Is it possible to date a junkie-girl and probetly fall in love with her or a really bad idea and would not end well?

Is it possible to date a junkie-girl and probetly fall in love with her or a really bad idea and would not end well?

Since last week, I (26) have a crush on cute female 27 years old Junkie (perfect bright teethes and smooth skin, even after 10 years of consuming) which has a really bad addiction to crack and cocaine (400€/week) and lives most of the time on the street.

I met her as a prostitute (she is doing it "just" twice a week) in a larger german city and payed 40 Euros for 30 minutes. It was turned into a 5 hour date, outside the city, in a gras/corn field in my car, followed by a second and third date the next days (without paying her ... well I buyed her Whooer Menus because she is a bit to thin)

I am the complete opposite of her. Never smoked in my life, would never try drugs and the one and only time I was drinking alcohol and drunk, was 10 years ago.

It seams like she has some kind of hope in me to get out of everything, including the drugs and her social environment. I don't have the feeling she is trying to just using me. It is more like she is feeling just good when she is with me - so I am with her.

I am totally not sure how to handle this situation. I don't want to dump her after she is getting emotionally dependent to me. But my mind is still clear enough to know that it would not be a normal relationship with introduce her to my parents or even friends.

There are already a feeling of guiltiness on my side, by thinking about to end the contact and not call her back. Goddammit I hate irrational emotions -_-

Anny advice?

(Sorry for bad Grammar)

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Bail now, otherwise you’re fucked.

Got a decision on your hands: Will you be the one to stick the dick in crazy?

Honestly deep down you know if you want/don't want a future with this. Asking others for their opinion usually isn't a good sign. Are you trying to rationalize it?

Best thing you can do is let it go or try to get her help if you care about her. If you don't care that much, fuck her a few times and hit the road.

I suggest rubbing 2-3 loads out and then pondering on this again.

Pretty much this ^

There's a possibility that she could change, but after ten years of use chances are that she probably won't. I don't want to put you down as it seems you really like this girl, but I honestly think that she is using you.

Why would you want to date/fuck a druggie woman? They’re nothing but shit and will die as half as long as you live.

If you really care for her, try to help her through her shit. If she's latching on to you like this, you either gotta be there for her or cut her loose. Grow some nuts. No half measures.

A lot of guys have a white knight inside them that makes them want to save girls. I've been through this, it's a bad idea.

I'd break it off face-to-face so she doesn't come around looking for you. She has to know there's a million things different between the two of you. It's okay just to ghost her if that's what you need to do.

Would you enjoy paying for a drug addiction? You will be doing that. She's probably not being honest about the "twice a week" thing.

Date a girl in your situation or a better situation. I've mostly dated girls that had unskilled jobs and it sucked. I'd never consider dating another girl without a career much less a druggie.

you're looking for something and there isn't really probably anything there. You have to accept that a person who does things that you don't do are red flags and you need to analyze that and not your untainted wants. Take a step back and see it for what it is instead of what it does to your PP.

Well, I dipped it already deep into her juicy crazy tacco ... ^^

Probetly you are right, deep inside I now already it has no future, I don't know how to turn it into a healty relationsip. But I care alreaddy and am afraid it would let marks on her, to "bail it" and lost more trust in people.

Struggling with a decision and looking for /b's opinion is for sure not a sign in truts of my own mind.

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You COULD try just being her friend for a bit and seeing if she's able to come off the drugs with help. People deserve a chance. But at the same time, you have to be quick to move on. You don't want someone that could OD any day or spend your money on drugs. Be caring but be smart - if you're planning on staying in this. Personally, I'd start removing myself from the situation

In the moment I read a lot online with ways to help people like her. All I can read is how depressed it is with a lot of throwbacks.

My englisch is to pure to get into a deep answer or better say it would need to much time. But your post was helpful. I have realls to thinking clear and thinking rational about it.

Send her to a rehabilitation and dont date her until she is drugfree

I was thinking about this aswell. Because I liked ther somekind as a human. She does not seemed to be a bad person and had just a lot of badluck (and bad decisions) in the past. To test her I let money in my car in a way the could see it. After recounted it later, it was still complete.

I will ask her tomorrow what she really wants and that I exeptet clear answers, if she would like to keep my surrounded,

Good advice, thank you. I will make a few calls to surrounded counselling centres.

She's aware that you know what she is (a drug addict) and what she does (a whore). She knows that you accept that and still want to be around her. That feels good to her, that's why she likes being around you. If you expect her to change you are going to be deeply disappointed over and over and over and over again. You'll like a life of recurring disappointments and genuine horror as you hear her stories about the things she willingly does and the things that (unwillingly) happen to her. You'll feel powerless to stop any of it and she'll go back to it by choice. When you've had as much as you can possibly bear you will make an ultimatum, "it's your old life OR ME". And she will choose her old life. They always choose their old life, that's what make them addicts.

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Sign her into a rehab center. If she truly wants to get out of that life the people there are trained to handle it. They can help her cope with the withdrawals and the psychological need that addiction causes in a persons mind.
If you do not intend to do this then get the fuck out of the relationship. Clutch your wallet tightly closed and run like hell.

Walk away. Distance yourself as quickly and completely as possible. Nothing but problems in the future for you if you go after this one. You wouldn't have posted here if your gut didnt tell you to walk away. Go with your gut on this one.

Quads don't lie. Don't trust her until she's clean.
Rehabs generally have a 20-30% success rate even among users who truly want to quit. I know first hand that it's hard, so fucking hard, so incredibly fucking hard.

She needs to get sober before she is with you, and she needs to do it on her own (without you paying for it).

If she truly wants to be with you, she should get clean first. If she does not, it will only be a matter of time before you wake up one morning to find her gone, your bank account cleaned out, and all of your electronics down at the local pawnbroker.