Couple Swapping!
>Wife and I had 4way with another couple last night.
>Halfway through the other husband offered to suck my dick.
>I said no that’s gay.
>Other couple got mad and killed the mood so the left.
>Wife and I confused.
>Should I have let him suck my cock?
>Is it gay in 4way? Or expected?
>We are new to this lifestyle.
It's expected. Should have set ground rules
Should have communicated before hand about what you both wanted.
We did set ground rules, but he asked halfway through, think they got mad cause I said it was gay.
Would you need to return the favor?
Sounds like the ground rules and expectations weren't clear. Wife and I are in the lifestyle too and some couples I fool around with the husband, some I don't. But I'm well aware beforehand if it's a possibility.
We know better for next time, I guess. Any other advice for newbies
you dumb fuck
if i can ask OP, how u get your wife to get involved in this? Not asking for me, just genuinely wondering
Communication about expectations and boundaries is most important. We we're lucky we found an experienced couple to introduce us and went very slow with us. We've been in for six years now and we took about a year to get fully into it. Luckily they were very supportive and helped a lot along the way.