Soo he...was behind that...
Daily reminder:
This is me.
Thanks user. Bro hug for that.
>genetics
This nigga’s been redpilled. You’re not wrong about men and women both wanting to bang.
However, you have to consider that women typically face far more risk fucking randos.
all behavior is a reflection of genetic markers. it's how genes express themselves and can be selected for (usually unconsciously)
if you truly are born shy (and not shaped by past behavior like negative reinforcement or learned helplessness) then you have two options
1 - fake it and "pretend" to not be shy
2 - put yourself around women who are too forward. in terms of social advance, not necessarily sexually promiscuous. balance is usally sought after
I dont see it as genetic but more because of the circustances of my childhood, i had a great childhood dont get me wrong, but lets say my family travelled a lot, like a fucking lot, so everytime we moved out i had to make new friends and meet new people but everytime i moved out again i would spend 2-4 months playing videogames in my room without actual friends to play or people to talk until school started and i meet new people to the point to hang out.
I still dont think is genetic because my dad is a ladies man,and his dad IS a ladies man and my granddad was a ladies man too.
Im the different one basically, also i dont like things most people enjoy, lets say people like to go to parties and drink, i prefeer a nice dinner in a fancy restaurant and a great conversation.
Not OP, but you sound young and not as experienced? I mean, I used to think the same way 15 years ago. Then I went to a rager, got fucked up and smoked some pot.
Then I realized I liked parties and hoes at said parties. I’m a shy guy too btw. So far only good piece of advice OP’s given is to BS not being shy.
it isn't always exactly like your father is, otherwise there'd be no people around ever with these types of problems. you're not a clone of your father. you're a combination of your father and your mother.
plus genetics are expressed as a reaction to experience, obviously. so someone without your genetic predisposition would come through your childhood experiences differently.
Yeah. can someone explain this shit to me? Happens almost every fucking time I match with a 7 or above. She'll sound excited then completely stops responding.
oh I enjoy it, I enjoy it waaay too much ;) to the point of persuing it above other aspects of my life.