Start nofap and going to gym, finally have sex

music is for
trannies and
faggots

all these things are cringe

Implying being normie or improving yourself is something exceptional or bad. Stop using music as cope and finally man up
Idk why but nofap is extremely useful for me for some reason, I go from unmotivated depressed faggot to confident and outgoing guy in matter of one-two weeks, every time I try. But I understand not everyone is gonna have effects like that
Nah

this.

Maybe you took a break from music for a little time. If you really dont like it at all anymore, you never had true passion for music in the first place. I've lost my virginity, graduated college, got multiple gfs, and still own instruments/vinyl. Music still means a lot to me. There's a name for your symptoms, I think it's called being a fucking normie.

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do you all immediately fap when you're bored or something? just fap it out when you feel horny enough, if you don't, then just don't fucking fap and go do something else. no need for the retarded nofap bullshit honestly

art is the biggest cope of them all. there's a reason chad's passion is sports.

For me, it depends, if I'm very depressed or stressed I get not many boners, but if I'm feeling normal I get boners at the mere sight of anything that resembles a woman's ass and will masturbate up to ten times a day because I won't be able to stop thinking about it if I don't

For real dawg? I got one hand on my cock almost all day ready to fire one off. It's a vicious circle.

>Maybe you took a break from music for a little time
Probably. I think I kinda really oversaturated (prob not the right word) myself with it in recent years and interest will come back eventually
>called being a fucking normie.
Music isn't the only thing that separates normies from not-normies, you know? And interest in other artforms like literature and passion in my own personal projects actually has risen in me more. Music is the only thing that seems really meh to me rn

>normie
I pity you

It's mostly placebo, it'll give you all the regular benefits of quitting a bad habit

You're posting that youre not interested in music cause you are making normie changes, on Yea Forums. Might as well go to Yea Forums and say that you don't like Asian cartoons as much because you go to the gym and lost your virginity. See how far you go without a ban.
Honestly kinda wish the mods here were a little more nazi-ish like the mods on Yea Forums. At least to get rid of all the cancer shitposts that stay alive for far too long.

>Honestly kinda wish the mods here were a little more nazi-ish
Go back to plebbit you fag.

Wow, imagine being this mad over someone improving himself and having sex

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i have a little theory, hear me out: you were never really into music at all, you are one of those people who, due to poor social interaction in formative years, didn't developed an actual personality, so they use different sources as a replacement for a personality (this is also why teenagers are so obsessed with the music/tv shows/books/etc they like, because their personality isn't developed yet). Now that you're finally experiencing some basic social interaction, you are losing interest in the things that used to define your personality, mainly because now you believe that going to the gym and having sex is your new personality. Sadly, this isn't true, it will take years for you to develop an actual personality, if it ever happens.
I know a guy who has like 3000 ratings on rym, owns several cds and vinyls and spends a lot of time learning about music related topics who also happens to be a perfectly normal guy: has a lot of friends, a pretty girlfriend, is very popular among his peers, etc. Why? because he had a proper social development in his formative years, therefore, music is an actual passion for him, not a personality.

>t. studied psychology for 3 years

I wanna go crawl in a hole and die alone quietly like a dog does when it gets too old

That user must be low T and low libido. You simply cant brush off the desire to fuck.

>Correlation=/=causation
>I'm retarded hurr durr
>Really makes you think
Sure does, OP.

You've got such a basic bitch understanding of existence, it's not surprising that you paid for it.

Not convincing, this
>like 3000 ratings on rym, owns several cds and vinyls and spends a lot of time learning about music related topics
was true for me as well. Personality link you suggest is weak, define what 'actual personality' is and why it can't change or be legitimately affected by lifestyle change

didn't paid a dime, i don't live in america.
>not convincing, this (...) was true for me as well
read what i wrote again, i mentioned that as an example of how you can in fact balance both things: an optimal social life and hobbys/interests. 'Actual personality' is a wide term and i admit that i worded it poorly (mainly because i'm posting on Yea Forums, not writing a fucking paper), but it honestly means to have a strong concept of yourself, have defining traits that come from social interaction (not what strangers on the internet may think) and not being so ridiculously susceptible to fast, radical changes. I assumed your formative years were very weak in terms of social interaction because you used to be a virgin at an age most people aren't virgins anymore. But again, is just a theory, i don't know you and just like you said, maybe you oversaturated yourself with music, and now you're giving yourself a break. Don't take what anons post in Yea Forums so seriously.

Pfft stfu bitch. This board is cancer. At least Yea Forums has everything on topic. I go the to discuss animu and mangos, not see someone post the same retarded basedboi/normie/cuck memes while everyone pretends to be retarded and create an echo room of stupidity.
I'm tired of people blog posting like this. Evidently he isn't into music, we're aren't discussing any pieces, just concepts on life and influences. If I wanted to hear people talk about "I'm not into music anymore cause sex and gym", I'd go talk to my normie friends irl. Not on a """"music"""" board. Virgins thinking sex changes you completely when honestly, it shouldn't. Only you decide what changes you, and if getting some pussy makes you feel so different that's on your own accord.

Let me word that second reply better. If getting pussy is enough to whip you from your hobbies/interests, that's on you and how much they actually mean to you. Which gets back to the very first reply, either you are taking a break or you probably weren't all that into music in the first place. Potato, potato

based

trash

Based...

Man you gotta shut up

>continue to gradually improve my personal and professional life without trendy gimmicks like nofap
>continue to love my gf and take care of my physical health
>stop smoking and drinking
>music taste unaffected; still gradually expanding
Imagine my shock

no true though is it

>owns several cds and vinyls

Oh for fucks sake

>starts to exercise
>enjoy music more because I'm not completely depressed now
Based.
Cringe.
Basge.

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might as well cut out caffeine and complete your transformation into a Mormon

>people need to conditionate themselves in order to have sex
Why?
I fap 4, 5 times a day, watch anime all day, play vidya all day, smoke weed all day, and my gf won't hesitate to give me head or ride me whenever I feel like.
What's stopping you bros? Live the dream. Don't fall for the memes.

Implying placebo is not effective or is a bad thing
It's all about convincing your brain

>I fap 4, 5 times a day, watch anime all day, play vidya all day, smoke weed all day, and my gf won't hesitate to give me head or ride me whenever I feel like.
>Live the dream.

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Of course, I forgot to add that I eat pizza, and drink a lot of beer, lol.
Sporting a manly beer belly is the ultimate form of the chad who is beyond wasting time doing pushups.

NEVER

My dream includes playing videogames/use the internet less than two hours a day, not masturbating, not weed, no beer, almost no anime (I do that one already, anime is mostly shit) and no head (hell, almost no sex at all).
Pizza is cool though.
So yeah, no thanks.

Dreams are customizable my dude.
I couldn't live without weed, food or pussy/head, but I could live without the rest.

>I couldn't live without weed, food or pussy/head
We have very different dreams, user.

no im a fucking saddo. got a gf but let her just go had a good opportunity to have a decent career as well. in spite of these failures, sports, especially tennis, is a meditation in of itself. when u are with an opponent and as the competition demands absolute focus you are completely alone and through this concentration , even for a fleeting moment, the real becomes tangible.

What the fuck?
Can you actually explain how you went from "gym" to "sex" and detail this heavily please?

too much masturbation downregulates dopamine receptors

it's not placebo

1. have sex

These posts are so pathetic to me. Imagine being such a dweeb that the first thing that comes to mind after achiveing something is blogging about it on Yea Forums.

Bet all you could think about was the "have sex" meme while doing it.

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Oops. Meant to call you based.

Based.

This board has more middle schoolers then you could ever imagine

Aww you gonna cwy? You gonna cwy you big boyby?

>my life has been squandered
you're probably no older than 25.

He doesn't have to be. you haven't had sex before 18 your life is squandered.

16 is the cutoff for setting the tracks in the right direction

You guys are no older than 21. I know because I'm not.

You're coping. I know because i'm not.

did you also learn that psychoanalysis is specifically reserved for face-to-face interaction?

>If you don't have sex you can't have a personality
Feels really, really, really fucking bad man

A naive underage faggot trying to hand out life advice like he knows shit, color me surprised

Put it the other way around and it starts to make sense. No personality, no sex.

a degree in armchair psychology I see. Music allows me to express my personality, feelings, memories etc more clearly. It isn't my personality itself. Everyone has a personality, cause everyone has memories and feelings. If your personality isn't strong enough you might fall into the trap of joining subcultures, yes. That's when others decide for you what you like and don't like, what to think, feel and want.

However, I still believe every member of this group has their own personality, they just (sub)consciously choose not to show it

too much masturbation literally makes your body addicted to dopamine spikes triggered by orgasm, resulting in pic related
not to mention masturbating too much causes hair loss because your body stops trying to lookmax because hair growth is your body signalling virility to potential mates. If you constantly bust nuts, your body stops producing hair on your head because it assumes you're a Chad and don't need to look your best to get laid.

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The picture I can believe, the other part sounds like uberbroscience

why do you think so many beta males go bald?
they fap like crazy. They don't even look human, they look 20 years older than they should and have this dead look in their eyes and face.
Stop fapping for a while and take a look in the mirror. Literally everything improves. Your eyes have more life, your cheeks are less puffy and your facial structure is more defined. Your hairline improves and hair grows faster.
I stopped fapping after I noticed my hairline receded a quarter inch. Since I stopped fapping the hairline came back and my hair grows much thicker. for me personally it works and I'm never going to fap again.

If cumming means you go bald, then why the fuck aren't all chads bald? shouldn't their bodies also ''Stop trying to lookmax''?

They're beta because they look bad and not the other way around. An ill vessel does't give way to a healthy mind and opportunities for social development. The stress then acts as an amplifier for hair loss in addition.

They are becoming bald. Most of the famous ones transplant hair tho

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what do you mean? look at James deen's hairline recede in a matter of a few years after becoming a porn star.
rich Chad's get hair transplants.

I love music

Lol I really hope people don't believe this shit about hair loss. I'm 37 with a full head of hair and I haven't gone more than a 3-4 days without having sex or jerking off since I was maybe 14. My dad and brother also have a full head of hair.
Do you also believe roast actually comes from women having multiple sex partners? Fucking broscience man

I mean if you regularly fap every 3 days that's pretty good

>why do you think so many beta males go bald? they fap like crazy.
it's another episode of Yea Forums endocrinology experts

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I still average 5-6 times a week. I'm married so it's like sex 3-4 times a week on avg and jerking off 1-2 times a week on avg. Rarely go more than a day except when my wifes on her period or I'm sick or some shit.
Pretty sure I just got lucky with my genetics as far as balding goes since I also drank and smoked a ton throughout most of my 20's.

Yeah the thing about a lot of the science behind nofap is that it's not one size fits all. Some people just have a naturally good libido and others break themselves if they fap more than once a week.

Very true. This is why I encourage everyone to try it seriously at least once just to see if it works on you

For me personally, it depends on how well I can distract myself. If I wanna do it but I have to constantly tell myself not to I feel like a shit, but if it's not on my mind I feel great

I literally never gave a fuck about music before I started going to the gym and needed something to listen to while working out.
I'd wager OP is lying for (You)s

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Did you even think for a second it was the truth?

considering you fall for bullshit placebo like nofap, the only way it could be true is if you dim-witted brain forced itself to stop being passionate so you could be a "chad normie" or whatever

either this is a popular meme or the truth, because I see this being posted on fit and mu from time to time

Imagine leaving in ignorant solipsism like that

Was this a misquote? Why are you mad at me?