Is it common/normal for people to go to live shows alone?
Is it any fun? Can you make friends that way?
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Is it common/normal for people to go to live shows alone?
ya i go alone
cause my friends don’t like my music
usually if i bring a cigarette or wear a band t shirt i can start a convo
most girls are stand offish so i avoid talking to them
I've gone to 20-30% of shows alone. just bring cigarattes or weed and use them to join a conversation by asking for a lighter. works evert time
What if you dont smoke?
>just get lungcancer bro
I've done it many times. Some really nice dude befriended me and let me hang with him and his friends one time but other than that its usually a little awkward before the performance starts. I usually just pretend I'm doing something on my phone. I'm done with live shows now anyway. I'm getting too old for it. The last show I attended I felt like one of the narcs on 21 Jump Street.
Yes it is acceptable. You will meet and talk to people just get a drink at the bar.
the few venues that are by me have a strict no singles policy, gotta drive like 20 miles to see one alone. i usually try to catch a show once a month though
Yeah it's totally common and normal. Never really made friends that way though, but I guess you could if you tried. I just bring my phone and don't get there too early
I don't smoke either. bring them anyway
When my brother went to NYC he used to go to shows alone. He had many friends there and a girlfriend but none of them cared about the music he liked.
He's a chad, and he says he had a good time.
It's a treat for me whenever I go to concerts with people. I go to concerts so frequently that finding other people who would want to go, let alone actually getting them to buy a ticket, is a process. I've met some cool people though, no long term friends. If you go see a lot of similar music though you're bound to see the same faces at venues.
Wearing band shirts definitely has gotten me some nice small talk.
Yes you can go to live shows yourself. Start convos with people. Maybe a cute BPD art hoe will flirt with you
Lol
oh my goodness yall take the clairopill
People don't want to be friends with faggots
Makes sense, i miss smoking to be honest
I go to shows alone all the time since most of my friends are married homebodies. I just grab a drink and play on my phone until the show starts, usually.
I've went to plenty of bleep concerts alone, Drugs and alcohol help. Got laid once or twice from it too
If you like music then go to appreciate the music. I don’t see the problem
not unheard of
it's weird if you make it weird
don't be weird about it
If I really LOVE the band and has nothing to go with then yeah I think I'd go
couldve made that a haiku bro
>Work up the courage to go to an Animal Collective concert alone after reading a similar thread to this and people say no one cares if you're alone
>I turn up a couple minutes late
>As I walk into the event, the whole crowd turns to look at me
>One of them yells "HOLY SHIT, HE'S ALONE!"
>Whole event laughing hysterically as I take my seat
>Calls of "weirdo," "creeper," etc.
>Want to die
>After the concert, the entire audience mobs me in the hallway
>They start dancing in circles around me, chanting deliriously and laughing
>They start singing a nursery rhyme about how only virgins go to concerts alone and how I should kill myself
>I can't get away because they've joined hands and won't let me escape
>They start throwing their drinks and candy and stuff at me
>"HAHA LOOK AT THE LOSER GETTING STICKY"
>Security comes by
>They look mad but then they see me in the middle of the crowd
>One of them says "wait, did that fucker come here alone?"
>Security joins in, start using supersoakers to shoot artificial butter at me
>I'm lying in the fetal position sobbing at this point
>The dancing and chanting continues for over 13 hours
>I'm completely covered in soda, butter, and bits of candy
>Black guy goes "NIGGA LOOKS LIKE A CHRISTMAS TREE!"
>Crowd finally disperses
>Panda Bear comes by
>Leans down, whispers in my ear "Never come here again"
>All I can do is whimper yes sir
You were so close homie
I've gone to most shows alone and it's a lot of fun desu
Most of time I forget I'm alone being so into the music
Yes, yes very fun, no.
I go and I stare at other people.
Get drunk, don't talk to anyone, urinate yourself, go home, masturbate.
I've been alone to a few shows. Two of Dream Theater and one of Roger Waters. And it was cool. There's no need to be with someone. You are there for the show
>cute girl goes to shows alone
>always makes friends
Hmm
lole jus don't b born uggo incel
Only show I went to alone was Black Moth Super Rainbow cause no one I know listens to them.
It was fucking great.
Just have a few beers and get into the music. It's a concert, you and everyone else should be focused on the music anyway.
If you're going alone, don't pay attention to the fact that you're a sperg who doesn't have any friends that wanna go to a show with you and just go. Bring a couple joints if that's your thing, and don't show what a sperg you are by trying to talk to someone next to you during the show because they don't wanna talk to you. Just enjoy yourself and enjoy the music. Maybe you'll bump into someone before or after the show and you'll hit it off with them.