intellectually deficient lies and excuses for not doing anything and that's it. I don't believe anyone who posts here is that clueless, I think this is a fake story designed to rile people up.

Look into it. Seriously. It fucks you up entirely as a person. I have it myself which is the only reason I'm helping you.

It's far more complicated than having a short attention span and being hyper. There are many different types. Because it's all you've known, you won't be able to tell it's not normal.

So while everyone else has no problem making appointments and answering the phone and shit.. I struggled with it without medication.

No he doesn't. It's a fake story designed to resonate a feeling of despair and loss of control within you.
You're a liar.

Idk, if its fake its the most dedicated Ive seen.

And tbh, OP always seems like a petulant, low iq guy who cant see the forest for the trees.

Hes a really larper if hes faking.

>But in that case, you will actually have to sell your product to the customer (even if its online), so I guess thats a no go for you too.

That's not an issue. It's when it's in person or on the phone.

>What skills do you have?
None. I don't feel I learned any hard skills in school. At least not significant enough to satisfy employers and none to be able to be a freelancer either.

I mean unless there's a customer service thing on fiver.... despite the anxiety, maybe I should look at that...

The associate's i have is ib the electrical trade and I have an interview to a hardcore union job (don't want to say when). It's probably a job opposite to me (since it's fast paced, labor intensive, and hardcore/easy to get kicked out of the union and/or job site if you're not careful. Really not the kind of job for someone with my personality.. but oh well. I'm trapped so I don't have a choice but to do it if I pass the interview).

Fuck this brain.

Nope. It's actually true. He's right and I've thought that too. Why would they give an introvert a job when an extrovert is available? This society hates introverts.

But I'm on probation in upstate New York for being black and I don't know how to use a phone book to call a lawyer and this is my second dui...

Low IQ? I am average and average is shit in this society.

this shit is so unfair. even CEOs can't afford the college tuition increase. we need to raise CEO pay even higher!

"introvert" lol. you mean cripplingly anti social.

You sound like you have some serious behavioral issues you need to address.

I dont know what its like to be 5'5 and have peaked in the 9th grade, must suck. But god man, some of the most powerful people on wallstreet are like 5'4.

Average will get you average results.

If you've labeled yourself as being excluded from participating in society because of a label you've put on yourself then you will not be able to participate. Don't pretend that there aren't behaviors you are aware of that you can change to make yourself more employable, and here's a hint: introverts are not incapable of talking to people, they're just prefer to be on their own. Being introverted is not a disability and does not prevent anyone from getting a job. Being an introvert doesn't mean you can't nail an interview.

This. and Im out. Wasting time on this bs.

Now talk about shelter size, cost per sq ft, and the price of almost everything else like electronics.

You are lucky because you will never experience true hell. Life is BARELY worth it with average genes. Imagibe with below average genes? Fuck it. I'm just waiting on my father to die since I feel sorry for him. After he dies (which will probably be soon), I'm jumping off a bridge. People like me weren't supposed to be born. I don't say that to get "pity". I mean this as an objective fact. I am not fit for survival.

Average will get you dogshit. Only the exceptionally smart or those that network well succeed.

For instance, 62% of metropolis city jobs pay hardship or livable wages (30% hardship and 32% livable wages).

The majority lose. 78% of fulltime workers live paycheck to paycheck. 50% of renters are cost burdened. 57% of americans can't afford an unexpected 500 dollar bill, etc.

Average doesn't give you average results. It gives you trash.

Thank you Government for subsidizing every single thing in that pic...

Subsidizes = Higher costs that outpace wage growth

Also, too much Immigration causes wages to stagnate and is a significant part to why the job market has such a high barrier of entry

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Homes have gotten bigger, but it's not lile it's a choice from common people. Homes for minimalists aren't created. I'd be happy with 214 sq ft. It's not a thing though. You either have to spend a lot or be homeless. No options for minimalists.

>"introvert" lol. you mean cripplingly anti social.
That's what tumblrs say when they mean introvert.

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I guess you have far, far too high of expectations then.

Part of that is because people dont want to live around people that eek by in a 214sq foot box.

I know I wouldnt want my kid growing up around people like that.

Fuck ya. I am an introvert but at work I socialize with my coworkers and have fun. Then I go home and stay there. I would rather chill at home then how out to some noisy bar filled with boring people. I also have engineering degree and have a high paying job. Oh and married with kids .

Hate it when people use metropolitan rents vs pay as the norm. How bout moving somewhere cheaper. I moved from New York to AZ. Actually got paid more and back then jobs where booming, housing was cheap.

I didn't use metropolis rents as an example. The rest of the stats were nationwide stats. I am considering moving to the state with the highest buying power though

You used metropolitan wages vs liveable wages or some shit like that. I assume that 62% number us relative to the areas housing costs. Not sure where the data you posted came from. It is smart to look at buying power when moving somewhere. Also look at the job market to make sure it has the kind of job you want. What states are you looking at?

Florida

> but it's your laziness that stops
you are a retard. that is not laziness but anxiety. it is a loop. he doesn't do anything about it because of anxiety.
I used to have that too. what you have to realise and do eventually is to cave in to you anxiety and say yolo what the fucking worst that can happen. Our brains are sometimes stupidly wired up.

I'm not talking about his laziness in getting a job, I'm talking about his laziness in getting his anxiety treated. No matter how your brain is wired up, you can't craft your experience to match your expectations, you have to match your expectations to the experience. Some events are anxiety-inducing, even people who don't have an anxiety disorder, do you believe you will be able to avoid all of them? Or shouldn't you be working on treating your anxiety, putting your mental health on project status and working at it every day because you know that you have anxiety and you need to get ahead of it before you get into a situation nobody else can help you out of.