Why do normalfags have such a hard time understanding that not every man is socially gifted enough to have sex or get a gf. I was bullied by my entire high school. Whenever I even considered fighting back, the core bullies literally explicitly told me they'd kill or cripple me after school in retaliation. Every time I said something I would be browbeaten and told I was a retard. My brain shuts down when under stress so I can't think fluidly enough to have any comebacks or insults and I lack wit to begin with. I am only booksmart. I now how an inferiority complex and frequent relapses that $9462 of therapy, lifting weights, reading, hobbies, and drugs have not fixed. I nearly killed myself when I was 18 from the emotional pain they caused me and the domino effects of it. I had no idea how to even get laid in college, most irl friends I made betrayed me, and it is a miracle I have the ability to hold normal conversations with people. These fucking pissants act like everyone grew up with the nonstop positive reinforcement that they did. Obviously if you are popular/normal in high school and not called ugly by every girl you meet from age 10-18 you will have tons of confidence. Obviously this will lead to you having a better life and the avalanche of benefits only grows from there
Their final response is always, ALWAYS: 'Well you just gotta figure it out bro.'
If I was going to be able to figure it out, I think I would have by now. I remember the first time I asked a girl out. The moment I did, Chad came in out of nowhere and swooped her in his arms and spun her around like they were in a movie. When I thought I had a chance with a girl in college and believed we hit it off, the next time I saw her she was with a tall white man with bigger muscles than me. It was a fucking joke. It's all a fucking joke
Nigga I graduated from the 25th ranked university in the country as a double major, double minor in just over 3 years. That's after I dropped out of HS and only had a GED and my SAT scores to get me in. I took the SAT test for the first time when I was in 7th grade at Duke University, an ivy league college. I'm a published writer. I have been since I was 12. I was a junior American ambassador to Australia when I was 16, where I got to stay for 2 months free of charge. I got to spain for free when I was 17, based solely off my scholastic merits, merits that I accomplished while I was stoned and drunk the entire time and had 67 absences on average a year. I speak 4 languages. I am learning a 5th now. Not only am I as half as smart as I think, but even half of my intelligence would still trump your basic understanding of knowledge itself. Knuckle dragging fucking narcissist. Yeah my ego is huge, yeah I'm bipolar, and I admit it openly. But I can back up everything I've ever said here. None of it is scripted like the alternate reality you so vehemently cling to and try with every fiber in your being to convince people who see right through you of your aforementioned false reality you bitch ass nigga. And to think, I thought you were being serious about burying the hatchet. You’re so good at deception that you fooled a dude with a degree in criminal psychology, again. Make no mistake that it was the last time, though. You’re going to die alone in a hole somewhere covered in your own shit and piss if you don't heed my genuinely heartfelt advice to you, coward.
What can you offer to a girl? I’m seriously asking in a genuine way, not trying to insult or belittle you.
Ian Jackson
i dont know if i even want a gf at this point. there are so many of them that are awful people. I feel the same about men
When you are shit on for as long as i have been it's hard to care anymore
Lucas Garcia
It gets easier in your thirties. Work on yourself as much as possible. Get a decent job and cultivate interests. After you hit thirty people start to become less shallow, insecure, self involved and hostile, and instead become introspective, relaxed, self confident and aware that we're all just lonely people looking for someone to take care of and be taken care of in turn. Many people that were bullies or popular in highschool probably just rode that wave of power and popularity until it burned out and the rest managed to keep it going to the point where theyre now part of society's elite. Either way they're above or beneath your notice to the point where it doesn't matter and if you have your shit worked out and stable you're a valuable commodity in the 30+ dating market
When you get to that point, put yourself out there. In the meantime learn to stop bitching and moaning, high school was a lifetime ago. Learn to identify good qualities in yourself as a potential partner and as an individual. Identify those quality and appreciate them, do not give in to identifying and obsessing over the bad qualities or experiences you have had. No one wants to be part of a pity party.
I could go on but I think you get the idea. Good luck user. We're all gonna make it.
Andrew Roberts
>the rest managed to keep it going to the point where theyre now part of society's elite
I dont think he will particularly find that uplifting user
>high school was a lifetime ago
it doesnt matter how long ago it was. when events happen to people it effects them and changes them for better or worse. you should know the saying: you are the sum of your experiences", well experiences as a kid make the bedrock of who you are. That's why so many fags and BPD people were raped as kids. It being a 'lifetime ago' doesnt matter
Jacob Jones
Get a haircut and become a normalfag.
Jackson Martin
Just andwer the question man. Because from your post I got the feeling tbat you feel rejected and lonely.
Jackson Thompson
It's just ignorance dude and the love of feeling better about yourself. You must have heard this, the fastest way to make yourself feel big is to make another feel small.
Jacob Butler
im balding and shaved it off
Adam Hernandez
Ignore this guy OP. He's ngmi. His attitude stinks
Isaac Roberts
i dont fucking know man. i have a decent income and an apartment and i'm buying a sports car in november if society doesnt die
not sure what kind of response you are looking for
Landon Peterson
well im not evil so i wont do that to others
Liam Bailey
So far so good, so you’re not some loser in life, you’re doing alright. But I was asking more in terms of personal qualities or features.
Justin Nelson
I wasn't implying that I was just explaining their actions user.
Julian Clark
why are you even asking him this? do you think he is in a mental state to evaluate some subjectively 'good qualities' he has? women dont care about that shit anyway. women want dominant, sociopathic, strong men
Christian Miller
You’re wrong and sound like an incel
Brandon Gonzalez
history and modern society disagrees with you
Christian Johnson
bro im not reading all of that, u rlly need to just figure it out user, it gets better.
Joseph Hernandez
I’m trying to give him helpful advice
Jeremiah Edwards
>Why do normalfags have such a hard time understanding that not every man is socially gifted enough to have sex or get a gf
Was socially awkward in school
Bald
Fat (5-8 and 190)
Dated trannies as well as actual women.
Happily married for 3+ years
Wife is 6/10 at best, but I broke her hymen
OP is not just a fag, but a failure
Jace Campbell
cringe response
Samuel Myers
>everyone is me with my exact same circumstances and individual strengths
This is what narcissism looks like folks. Your wife is probably a sow
Gavin Harris
Dude. Darwinism is not wrong. I'm sorry and that's it.
Levi White
Sounds like someone won't be having kids.
I kek, knowing that once I kill you, no one will give a shit about your existence.
Hear you. Not greentexting my shit. Not suggesting you are blackpilled and have no hope but we all do not have the same opportunities. No stock, cliche advice. Try to figure it out. “Pussy on the pedestal” Pay a whore to de-incel yourself. Sex may be one of the rights of passage that a dude needs, but it is not the holy grail of what defines you. Like it or not, financial security is a major deal. Focus on that.
Colton Nelson
Get your mental health fixed first. It's the most important, more important than any females. Sage.
Dylan Davis
acquire economic wealth. i live in shithole eastern european country average wage like 200 usd here yet i have prestigious job pays me 4k usd per month.now whores in high school text me to meet up for talk about ''old times''.yet i dont give shit about them i pay escort 2-3 times per month for fuck. dont give fuck about people who say escorts for losers. if those woman doesnt attracted to our face what can we do about it ? also if youre white you can go africa or south east asia girls there droll over whites even youre ugly as fuck
Ian Clark
well pull your boots up by your bootstraps and bootstrap your boots because you just gotta figure it out son
Owen Wright
Paying for sex probably won't help this guy because it's not a genuine acceptance from a woman but simply a transaction. I hope it does fix some of his insecurity buy just trying to establish realistic expects.
Daniel Morales
Literally no advice is ever helpful. If you don't get it, you don't get it. It's like being blind. You can't give advice on how to see.
Ryan Turner
i already said i went to therapy, which did not work at all because it was a normalfag with a popular teenage experience trying to talk to someone who was abused
Aiden Morales
If you can convey yourself and articulate your situation as well as you can, you are intelligent enough to be able to get a girl to have sex with you.
Ian Long
Relax, bud. Watch some Youtube videos and get drunk like the rest of us losers. Life is good.
Gabriel Flores
Yep. But it will provide experience and build confidence. Any dude who thinks that hooking up with a whore will result in anything more than sex is delusional.
Adrian James
i took 10 minutes to type that and had all the time in the world to think about what I said. it wasnt occurring in real time. Typing is also slower than talking
Sebastian Anderson
Just know you're not alone, OP. Lots of us are here in the same position if not worse.
Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Do what you think is right, fuck everyone else.
Asher Jackson
>Why do normalfags have such a hard time understanding that not every man is socially gifted enough to have sex or get a gf We do But I like flexing on the omega males who have been found unfit for breeding
Brayden Gutierrez
So it’s interactions with women where you struggle? Anxiety?
Liam Allen
why cant everyone be honest like you?
Grayson Gutierrez
i dont struggle to talk to women, its easy. They just dont want to date me and I lack the charisma and wit to charm them into sleeping with me or being my gf. It's the same reason I can talk to men but I never make friends with them
Hudson Howard
“I have no experience with women. What do I do?” “What you need is to talk to a therapist.”
HA!
Get an escort.
Tyler Butler
do meet.com or something and find other fags who have the same goals/interests as you
Christopher Green
So what? You just give up on it? Maybe try fixing it yourself. You'll always have problems if you can't fix it.
Bentley Myers
I fucking hate autocorrect sometimes, makes me come across retarded. I agree but for someone, literally anyone who's desired something for so long won't ever NOT have high expectations. Same shit when you finally buy that really nice car, you might be happy for a moment but you soon realize it was overrated. I mean, this may not be the best example but I hope my message is still understood.
Isaiah Edwards
Send vocaroo. Show me and I can fix it I guarantee
T wizard with women
Josiah Brown
I think the cucked part is that OP was abused by HS sociopaths and then he paid over $9k for the damage caused by those sociopaths. If you really think about it for a second, it's actually pathetic but its understandable he didnt consider that
Not him but I'd have punched you in the face if you said something this retarded and vague to me
Adam Campbell
Idk Just be yourself I am married and having an affair, women are easy Just do things that are interesting, and talk about it You may have to fight your autism and do things that you initially don't like I.e lift iron, run, do an actual man-hobby and get good at it (not anime or computers)
Zachary Davis
Have you not read his post, the man literally said he's been trying to fix it and spent nearly 10k in the process.
Luis Scott
Yeah, I can tell that you haven't tried it tho.
Andrew Bennett
>I.e lift iron, run, do an actual man-hobby and get good at it (not anime or computers)
he already said he does that, and as a /fit/fag i can concur that muscles and masculine hobbies font get you laid. starting to doubt if you have a wife
Xavier Cooper
Do you lift?
Start lifting Start exercising Start a man-hobby with real world skills
Yes it's hard. Yes it may initially not be fun. Yes you may even have to force yourself. But if you don't then you have a life of no pussy.
Robert Stewart
Should've got on keeps.
Tyler Foster
no amount of lifting, money, and experiences is gonna get rid of childhood trauma. It's just something OP is gonna have to live with and compensate for, like having a limp or having diabetes. If he sees the bullies again he will have to make a choice: beat them up or let them go
Well then join one of those public speaking groups Start volunteering at church Start doing something what women and men do, like rowing Need to out yourself where women are
Luke Foster
kek u actually got me to laugh at your sadness. hahahahahahah. i'm actually laughing as well as laughing directly at you like nelson t. simpsons.
also that girl looks like alex d that looks like cleveland's sad skyline
you're a BITCH. i hate normies too but it's because i'm just like stuck up. but, i had no choice but to be around stupid idiots. after hs my friends went to decent colleges and shit just got even more fucked up for me and i tell you hwat, the one thing I bet you haven't done is act fucking normal lol. Like I totally relate to the shutdown shit when my parents would yell at me and yeah make me do stuff I didn't want to do like you just shutdown but like well i could be normal with my friends as in smart funny jerk but I just never was fake until I started getting paid to be and even then it was not easy but it was a crash course bc I was being fake with absolute shitty shitpeople
Jackson Sanchez
why do you keep switching the goalposts? also women dont do rowing
Sebastian Robinson
Do you think you may be aiming to high for women out of your league? Get a practise gf
Mason Bailey
Because you said he was /fit/ and now he needs to focus on something else that is hindering him
Jeremiah Butler
>out of your league
you bought this myth? Attractive women are MORE likely to give you a chance, if only to switch things up and keep it interesting after all the chad dick they've taken.
Connor Barnes
>you bought this myth? Attractive women are MORE likely to give you a chance, if only to switch things up and keep it interesting after all the chad dick they've taken Ngmi
