Is it possible to date a junkie-girl and probetly fall in love with her or a really bad idea and would not end well?
Since last week, I (26) have a crush on cute female 27 years old Junkie (perfect bright teethes and smooth skin, even after 10 years of consuming) which has a really bad addiction to crack and cocaine (400€/week) and lives most of the time on the street.
I met her as a prostitute (she is doing it "just" twice a week) in a larger german city and payed 40 Euros for 30 minutes. It was turned into a 5 hour date, outside the city, in a gras/corn field in my car, followed by a second and third date the next days (without paying her ... well I buyed her Whooer Menus because she is a bit to thin)
I am the complete opposite of her. Never smoked in my life, would never try drugs and the one and only time I was drinking alcohol and drunk, was 10 years ago.
It seams like she has some kind of hope in me to get out of everything, including the drugs and her social environment. I don't have the feeling she is trying to just using me. It is more like she is feeling just good when she is with me - so I am with her.
I am totally not sure how to handle this situation. I don't want to dump her after she is getting emotionally dependent to me. But my mind is still clear enough to know that it would not be a normal relationship with introduce her to my parents or even friends.
There are already a feeling of guiltiness on my side, by thinking about to end the contact and not call her back. Goddammit I hate irrational emotions -_-
Got a decision on your hands: Will you be the one to stick the dick in crazy?
Honestly deep down you know if you want/don't want a future with this. Asking others for their opinion usually isn't a good sign. Are you trying to rationalize it?
Best thing you can do is let it go or try to get her help if you care about her. If you don't care that much, fuck her a few times and hit the road.
I suggest rubbing 2-3 loads out and then pondering on this again.
Jonathan Nguyen
Pretty much this ^
Hunter Ward
There's a possibility that she could change, but after ten years of use chances are that she probably won't. I don't want to put you down as it seems you really like this girl, but I honestly think that she is using you.
Ian Cook
Why would you want to date/fuck a druggie woman? They’re nothing but shit and will die as half as long as you live.
Wyatt Turner
If you really care for her, try to help her through her shit. If she's latching on to you like this, you either gotta be there for her or cut her loose. Grow some nuts. No half measures.
Dominic Thompson
A lot of guys have a white knight inside them that makes them want to save girls. I've been through this, it's a bad idea.
I'd break it off face-to-face so she doesn't come around looking for you. She has to know there's a million things different between the two of you. It's okay just to ghost her if that's what you need to do.
Would you enjoy paying for a drug addiction? You will be doing that. She's probably not being honest about the "twice a week" thing.
Date a girl in your situation or a better situation. I've mostly dated girls that had unskilled jobs and it sucked. I'd never consider dating another girl without a career much less a druggie.
Angel Butler
you're looking for something and there isn't really probably anything there. You have to accept that a person who does things that you don't do are red flags and you need to analyze that and not your untainted wants. Take a step back and see it for what it is instead of what it does to your PP.
Sebastian Bennett
Well, I dipped it already deep into her juicy crazy tacco ... ^^
Probetly you are right, deep inside I now already it has no future, I don't know how to turn it into a healty relationsip. But I care alreaddy and am afraid it would let marks on her, to "bail it" and lost more trust in people.
Struggling with a decision and looking for /b's opinion is for sure not a sign in truts of my own mind.
