When will I stop dreaming about her, Yea Forums?

It wasn't rejection.
It was losing her because i'm apparently going down a self-destructive path that she can't watch anymore.

never
you'll always have those mornings when you wake up and realise it was all a dream and you haven't spoken to her in years

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It took me like 2 years to fully get over my first proper girlfriend that I dated for 3 years. You just gotta take care of yourself m8. If you're drinking alcohol or doing drugs you need to stop. Start going to bed early and waking up early, exercise, eat healthy, drink plenty of water. You'll get back on the saddle eventually.

Never

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It never gets better, you'll always have those dreams, you'll probably think of the bitch on your death bed

Never and she is laughing about you rn (right now)

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But that'd imply she's thinking about OP and I guarantee you girls don't waste their time thinking about OP.

once you bust a few loads in twink assholes honestly

>she didnt reject me she just rejected me

it took me like 5 pills and a bottle of brandy to forget about her

soon enough op

When she gets uglier
When you get your dopamine fix from somewhere else

when you realize you want her but dont NEED her

also have sex with other women, unironically

But what if she thinks of OP as an abstract idea, an idea of what a hellish life would be like but not with him specifically. It's an idea that she and her friends all laugh about but secretly pray they don't fall into the pit of despair, that is OP.

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I downloaded Bumble and got 3 dates in 3 days. However, I don't feel like actually going through them because my interest is low. I am only motivated to try because my friends make fun of me for being single.
2 are chubby and 1 is super cute. one of the chubby is cool and id chill with hard and the other 2 are super boring.

But, at the end of the day I don't give a shit and don't care if i'm with someone. How do I change this. Is it changeable?

That's a good counterpoint.

Rejection implies she spurned my affection. She loves me but got sick of my behavior that was dragging her down.
I wish it were like that. It would make it easier to hate her. I don't hate her, I just want to forget.

Whoa are you me?

mate you just ate up the shit she made up to get away from you
get a grip

stop jacking off

Just smile and be happy user. Dont get down from other retards. Be the bigger retard. Be the best retard.
also this.

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>pre-emptively making excuses so as to not get rejected
if you didn't care you wouldn't have gotten whatever bumble is, loser

it took me like 7/8 years
you will eventually overcome it

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You don’t bro. I’m with the woman I’m going to spend the rest of my life with and I still have dreams about the chick I had a relationship with in my early 20s.

won't hear a sound
from my mouth
ive spent too long
on the inside out
my skin is cold
to the human touch
this bleeding heart's
not beating much

Based Taylor Swift poster

I care about the perception.. everyone wants to be loved. But, I know, deep down inside, i'm never going to make a connection with them as I would my other friends.

Two guys said jack off but then you're motivated by your dick.
Idk if you guys ever had this, but you know when you have a GF and you fuck her then you just want her to leave? That's been my reality too many times.

oh you're that guy again, I remember you

just fuck enough girls until you find one you don't find repulsive after fuckin'
bound to work eventually

what is emotional cheating

I fucked it up too bad for her to even want to be friendly with me. She's totally done with me, and the thought of her with some skivvy little douchebag makes me sick. I dont have social media, she does. Somewhat popular and very attractive. Kinda an airhead. Recently makes an Insta post with "the boy of her dreams". After not talking to her for a few weeks, I asked if I could bring her stuff back to her from my house. (Had an idea she was done with me). She wouldn't give me a time to swing by. Said "hurr durr well if you didn't want to see me you could have just been forward with it". I'm met back with "no I dont want to see you now please block this number". Something she's never told anyone to do before. The idea of her being probably much happier with my absence makes me sick, but I dont know why. Am I jealous of his ability to be better and make her happier? Or am I jealous of her happiness? Either way, idk how to value myself or love myself.

Is it regret or just wanting to be alone and be left in thought ? Either do what says and find the one that doesn't make you feel they way which you perceive to be bad (wanting to be alone) or try to understand why you want to be alone.

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i never wanted to be your weekend lover
i only wanted to be some kind of friend
baby, I could never steal you from another
it's such a shame our friendship had to end

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if you want a professional's advice:
murder her in an elaborate fashion
that will get rid of any lingering feelings

bros her green eyes makes me a retard
why couldnt she like me and why must she treat me so bad

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WHY DOES MY HEART FEEL SO BAD

>falling for a witch
oh nonono

shes a huge cunt but i just fell so hard for her
help

She is the reason why I am not homeless right now. She helped me on my feet and I scared her away with autistic schizo rage and instability. I've apologised too much for the words "I'm sorry " to possess any power anymore. It's a dead horse.

Same for me. She forces me to sniff her shoes, look.

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worst thing is finding the love of your life in your early 20s

i love my gf so much but i want to fuck around too

I got ghosted by a girl that was giving me all the right signals. Fuck, it shouldn't bother me but it does. She was the first interesting girl I've met after a long time.

I'd leave you too. She was your gf not your therapist. Get help.

You have to strike whilst the iron is hot. Girls hate indecisive men, they want to be swept off their feet. Once they realise you don't have the balls to do it they get bored of you.

I don't know, almost 2 weeks ago I fucked everything up with the girl I wanted to spend my life with. We're both pretty shitty and immature, that's it, and that day our personalities just happened to clash in a way that I don't think we can just forgive and forget. She doesn't want to talk to me ever again and I ran out of ideas to fix it.

I've been breaking out crying like a bitch almost every day, multiple times a day. The current record is 6.

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anyway lads fuck women

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>tfw mods killed daily threads of this calibre nearly 10 years ago now

Don't worry they will burry this thread aswell,like the disgusting animals they are.

take the hedonist orgy pill

>mfw she became fatass after having kids
dodge a bullet there

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I asked her for a drink two days after we met.

Shame, you just gotta accept sometimes roasties only want the attention to feel good.

This same exact thing happened to me.
>be friends with this girl for almost 8 years
>talk on and off
>I move away
>she moves away
>eventually we both move back to our city around the same time and figure we can go on a date
>date goes amazing and we end up kissing at the end of the night
>over the next week she slowly texts me less and less
Fuck women

seriously why do they just cut you off like that even if youve been friends for a long time
whats wrong with them
and then they meet you and pretend nothing happened but if you message her again she just ignores reee

OP here. Her older sister was dating a kraut, who coincidentally was the only one around her family that liked me, so i'm going to pretend you're him for a bit.

Her mom and her sister never thought that I was good enough. I come from a lower class family in a bad area, her family is upper-middle class and love to pretend they're rich. Her mom especially didn't trust me; the first time I met her I had hickeys on my neck. She was genuine though, always saw the best of me even when I eventually fell into old habits and got cynical about her family and her lifestyle. I know Laura thought I was putting one over on her, but I treated that girl the best I could. I was always devoted to her, but hated the idea of getting locked into that kind of yuppie condo situation that you guys were in, taking on the sort of life that she wanted me to, changing myself to suit her and her family's taste. I started to drink and distance myself as an escape from it. Things got tough, and I was under a lot of stress this year. Eventually the drugs came back into play, and i'd find myself passed out late afternoons on her couch semi-regularly. Sometimes she would leave notes: stuff for me to do or a little advice. I had to apologize to her mom on several occasions. Eventually I got "the talk" about how I seriously needed get help or consider going to rehab. When the real arguments came and she finally worked up the nerve to tell me to get out I didn't argue or pick a fight or anything, I just left. I know you all thought it was a big shock at the time, but the truth is we both had different ideas about the future and how it should look. So i'm sorry (((Hans))), good luck with with all of that and I hope you get that job.

Yeah. I know the shit women pull all too well. It doesn't bother me usually, I've been rejected plenty of times and will be in the future. But this one is different, she was all over me the whole night.

The lack of directness is what drives me nuts. Just say why you don't want to spend time with me. When i reject people I tell them exactly why, some women just deflect the questions and don't give a direct answer. It's the not knowing that drives me nuts.