How do you get over a crush?

user I'm going through the exact same thing, she says she loves me but she can't be in a relationship because of past experiences, it's hard to move on but the main thing to do is to use your sadness to motivate yourself to do something good for yourself, I started investing my time into the gym and although I've just started I'm starting to feel so much better about myself

Just remember user, in the future this will just be a bump in the road

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>she says she loves me but she can't be in a relationship because of past experiences
This hurts like a bitch, in my case she literally said she doesn't love me as much, which felt like a fucking burning bullet through my heart.
I know i have to move on, but fuck it's hard..

user, I'm just going to give you the fact.

The moment you find another person is the moment you will find that person to be the same or more meaningful than your crush. Depending on the intimacy you have with her.

Everything in a relationship is about fulfilling each other's needs, nothing else. Don't be afraid of not being able to get past her, you will, worry about finding someone.

OP it sounds like your "best friend" likes you a lot but is already in a relationship. Fortunately for you, she doesn't appear to care much about that relationship if she's messing around with you. You and she call what you have "being best friends" because she wants to keep you close in case things with her boyfriend don't work out but that sucks for single old you. Basically, you need to tell her how you feel, tell her to drop her bullshit about "oh I'm just cheating on my boyfriend with you because we're just best friends" and make up her mind who she wants to be with. If she doesn't want to be with you, then drop the whole "we're best friends" act with her and treat her like she was a fat girl you weren't attracted to and move on. She'll either dump the boyfriend to be with you or you'll save yourself a lot of grief by getting out of this toxic relationship with a fickle whore.

I told her i can't see her anymore because i have feelings for her, i told her i need to keep my distance because when we see each other things start to heat up, she won't break up with her boyfriend that's for sure, she had chances but didn't, she told me she doesn't love him but still enjoys their relationship.
That's why i cut contact, i don't want to be hurt everytime i see her with him.

I just need to know how to get over this feeling.

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Just stop thinking about her

You need to stop thinking that this crush of yours is that important. I'm serious.

I'm going to bet that your perception of her is skewed and more perfect than she really is. Hence your attachment.

Find another person, nature will take its course. That next person will become meaningful, only if you understand them. Which requires intimacy.

Or wallow in your own pity.

You can do this user there are a lot of women out there you’ll find the right one soon

THEN YOU NEED TO BREAK UP WITH HER FAGGOT STOP ENABLING HER CHOICE OF BEING A FICKLE DUMB BITCH WHO WANTS TO HAVE HER CAKE AND EAT IT TOO CUT THINGS OFF WITH HER IF SHE'S NOT GOING TO BREAK UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND LIKE STOP MEETING UP WITH HER FOR LUNCH OR MAKEOUT SESSIONS AND CUT HER OFF JESUS OP DO I HAVE TO SPELL IT OUT FOR YOU

Know that feeling

THe right thing to do man, try getting an actually single girl next time

There is no magic way to just make yourself get over someone. It's all a part of being young and this experience is going to be invaluable to you later in life when you do finally meet that special someone. Honestly, do you really want to get together with a girl who is easily enticed into another man's arms under the pretense of "but we're just best friends"? It's gonna hurt, OP, but time moves on and she and that guy will probably not last more than a few months from now. Just make sure you're over her and seeing someone else or at least cut contact with her until then. Not like 100% but just stop being so available for her to manipulate your emotions. She honestly sounds like a dumb whore who is used to having everything given to her.

The most important part is to value your own happiness the most and not start wallowing(don't start listening to sad songs, that will only make it worse) just go outside and try to meet another (SINGLE) qt

Thank you user

WHY ARE YOU SCREAMING

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>The most important part is to value your own happiness
This

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>try getting an actually single girl next time
try not to hit on women who are in relationships

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Thanks for the translation

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Here’s the truth OP.
Stop all contact and work on improving yourself.

Learn this: if you stop contacting her she will show up soon. BUT YOU HAVE TO STOP ALL CONTACT.
I’ve tried this a couple times and they always come back to suck your dick.
Literally this is the only way to keep a girl interested in you.
I know you’ve got all these feelings but listen to reason. Fuck her (later) you’re stronger and won’t let a bitch bring you down

IS NOBODY GONNA CHECK MY TRIPLE DUBS?????

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No answering messages, no answering drunk phone calls at 2 am, nothing?

(checked)
we're past the golden age of Yea Forums; we now live in the age of decadence where we're too preoccupied to check any digits.
may God be with us for the end is nigh

Not him, but yeah. You have to cut her off because you answering drunk calls and returning messages is just reinforcing her and making her realize that she can still keep her boyfriend but also have you as her side dude "best friend". Cut her off, faggot. Stop being her little emotional side toy.

I feel like she’s talking about democratic presidential candidate speeches

Ok, thanks a lot guys.

I know it hurts OP, waiting in front of the telephone for a message, waiting for a phone call, waiting for her to talk to you.
But dont.

Damn close to another triple dubs

So, who cares about her opinions, just look at the tits

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Riff raff

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Im in that situation too

Dated for about 7/8 months before making it official, told me she loves me etc. Then literally one month into relationship she said she 'cant have a relationship right now' and literally cut me off. Doesn't reply at all.

That was about a month ago, havnt head from her since.

I mean I guess it could be worse, could've been together for years or whatever, but I don't understand at all.

This sucks major dick

Probably because of the reddit spacings

>reddit spacings
>muh rules for posting here

wanna know how I know you're a faggot?

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the more time passes the less of a person you remember her as remains in herself. People change.

How the fuck is this helpful?
OP tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants to be with you, no joke.

you're autistic.

Buy a gun, go to school, kill her and her friends and kill yourself

Livestream it

You can actually get arrested for saying that in Britain.

can you fuck off

>so le edgy
>am I cool yet Yea Forums????

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