Okay so I know I’m exhausting but how do I cope with this?
I’m extremely jealous of my boyfriend’s celebrity crush on Charli XCX. He worships her. His phone is just full of photos of her. There is a 5ft tall poster of her half naked on the wall next to our tv (which I don’t really mind, I like girls too I see she’s attractive I get it but I feel so insecure)
We see her next week in concert and I’m super excited but I feel like he’s just going to become even more obsessed with her after seeing her/possibly meeting her and I’ll just never be good enough for him. I look nothing like her and I feel like if he likes her, he could Never like me as much.
I have celebrity crushes too, but I don’t get off to them all the time, etc
How do I get over myself and be happy for Him getting to see his lifelong crush instead of just being jealous?
Girl, we can't help you. We're literally just as insecure and miserable as you are.
Charles Scott
this but straight
Josiah Allen
Cucking your gf is BASED
Grayson Cooper
He sounds pretty based.
Lincoln Russell
just slather some grease on your face and get your hair dyed he'll probably be into it
Colton Moore
/thread
Ethan Bell
Listen to her album and you will start loving her as well :3
Asher Wood
your bf is gay nigga >We see her next week in concert no straight man would ever go to a female pop star's concert for his own enjoyment, no matter how fucking hot she is. he's gay.
Angel Collins
Bruh fuck all that. just work on yourself. make ur own goals. make ur own money. You both chose to share PARTS of your life, you dont need to hop into his sexual shit. Just trust he's with you bc he wants to while you do your thing, help him with some things in his life, if he leaves you for Charli XCX its a good story AND you helped someone get to be very happy.
Levi Morales
based Charli stealing your man
Ayden Peterson
she's actually not very attractive
OP is charli herself
Luke Foster
>yaaassssss queen, you do you
Logan Lee
i think these kinds of crushes/obsessions fade over time. if you are willing to wait it out, you will probably see it dissipate.
Austin Anderson
I don;t get why she keeps her hair like that. She looked so much better with longer hair
Realize that you're insecurity comes from a deeper fear of abandonment and realize he can leave you at any time, regardless of celebrity crushes or normal crushes. At any given time, "your man", could leave you. Now think about the fact that he hasn't yet. Stop worrying about how to improve your life and go live it. Things will get better as you learn to enjoy what's important.
Jack Jones
good post have a (you)
Chase Miller
But it's terrible. A complete step backwards from her previous work.
Jose Russell
maybe just tell him how you feel instead of asking the worthless virgins on this website. a good bf would take the time to listen and understand to things that make you uncomfortable. don't demand anything of him, just let him know how this makes you feel.
Aiden Gonzalez
the only solution here seems to be seppuku
Cameron Stewart
how can you actually think this? Charli is at least her best full album