In my 40s, but same problem over past few years. First you need to see if it's a psychological issue. If not, then see a urologist. They can prescribe different meds from pill form to an injectable. I do the injectable. It's a tiny needle you inject into the side of your penis at the base, and no it's not painful. It gives you the strongest hardest bone you can imagine, stronger than when I didn't have problems. It might be for you or it might not. Go see a doctor.
I can't get as hard as i could back when i was 16
Serious question? Do you watch porn every day?
Could be suffering from the Coolidge Effect.
how did you have sex at 21 if you couldn't get it up?
If you cannot get up see your physician and talk to him/her about it, could be an issue with your prostate or the nerves / blood flow going down to your genitalia.
No he's just watching too much porn and strangling his dick.
That or like most youth today. Low test pussy.
A 21 year old, smoker or not should not need anything. Shit even at 40 you shouldn't need anything. Problem is people not getting outside and excercising.
and no, OP its not caused by your smoking, you're probably going to develop asthma or other smoking related injuries which are mostly either to the mouth, throat, stomach, lungs & bronchial tubes & sacs
I loved the girl at my 18th.
I didnt love the one at 20th, still my dick was working.
What terrifies me is that i love my current GF, and i can't get it up. I know i'm attracted to her, when she sends me nudies i can masturbate to them just fine, but not when we're having sex.
Tbh i dont believe that no fap shit. They're for desperate losers who can't get a girl, and hoping they'd achieve it by not masturbating. Idk about this one.
Trust me when you see that disappointment in her eyes when you can't get it up no matter what, you'd kill yourself.
Is tobaccos the whole reason i can't get it up tho?
Funny story.. first time doc prescribes the timid, they show you how to inject and start you off with a small dosage at the office. Instant hard on starts coming on, so they tell me to leave quickly but schedule a follow up. Of course there is a computer problem so I am stand inf line behind three other guys in a waiting room with maybe 20 people hunched over trying to hide a raging beast in my pants.
Basically get about half hard and squeeze from the base to the glands. It helps with blood flow and is supposed to actually make your dick bigger. You can find more info online.
But the main thing is to stop smoking and stop watching porn. Try jerking off without porn. If you can't, then you're addicted and need to stop. Also staying in good health overall, lifting would be good