I'm not really able to work cause of paralyzing anxiety ....plus my applications go into the void.
Severe anxiety + cut throat job market (high barrier to entry) = I'm a NEET
I'm discouraged... I apply to big 5. I apply to random jobs on indeed and shit that I see have low barrier to entries (like 0-1 yr experience, etc.)
But... they never email me. If someone calls me, I don't pick up unless they leave a voicemail since I don't like talking to telemarketers due to anxiety (and I feel like shit just hanging up on them since I know they hate that shit too and are just doing it to have a roof over their head and food)
also, I CAN'T do labor jobs or sales. Just can't do it. Like I just can't.
Every other place won't hire me though. Just those two.
Ya. Doesn't help. Also, another thing.. I have a driver's license, but I can't drive. I get immense anxiety with it too sonce I always feel I'm going to crash. It's like my brain is stuck in a "fight or flight" response.
Jayden Roberts
Okay yeah.
>"I'm too sick to work" >have you been to a doctor? >"no way man I went to a doctor once and I didn't get immediately cured"
You may have an anxiety problem, but it's your laziness that stops you from living a full life.
Jaxson Ward
I wonder what is going to happen with this rise of neets. Yall are just as bad as gays
Benjamin Robinson
I've talked to a therapist for like over half a year
Jeremiah Adams
And what did the therapist tell you do do to improve your anxiety and how did you implement that in your life? How did it succeed or fail?
Jason Ortiz
Advice can't morph your emotions. Also, I've been to the mental hospitals twice and had 2 therapists total. They were stuck with me. I don't remember everything they said,but it was basically to try to "change my mindset". I really don't see how talking can fix my issues. My issue is severe anxiety and no amount of "talking it out" can fix that.
Noah Murphy
Then see a behavioral therapist instead of a talk therapist, user. You probably said you want to feel less anxious, that's changing your mind. What you really want is to be able to participate in your life, that's changing your behavior, you need a behaviorist.
Gavin Edwards
Society is ending soon op. Get ready for the chaos.
Josiah Rogers
Ever tried manning up? Only women are allowed to act this way. Quit being a woman.
Nathan Moore
That's like telling someone woth depression "just stop being sad" kek.
Chase Nelson
Can relate OP
>have education >have social skills >not disabled
Can't work because I can't even leave the house without feeling like I'm going to passout from panic attacks
Aiden Rogers
Acid. Try it. 3 tabs first time I had deadly anxiety wouldn't even leave me house, parents were on the verge of disowning me. Now I'm 36k net 22 yo
Aiden Robinson
I just think about starving africans and muslim beheadings and then I suddenly feel better about where I'm at. The rich, mostly jews, have caused what has happened in the OPs pic, but have made it illegal to talk about. It will only get worse as they keep power.
Ethan Gonzalez
You sound like a classic presentation of low testosterone. The very first symptoms always get ignored and treated like a psych problem. Anxiety, constant fight or flight, sleeping problems, weight gain. Sound familiar?
Asher Collins
Get a lyrica script Double down
Grow up.
Gabriel Martin
Medical establishment does not want lots of high test males. They want easily controlled betas. This is why it's hard to supplement testosterone and many doctors won't but psych meds and opiates are literally handed out like candy. I'm amazed no one sees through the veil. AMA, DEA and FDA are all controlled by the government. They decide these things.
Jack Stewart
Well you're not doing anything to fix your situation. Did you come here for attention?
Brayden Sanchez
Those numbers are clearly bullshit. The pay of minimum wage workers FELL 5.5% in the last 40 years? I'm not buying it.
Matthew Long
Have you seen a behavioral therapist and talked about all the stuff you can't do and try to do them?
Cooper Cox
"Real wages" means buying power and its true.
John Campbell
Not sure if this is same guy but he's giving you real good advice op. But op won't listen. Op never listens.
Juan Jenkins
Hey some psychology advice for ya: You know every time you do or don't do something due to anxiety you reaffirm to your brain the anxiety is keeping you safe and it gets worse or self maintains?
Get out there fatty. Only way out is through.
Thomas Robinson
Probably adjusted for inflation would be my guess
Parker Hill
Correct. Giving trannies a shot of testosterone should be a first line treatment. Give them the hormones for their birth gender and then see if they still want to change their sex.
Daniel Cox
Where does it say "real wages"?
Austin Collins
Wages relative to cost of living. They are MUCH lower than in the 50s and 60s. The rich have gotten much richer. This trend will continue until there is no middle class and we are all wage slaves of a tiny wealthy elite.
Easton Anderson
So the graphic is misleading at best.
Angel White
sure but if buying power has fallen by 5% that already takes into account CPI, so including it in the list next to a straight up percentage comparison of food prices is misleading
Liam Garcia
>low testosterone
I used to do 17k pushups with 45lb in a month, mvp of track at 15, 51k situps in a month, curl a 20lb dumbbell 1800 times without stopping, curl 50lb dumbbells, almsot maxed the machines I used, trained for 4.5 years 2-3 hrs a day.
I doubt I had low testosterone. Actually, one of the causes to my destroyed egotistical conceited personality I used to have was finding out my final height was 5'5". I used to be the most dominant male. Because of this height however, I turned into a little boy. In both body and mind I'm a little boy now.
Oliver Carter
With INFLATION taken into account
Leo Rivera
That seems to be their endgame. Hence all the bunkers in NZ.
Aaron Hall
Wages adjusted with inflation
Brandon Wilson
Wages were so high in the 50's and 60's because America was the only first world country that wasn't blown to shit during WW2. We had the infrastructure to become the world economic leader while everybody else was struggling to rebuild their cities.
Angel Myers
Wait, misread. It was obviously implied. Obviously the actual wages themselves didn't decrease. That's just stupid to even consider.
Brody Walker
Holy crap, user! You're the only motherfucker I've ever heard recognize this problem.
Hunter Smith
Yeah I'm currently seeing one, we're trying to make me "accept" the fear and therefore making it manageable. Was constantly scolded as a child for having and showing emotions (and being "weak") so a big part of it is learning to manage emotions in general too.
Christian Lewis
I know a guy that height. He gets mad pussy. Lots of chicks are under that height and dgaf how tall you are.
I think you're just a sad broken person. Probably nothing to be done, except, you know
Brayden Baker
Nofap and keto diet. Give it a try for 2 months. Inflammation and lack of nutrients could be the cause. These two cured my depression and anxiety.
Christopher Campbell
We have also had other prosperous times. But we've never had quite this disparity before. This is more like oligarchal europe, which was the whole reason america wanted to do it's own thing, to get away from that old money shit. Money tends to act like a black hole as long as you don't blow it like a retard, so it will keep accumulating in a small number of hands who have a huge head start.
Blake Fisher
It's much easier though to sit and complain about problems than do something, only with physical problems people say, "WELL SEE A DOCTOR!!" Whereas with mental health, people think they have an incurable problem that they need to organize their lives around. And the sooner you stop organizing your life to avoid anxiety and start confronting and curing your entire life, put it on project status and really work on therapy, you will stay as you always have been, sick. I think you understood it well. You're just looking for an argument.
Owen Anderson
Wrong. I don't care about your little friend. Just because others can handle being DEFORMED doesn't mean I should too.
Your friend lacks pride. As destroyed as I am, I still retain enough pride to mot accept this deformed body as my equal.
You're friend is a little kid too. He just doesn't realize it. It's disgusting.
Joshua Nguyen
Yes you have to be mindful of anxiety producing situations and recognize them before the anxiety starts. Knowing what to expect reduces the anxiety response, do this enough and eventually you don't notice.
Luis Nelson
Wrong. Corporate taxes and taxes on wealthy individuals were way higher, which forced companies to reinvest their profits instead of giving it all to shareholders.
It was illegal for public companies to buy back their own shares before the 80's, which is pretty much when everything started going to shit
Joshua Morales
Testosterone can and does fluctuate. Dihydrotestosterone is a neurologocally active steroid and is almost soley responsible for our sense of maleness. No testicular testosterone = no dht = brain stops acting male. I'm not attacking anyone's masculinity, I'm relating the medical phenomenon that we're ignoring nowadays. The average man needs a test level well above 800 to have male brain functions. Brain damage and endocrinologist disruption cause these problems.
Ryder Gray
Note, since we went off the gold standard everything was ruined....
Hudson Fisher
But that's what the graphic actually stated, that wages decreased. Not "inflation adjusted wages".
Thomas Thomas
You are a virus to society
Colton Jackson
Why do you care about the disparity between the rich and the rest? How would Mark Zuckerberg making less money help you make more??
Christian Cooper
Nofap makes me feel horrible. Doesn't work for everyone. My sex drive actually plummets when I suppress it like that.
Keto was fine for a while but I started constantly cramping and having muscle spasms.
Luke Jones
Ya.. and I still stand by what I said.
I was the most dominant human on earth in my eyes.
Being short messed me up. My problems have nothing to do with a lack of testosterone. What destroyed my manhood was my height.
Christopher Mitchell
Companies could always buy shares off the market. It's called treasury stock you idiot.... Companies do it all the time for paying their employees ESPPs. In periods where corporate taxes are high, they negotiate complexity and exemptions into the tax code. The effective tax rate has resulted in the government collecting 10-15% of GDP in revenues.
Elijah Allen
Yeah idk why no one has proposed that. Overall testosterone levels have tanked among males over the past 50 years for whatever reason. The solution seems obvious to me.
Jeremiah Torres
I agree. This is why assisted suicide should be a thing. >inb4 get a gun and do it yourself
1. I don't know random thugs
2. I got my gun rights taken from me for being confined in the mental hospital
Kayden Rogers
Because when a tiny number of people control the vast quantity of wealth, it is in their hands forever. You might want to live under a new feudal system, but most don't. Capitalism needs some controls to be healthy. What we have instead are mega-monopoly giants who are becoming the new government.
Samuel Garcia
Ok. But I'm telling you there's a fix for it and you're choosing to suffer. No one can help you so now what?
Angel King
High taxes was not what drove the economy of the 50's and 60's. It was the fact that we had no global competition. It's not even a debatable fact.
Hudson Sanders
So explain to me how Mark Zuckerberg making less money helps you make more.
Samuel Gonzalez
Being on the gold standard and not being able to inflate the currency as easily helped considerably during this time period as well.
Jackson Rogers
>there's a fix You're answer was giving me more testosterone. That's not the issue.
Christopher Garcia
We were on the gold standard in the 30's. Why did it not help then?
Brayden Jenkins
Aaaand I already debunked that for me specifically
Nicholas Sanders
It's not about one person. But hey, if you want completely unchecked capitalism that results in what is essentially slavery, then you will get it, because that's where it's headed.
Anthony Flores
Stock market corruption.
Jose Myers
He then pays more in taxes, which are then used to pay for things like healthcare and education.
Or his money is distributed back into the economy via increased pay for his employees, which drives consumer demand and creates jobs and wealth.
Billionaires are like hoarders. Their money isn't helping anything just sitting there. Spread that shit around
Jacob Robinson
So you have no answer, you just hate rich people. Got it, you're a bitch.
It was a major factor. Also the pent up demand for consumer goods and the post war baby boom. Germany Japan and the UK had their shit back together by 1960. We paid for it via the Marshall plan
Owen Walker
This is false, if you do a simple Google search you can see that in 1978 the average salary in America was $10-17k depending on the source you check, now it's around $50k, that's a hell of a lot more than 10%
>Billionaires are like hoarders. Their money isn't helping anything just sitting there. Spread that shit around You confused me here. It basically contradicts the 1st 2 paragraphs you wrote.
The sources in the bottom are from credible sources. Maybe they just mean in terms of buying power
Austin Taylor
No. Last thing we need is a bunch of juiced up degenerate men wearing dresses running around in public with raging boners.
Carter Brooks
Well that's my point. The numbers on the bottom of the graphic are not explained. So they look much worse than they actually are. That's on purpose. Whoever made the graphic put real numbers on it, from real sources, but without explanation the numbers are meaningless.
Jaxson Cooper
Why can't you work? What do you mean you just can't? Like you're fat and unfit and can't walk, or you have anxiety and can't leave the house? I need more to go on.
Asher Myers
Are you joking? There are fucking bookoo Test supplements out there.
Daniel Lewis
Yes. 100%. There are several of these guys who come here and repost this shit all the time.
OP are you the guy with the worthless electrician associates degree?
Chase Perry
Where you live?
If you're near western Massachusetts I can get you several jobs making more than the average American tomorrow
Brandon Thompson
OMG ur this guy. lol.
Daniel Sullivan
This is correct.
Samuel Turner
>I CAN'T do labor jobs or sales. Just can't do it. Like I just can't
Get over yourself and grow up
James Robinson
Mostly anxiety. That plus I am having trouble getting interviews. Even after interviews, I don't get the job anyways. I get discouraged easily.
As for labor jobs, I've done it before and I hated the environment. I hate being inside a factory.
I am honestly just trying to go for some bank job like wells fargo and am applying for a teller position. I don't really expect to get it, but I can imagine doing it if given the chance. I don't even give a shit about pay as long as it's a livable wage OR if the company relatively quickly offers a livable wage. I just want a job that won't cause my brain to explode with anxiety. Something calm.
Carson Anderson
Yep and and an incomplete bachelors (need a yr).
Call it attention if you want. It's more like venting.
Chase Reed
California
Colton Nelson
In what world are women ALLOWED to live like this? The only women I know who think like this are homless, mentally unstable or addicted to drugs.
To OP- If your anxious to answer calls, try to muater up the courage to make the call yourself. IMO thay is the easiest way to get any job is to show them that you actually eant the job.
Nolan Barnes
Take it for what it's worth, but I've had two friends work for Wells Fargo and both said it was by far the worst company they ever worked for. Low pay, unrealistic expectations and high stress environment.
Benjamin Peterson
Just guessing but you probably dont have the look or personality they want for a teller. They want very well groomed young men, but mostly women.
I suggest fast food, or fast casual. You can build your confidence in a low pressure situation.
Worked for me. Ive seen your threads before.
Joshua Bell
No. I think though that if you're posting this here instead of Facebook you're asking Yea Forumstards to comment. If you're not getting the responses you expected, perhaps find another forum.
Hudson Anderson
He just comes here to BAWWW/Rage. Im trying to think how long its been, my years kind of run together now.
At least a year of those posts op?
Nathan Cox
Wells Fargo is a bad example. That company is taking its medicine now for how it used to be run.
Connor Roberts
Well I think my face looks good, but my personality is pretty shit since they probably want an extrovert. Most jobs want extroverts.. shit.
Fast food sounds like it would be faster paced than most jobs.
Lucas Martinez
What a fuckup. It's pretty obvious now tho. If I'd repeated this shit to myself every day for a year I'd start to believe it as well. It sounds like one of those >these stories are fake >the people posting them are paid to do it >it's literally just spam >the point is to keep you angry about shit you have no control over >it keeps you angry and makes you feel an acute loss of control over your life >then someone comes in with a redpill to tell you how you can hold power over this fiction >but it's a fiction >and it will never be anything else. posts.
Justin Morris
That's not op, stupid.
This is me
Ethan Clark
Except none of it is a lie so???
Juan Brooks
go figure a libtard trys to bring up a point by saying college tuition and medical care has increased.lets just make it free! because thats you braindead liberals solution to everything isnt it?
Gabriel Taylor
I am aware. I know you look at all the posts, so why not ask a question to you in my response to another.
Aaron Nelson
Nah, fast foot is a cinch. For real.
An yea, like you said. They arent going to hire you as the face of customer service for a branch of a bank. Sorry. Besides, teller jobs are more and more scarce as that shit gets more automated.
Xavier Peterson
>so why not ask a question to you in my response to another. Speak english.
Carson Long
>can’t work because of anxiety
Kill yourself. You can’t contribute to society because you’re too scared... of what? Your own incompetence? Just go do shit and roll with the punches. Stop being useless.
Waaah I’m scared and anxious. Nobody fucking cares. Grow up
Eli Harris
That wasn't what I was showing, retard.
Parker Butler
>hurr durr,im a welfare abusing libtard who uses the anxiety excuse so people dont call me a moocher because i dont want to work a real job to begin with
this is what i already assumed judging by the picture you posted with the original op
Luke Moore
Seriously, though food service is a way for fuckups to get into the work place. You may or may not remember me. But thats what I did after a post college period as a constantly pot smoking/selling neet.
Jaxson Turner
>calls me a retard
cry more snowflake,why dont you just smoke crack and live off welfare like a good little democrat.since you more then likely are
Jacob Gomez
That literally was perfect grammar.
Colton Hill
>contribute to society I don't give one single shit about society. I want to work for food and shelter. Not to "contribute".
And ya, I don't like being judged and I don't like "putting myself oit there" either.
Asher Sanchez
Not a counter-argument, so yes, you are a retard.
Charles Sanders
>i want to work
nope,you want to be a welfare abusing parasite.if you really wanted to work,you would get a real job.instead of using the anxiety excuse or thinking flipping burgers at mcdonalds is a real job
Easton Wood
I don't think it's the job that's the problem, I think it's you (with the least amount of disrespect, nigger faggot etc etc)
Assuming you are in your late 20s, have never held down a job and have trouble with relationships.. Have you ever been tested for ADHD?
Granted my issue wasn't entirely anxiety. I'm a right cocky shit but I still have anxiety. I've had more jobs than I can count, I've quit them, been sacked, suspended.. you name it.
For me, it's fucking ADHD. When I was growing up they didn't have a clue what it was, but it affects everything about a person. Yanks and fags on here will disagree, call me a faggot and tell me ADHD isn't a real thing and you just need discipline.
I only discovered how much it affects after I watched this TED talk.
If you've ever taken amphetamine/Speed and calmed the fuck down instead of getting a buzz, there's your issue. although your anxiety ridden ass is probably too scared of drugs.
Xavier Cox
I am not on welfare. And it really isn't laziness (besides the general labor jobs). I feel I can work all day, what i don't like is needing an employer for survival since I get anxiety when I am around people, asswipe.
Kayden Richardson
It literally makes no sense.
>why not ask a question to you in my response to another. Ask a question to "you" (me)?
Ask a question to MYSELF? That is literally what that means. Learn english.
>in my response to another Absolutely makes no sense. I have no idea what you're trying to convey here. No, not because I'm "dumb". It genuinely makes 0 sense.
Aaron Roberts
Then figure out how to offer value to society directly. By selling a product, offering a service that you can offer that doesnt need the support of an organization.
But in that case, you will actually have to sell your product to the customer (even if its online), so I guess thats a no go for you too.
What skills do you have?
Xavier Young
>you want to be a welfare abusing parasite Stop projecting, retard. I NEVER implied this.
Jose Parker
>>Im unable/unwilling to speak to people over the phone >>I dont have any experience worth mentioning >>I only apply to jobs on indeed >>WHY CANT I GET A GREAT JOB THE >>WORLD IS SO CRUEL do you think thats how the world works? You can just throw applications around and someone is gonna say "wow, this guy right here, this guy with no experience and a spotty work history that doesn't seem to be even currently employed and didn't pick up the phone when we called, lets give him a high paying position with a lot of responsibility"?
Jaxon Wright
Lol whatever kid. Just so you know you may have some reading comprehension issues on top of your behavioral problems.
William Lopez
I wouldn't be surprised if I had that
Anthony Lopez
Which is why I have an associate's and 3/4ths a bachelors, huh? Cause of a lack of reading comprehension?
Maybe the problem is you suck at writing? Ever consider that, "kid"?
Luis Watson
If what he's saying is true, that it's been a year and you're still in the shit, it's because you've done nothing to change your situation. You've gotten great at coming up with the kind of intellectually deficient lies and excuses for not doing anything and that's it. I don't believe anyone who posts here is that clueless, I think this is a fake story designed to rile people up.
Julian Wood
Look into it. Seriously. It fucks you up entirely as a person. I have it myself which is the only reason I'm helping you.
It's far more complicated than having a short attention span and being hyper. There are many different types. Because it's all you've known, you won't be able to tell it's not normal.
So while everyone else has no problem making appointments and answering the phone and shit.. I struggled with it without medication.
Zachary Wilson
No he doesn't. It's a fake story designed to resonate a feeling of despair and loss of control within you. You're a liar.
Jonathan Brooks
Idk, if its fake its the most dedicated Ive seen.
And tbh, OP always seems like a petulant, low iq guy who cant see the forest for the trees.
Hes a really larper if hes faking.
Austin Edwards
>But in that case, you will actually have to sell your product to the customer (even if its online), so I guess thats a no go for you too.
That's not an issue. It's when it's in person or on the phone.
>What skills do you have? None. I don't feel I learned any hard skills in school. At least not significant enough to satisfy employers and none to be able to be a freelancer either.
I mean unless there's a customer service thing on fiver.... despite the anxiety, maybe I should look at that...
The associate's i have is ib the electrical trade and I have an interview to a hardcore union job (don't want to say when). It's probably a job opposite to me (since it's fast paced, labor intensive, and hardcore/easy to get kicked out of the union and/or job site if you're not careful. Really not the kind of job for someone with my personality.. but oh well. I'm trapped so I don't have a choice but to do it if I pass the interview).
Fuck this brain.
Carter Davis
Nope. It's actually true. He's right and I've thought that too. Why would they give an introvert a job when an extrovert is available? This society hates introverts.
Jeremiah Turner
But I'm on probation in upstate New York for being black and I don't know how to use a phone book to call a lawyer and this is my second dui...
Nathaniel Robinson
Low IQ? I am average and average is shit in this society.
Carson Foster
this shit is so unfair. even CEOs can't afford the college tuition increase. we need to raise CEO pay even higher!
David Bailey
"introvert" lol. you mean cripplingly anti social.
You sound like you have some serious behavioral issues you need to address.
I dont know what its like to be 5'5 and have peaked in the 9th grade, must suck. But god man, some of the most powerful people on wallstreet are like 5'4.
Mason Rodriguez
Average will get you average results.
Landon Wright
If you've labeled yourself as being excluded from participating in society because of a label you've put on yourself then you will not be able to participate. Don't pretend that there aren't behaviors you are aware of that you can change to make yourself more employable, and here's a hint: introverts are not incapable of talking to people, they're just prefer to be on their own. Being introverted is not a disability and does not prevent anyone from getting a job. Being an introvert doesn't mean you can't nail an interview.
Brayden Long
This. and Im out. Wasting time on this bs.
James Baker
Now talk about shelter size, cost per sq ft, and the price of almost everything else like electronics.
Sebastian Mitchell
You are lucky because you will never experience true hell. Life is BARELY worth it with average genes. Imagibe with below average genes? Fuck it. I'm just waiting on my father to die since I feel sorry for him. After he dies (which will probably be soon), I'm jumping off a bridge. People like me weren't supposed to be born. I don't say that to get "pity". I mean this as an objective fact. I am not fit for survival.
Average will get you dogshit. Only the exceptionally smart or those that network well succeed.
For instance, 62% of metropolis city jobs pay hardship or livable wages (30% hardship and 32% livable wages).
The majority lose. 78% of fulltime workers live paycheck to paycheck. 50% of renters are cost burdened. 57% of americans can't afford an unexpected 500 dollar bill, etc.
Average doesn't give you average results. It gives you trash.
Carter Kelly
Thank you Government for subsidizing every single thing in that pic...
Subsidizes = Higher costs that outpace wage growth
Also, too much Immigration causes wages to stagnate and is a significant part to why the job market has such a high barrier of entry
Homes have gotten bigger, but it's not lile it's a choice from common people. Homes for minimalists aren't created. I'd be happy with 214 sq ft. It's not a thing though. You either have to spend a lot or be homeless. No options for minimalists.
Joshua Carter
>"introvert" lol. you mean cripplingly anti social. That's what tumblrs say when they mean introvert.
I guess you have far, far too high of expectations then.
Jose Sanders
Part of that is because people dont want to live around people that eek by in a 214sq foot box.
I know I wouldnt want my kid growing up around people like that.
Kevin Diaz
Fuck ya. I am an introvert but at work I socialize with my coworkers and have fun. Then I go home and stay there. I would rather chill at home then how out to some noisy bar filled with boring people. I also have engineering degree and have a high paying job. Oh and married with kids .
Cameron Lee
Hate it when people use metropolitan rents vs pay as the norm. How bout moving somewhere cheaper. I moved from New York to AZ. Actually got paid more and back then jobs where booming, housing was cheap.
Jaxon Harris
I didn't use metropolis rents as an example. The rest of the stats were nationwide stats. I am considering moving to the state with the highest buying power though
Charles Murphy
You used metropolitan wages vs liveable wages or some shit like that. I assume that 62% number us relative to the areas housing costs. Not sure where the data you posted came from. It is smart to look at buying power when moving somewhere. Also look at the job market to make sure it has the kind of job you want. What states are you looking at?
Jacob Scott
Florida
Kayden Gutierrez
> but it's your laziness that stops you are a retard. that is not laziness but anxiety. it is a loop. he doesn't do anything about it because of anxiety. I used to have that too. what you have to realise and do eventually is to cave in to you anxiety and say yolo what the fucking worst that can happen. Our brains are sometimes stupidly wired up.
Camden Gomez
I'm not talking about his laziness in getting a job, I'm talking about his laziness in getting his anxiety treated. No matter how your brain is wired up, you can't craft your experience to match your expectations, you have to match your expectations to the experience. Some events are anxiety-inducing, even people who don't have an anxiety disorder, do you believe you will be able to avoid all of them? Or shouldn't you be working on treating your anxiety, putting your mental health on project status and working at it every day because you know that you have anxiety and you need to get ahead of it before you get into a situation nobody else can help you out of.