Couple Swapping!
>Wife and I had 4way with another couple last night.
>Halfway through the other husband offered to suck my dick.
>I said no that’s gay.
>Other couple got mad and killed the mood so the left.
>Wife and I confused.
>Should I have let him suck my cock?
>Is it gay in 4way? Or expected?
>We are new to this lifestyle.
It's expected. Should have set ground rules
Should have communicated before hand about what you both wanted.
We did set ground rules, but he asked halfway through, think they got mad cause I said it was gay.
Would you need to return the favor?
Sounds like the ground rules and expectations weren't clear. Wife and I are in the lifestyle too and some couples I fool around with the husband, some I don't. But I'm well aware beforehand if it's a possibility.
We know better for next time, I guess. Any other advice for newbies
you dumb fuck
if i can ask OP, how u get your wife to get involved in this? Not asking for me, just genuinely wondering
Communication about expectations and boundaries is most important. We we're lucky we found an experienced couple to introduce us and went very slow with us. We've been in for six years now and we took about a year to get fully into it. Luckily they were very supportive and helped a lot along the way.
M8 is only gay if balls touch
But really you're banging with another naked dude in your presence, seems pretty gay
Always been kinky at home in bedroom, had drunken 3some at a wedding last year. That opened up whole new world for us. Meet this couple on local classifieds they seemed like good fun.
Im curious how one avoids acquiring and spreading STDs while doing stuff like this. I think that's the main thing keeping me from indulging.
Condoms are lame. Do you really wear a condom every time or do you just hope you don't catch anything too bad?
So basically you stopped a 4-way. That's pretty gay dude
Thanks, I think we need to find a more understanding couple that will help guide us too. The couple we had didn’t listen to our ground rules then got mad when we wouldn’t change them.
We use condoms, lame but I’d rather not have my dick rot off
A man sucking your dick doesn't make you gay. It makes him gay (or bi).
Don't suck a dick and you're not gay (again, or bi).
Yeah, you dodged a bullet. Changing the rules mid-stream is wonky.
But two naked girls cancel out the other naked dude?
So go for it next time?
Yeah red flag
We always use condoms initially. But depending on the person or couple we may not later on.
Suckin dick = gay. Gettin you dick sucked = not gay.
you shouldn't do anything you are uncomnfortable with bro, fuck what others think
I cant imagine seeing my wife getting fucked by another dude, are you completely okay in this situation?
Post nudes of your wife, we know she's a slut now
Well I was fucking his wife as payback, that will show that wife stealing cunt who’s boss
They’re in another thread, go find them
(You)
>So go for it next time?
Fuckin right!
>I cant imagine seeing my wife getting fucked by another dude, are you completely okay in this situation?
I suspect that, at the time, it would be super hot. It's the afterwards that would be tricky.
FUCK YEAH, DUDE!
#NoHomo
a 4-way isn't couple swapping.
1) That other couple are assholes. You have every right to say no to shit, and you didn't kill the mood -- they did. Never hang out with them again.
2) You should only have let him suck your cock if you were into it or curious. All things being equal, I'd say give it a try and see how it feels (and how you feel afterwards).
3) It's not expected. But is it gay? Kinda, yes. Because being gay means a lot more than sex (i.e. it's also about who you fall in love with), it's not 100% gay. But if you're a dude and you have a sexual experience with another dude, it's kinda gay. (English fails at describing something like this.)
And as someone who's been in the lifestyle for roughly 10 years, this is NOT a normal experience. Most swingers are male-homophobic (but fine with girls getting it on), so give the scene another try.
But if you guys switch girls...like you fuck one girl and then the other. There is still possibility of spreading shit between the girls, right? The same is tru for a basic mff threesome. So then what? You get a new condom each time?
Thanks so much, this is advice we need. We will not be contacting that couple again. And hopefully have better experience next time
Yeah new one each time
My god, sounds exhausting.
Not really, only use two max three at a time.
Yes. But at first I wasn't sure if I would be. That's why we took it real slow. So if one of us got uncomfortable we could cut it off. I think she was more worried about seeing me with another woman than I was with her and another man. Turns out we both get really turned on seeing the other with someone. So it works really well for us.
wish my wife was into the ideas of threesum or foursums. Oh well......
You should just discuss all these things with the couple beforehand. Ask if they're bi. Make boundaries so that nobody is offended or turned off.
Good shit bro .
As far as him sucking your dick, maybe it’s more on how you declined vs the declining itself?
I agree ground rules should be covered before; different couples are more comfortable with some acts and less with others
I think this is what happened, they took offence in the way I worded it. But he caught me off guard
Just be fucking another woman in you bed. Judging from the video evidence I have seen, the wife join in 100% of the time.
Understandable.
Was that your first time? Have you considered checking out websites just fit swinging?
We have had quite a few 3somes with both male and female. This was first time with other couple. Any recommendations?
I doubt that would work. its just not in the stars for me. Before her my hottest sex ever was a MMF.
Ha. Classic degeneracy.
What classified? I haven't found a good replacement for craigslist....
Don’t get the brown on your dangus.