Girlfriend of 3 years proposed polyamory to me last night

you wish it was bait and you hadn't wasted half your sexual lifespan trying not to "get cucked"

this but unironically. monogamy is a fever dream

Lost

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>ill lose respect
>that would make me a CuCK
>id rather have no sex at all than get cUCKED

cucks dont get to have sex themselves tho so it's not what's being proposed in this thread

>he fell for the sexual liberation meme
oof

based whore

t. cucked

>he fell for the sexual repression meme
bigger oof

>listens to too much good music
>falls for sex lib meme
>fucks just ungodly amounts of hot chixxx
compared to
>looks at too much porn
>falls for the c u c k e d meme
>continues to look at too much porn
hmmmmmmmm

t. coping cuck
how does other men's semen taste like, fag?

>other men's semen
your brain is just so pornofied lmao dont get cucked buddy!

polyamoryfag here.
I've been having an open polyamory relationship with my gf since 2014. We're together since 2009 but in 2014 we decided to open up after trying swinging a few times.
It's a fucked up world dude. I'm somewhat of a sociopath and I enjoy heavy adrenaline rushes through my head, to both extremes, extremely powerful and joyful, and extremely miserable and sad. It's like a rollercoaster you know. Except in reality it's all spiraling down and there's likely no turning back.
I think the saddest (or most awesome depending on how you look at it) aspect of it is that by nature, she will have more male mates available than me, but I still try hard to keep up with her. I never could get a full 2nd gf, like she got a 2nd bf, but I still bring at least one girl home every week. I have 3 regular friends who are also bi and get it with my gf and her bf, and at the same time I'm competing against her bf, because he's allowed to bring girls home, but he rarely does. He might fuck my wife, but I bring more bitches to fuck home.
It's like a very male-male competition going on, he also tries hard to make her cum but I know nobody makes her cum like I can, that's why he's 2nd.
But yeah things like that. Unless you enjoy that sort of rough lifestyle, stay back. I've seen countless naive guys thinking they were stepping into comfy "free sex" waters, and couldn't stomach the whole "other horny men get intimate with my gf and they might do it better than me" business.
I think about suicide 24/7. Sex keeps me going.

What the fuck is wrong with you retards? I don’t mind the trolls cause those guys have always been around. But you retards have to respond to everything? You can just leave some shit alone? You’ve forgotten “don’t feed the trolls”? Fuck off, lurk for two years before posting

bait

you are not a good fiction writer either, sorry user

Have sex

Not him, but i believe him.
Too fucked up and retarded to be a fic.

but what if the girl cheats on me

Do you think MatPat and Stephanie are in a polyamarous relationship?

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>not him
still no good at fiction user. it just doesn't ring true

Next time you have to be less convincing. It needs to sound like a real story

>Too fucked up and retarded to be a fic.

Read more fic you fuc

Imagine being this desperate for sex that you justify lowering basic standards for "sexual liberation".
I could also go fuck some prostitutes whenever I wanted, it doesnt make it or you any less trashy

no argument

whatever, I opened my heart to OP. To tell him what he's getting into if he actually decides to step into this world.
I know it sounds like it isn't real, but shit gets real, believe me.

You kill yourself like i did

user, if you are sexually liberated why are you clinging to the "girlfriend" paradigm? you arent supposed be all possessive and jealous like you described. way to do it wrong and essentially cuck yourself. you know you're allowed to see other people, right?

Well bro I don’t know what to say. Honestly I wouldn’t care about open relationships if they were loose anyway. I’m a musician and busy so unless she means something to me, I’m not really interested in a relationship. I don’t understand the part about keeping the relationship. If you just wanna fuck around, why not just leave gfs behind and be your own person? I dunno, I don’t like people so I don’t sleep around anyway. I just like interesting people

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I don't care about being "sexually liberated" if that means I have to let my gf get her holes filled by other men's penises.
I'm not even into being possessive or super jealous. All I want is a comfy relationship with a girl, without others. Is it too much to ask?

>he has boomer-tier monogamy fetish
it's not too much to ask you just have to find a girl who's also into that. it sounds like you're really not that close with your "girlfriend." you know you dont have to do anything you dont want to do right?

Well, I guess it's better than the zoomer-tier cuckold fetish.

>he thinks having sex with multiple partners who also have sex is getting cucked

>of course I will
no you won't, cuck. I bet your skinny little twig arms are covered in ink, amirite?

you're right bro, mind if i bang your gf later?

I reall hope you're just baiting and not actually letting your woman fuck other men.

Lol here's your (you).
Maybe he just has a mindset longer term than a fucking monkey with zero integrity OP clearly wants things to be monogamous and if he changes his stance on that just for this one bitch, he completely folds and has now trapped himself in this awkward scenario he never wanted where he either has the pretty natural evolutonary competitive response of wanting to tell other males to fuck off from his mate, or doesnt give a fuck about her in that way and should just be fwb to begin with, or becomes a cuck like you. Bait or not this shit is ruining this century's relationship dynamics for the rest of us.

if real i wish the best for you man. sounds like hell. polyamory seems to favor degenerates and whores. good times. get back to that straight and narrow path

i don't have a "gf"
people can't own other people, you idiot

get out of here summerfag

I know his post is pretty reddit but this is kind of true. Except the part about the country. I don’t really see that lifestyle taking off

>the rest of us
those are the only cucks i see here

>no argument
you know i'm right, but you're sitll trying to hard to defend a porn meme

it's a vocal minority. we shouldn't acknowledge them. any time open relationships are brought up on the internet it gets more attention than it should only because of the shock value.

>claims his waifu

as if women aren't just as territorial over their men? you're arguing against nature here, my dude. women can't hunt, forage, or protect themselves nearly as well when their pregnant. hence the trend toward monogamous relationships that eventually solidified over the past thousands of years.

It's the same kind of nature you fight against when you're holding back your cum against millions of years of evolution that told you to spill your jimmies in her before she comes to her senses and gets you out of there. All because you don't wanna disappoint her

sounds like you've only dated bitches?
not sure what the fuck you're saying in the second line lol never happened to me i guess

Only bitches enjoy monogamy? Is that your argument?

how did humans conduct themselves sexually for the hundreds of thousands of years before monogamy developed?

western women, not even once.

This, though I have seen more people irl try to normalize cheating and open relationship type shit in the past few years

It was probably monogamous even then. Or the pregnant woman was just part of the tribe so everyone helped facilitate her birth her child. Maybe they didn't even know who the father was. Maybe they had no idea how women get pregnant in the first place

i would kill to function like this. maybe one day i'll be grown enough.

r e t a r d

>i don't have a "gf"
obviously you don't.

>>id rather have no sex at all than get cUCKED
how is that a bad thing? don't let other people's vaginas control you

>how did humans conduct themselves sexually for the hundreds of thousands of years before monogamy developed?
i mean human nature is also to fuck without consent and to piss and shit wherever you feel like
doesn't mean we HAVE to do it

aren't you letting vaginas control you when you let what the vagina does in it's spare time bar you from having sex with it?

Here's some mildly embarrassing somewhat related hard buttrock, i think itll cheer you up

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>human nature is to fuck without consent
actually human nature is to consent and it's only in "clown world" that we have a hard time doing so. prove me wrong.

It's not the actions of the vagina, but the actions of my own mind that bar me in such a case. It's a delicate balancing act where cock and brain vie against one another for control of the body.

wow sounds like a lot of hard work and stress cucking yourself like that

Not really, just make up your mind on what the terms you would have for a relationship are and don't settle outside those terms just because you're horny.

>make up rules for yourself and dont have sex if it breaks the rules
do you even realize how much of a cuck you are?

Open relationships are counter to nature as well as societal norms. A double whammy that makes it wholly infeasible as a model for the progression of humankind. Sorry.. but.. you're retarded

so... okay.
wait.
what are we even arguing for?
this is fucking sad. I just want a nice girlfriend. I don't want to be possessive, I don't want to be jealous, but at the same time, I don't really want other people in my relationship (either male or female; i'm talking about myself too, I don't want to cheat).
but it's impossible. sure I can find a "nice girl" and we can be lovely doveys for what, 5 months? a year? Then soon enough, the nature of our society will corrupt her in one way or another, and the system is so sick, that it will find a way to blame myself for it (either "you weren't a good enough lover", or "there's nothing wrong with open relationships, you're just too conservative")
I'm not a conservative, I just want comfy love, is all I ask. I don't care about politics, or ideologies, or any of that non-comfy shit. ALL I want is to lay in bed with my girl, cuddling, smoking some weed maybe, making love, without having that torturing thought in the back of my head that, even though we're fine now, in the future someone else might steal her from me.
it fucking sucks and I don't know how to control it, sorry for the blog.
I know you will call me a faggot or whatever, but I'm not even trying to blame guys who are into liberal love, or guys who are into "all women are slut" mindset. I'm neither of these, I'm just a romantic guy who suffers a lot.

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why are you so convinced that any relationship you enter is going to fail? obviously the problem isn't with men and women or how the treat one another, it's just that you personally user are depressed.

>make up rules
Most people have innate wants and desires, if you naturally want to be in a committed monogamous relationship it's not making up rules. I don't see how refusing to hold values because it makes you a cuck is at all a good way to live

bad experiences?
also like 100% of my friends who are in relationships have went through a cheating episode in one way or another.
But it's more than just my anecdotal evidence. Society in general seems to be going in a weird direction. Liberals and feminists in many cases even claim that "romantic love" is a toxic thing that needs to stop existing, as well as monogamy.
And I see it happening around me. Meeting really nice girls who would make perfect gf material, but from the get go they make it clear that they're fucking many other guys and I'm just another one.
It is depressing, yes.

oh i get it
>slave to his desires
>thinks theyre permanent and can't shift around
>feels life will be empty if he doesnt immediately fulfill muh burning desires
lol read a book user, have sex, grow a little.

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sorry bro but everything you're basing this on is indeed anecdotal and/or bullshit fueled by your depression (a personal problem, not one caused by society). There are plenty of people who live fulfilled lives in this society who are happy with their partners. Work on yourself.

where the fuck are you getting any of that from

>Most people have innate wants and desires
also the post indicates that he thinks this is the same as holding values.

ignore this idiot OP your gf is just being a ho

>There are plenty of people who live fulfilled lives in this society who are happy with their partners.
This is also anecdotal evidence though, you can't prove it and if anything, empirical researches show that traditional relationships are declining fast.
We were born just in time to witness a huge society change, and it's not something that changes overnight, bur progressively.
I genuinely believe traditional relationships are going extinct. I really want to be wrong though.

you aren't very persuasive desu

it seems like you have a lot to prove with your little tirade here

>the good thing could be fake too
sometimes it takes a little trust to get to the good parts of life. this is also called confidence. you have to risk something to get something.

If you have a desire to be monogamous that's just the way you form relationships, you're willfully misinterpreting things if you take that and say hurr you're a slave to your desires. In that situation monogamy is a thing you value. If anything the person who's a s=ave to their desires is the one who is so sex obsessed they need multiple partners or they get bored.

a true conman at work. come on, it just goes against every sense in your body. what could go wrong?

Thanks for the optimism user, somedays i'm more optimist too.
In fact I'm meeting a nice girl right now who I really really like, but I know it'll be hard because she's still in love with her ex, we'll see...