How do I last longer during sex?

Being relaxed and calm while fucking
Fucking numerous times in a night will help and make it a Bette time

>have you tried fucking her again after the first quick cum?
>Also, you just can't cum only once
Yeah we go multiple rounds. Usually two, sometimes three, but after that I'm pretty spend. I cum at about the same pace during the 2nd round. Sometimes I want to go for a third round but I cant get hard anymore.

>You need to fuck her on a different pace
I still cum when I go slowly, but it does take slightly longer. Sometimes I just go soft though. imo it's also just less fun.

Start fucking dudes, you ain’t cut out for women.

I usually think of distressing things and it helps to delay the cum, just don't think of too distressing stuff cause that might kill the boner.

Don't be so into it. Focus on her and go slowly and it'll feel great, but you'll last longer. It's a mental thing.

men are meant to ejaculate as soon as possible from an evolutionary perspective, the female orgasm is a means of allowing females to accept rape from a purely evolutionary standpoint. Also might have something to do with conceiving a male.

in regards to wanting to last longer, circumcision removes 20k nerve endings from the head and then calcifies the glans which allows you to "last longer", but that is an extreme measure. You will have to work to train your body not to enjoy it so much basically so as to not initiate ejaculation. Focus on some form of problem solving scenario, either math or something requiring thought, it helps distract but runs the risk of redirecting blood flow. Also I have found that the more I jerked off, the faster I would then cum if fucking soon after, so quite paradoxically not blowing your load non stop might actually help you last longer.

>Sometimes I want to go for a third round but I cant get hard anymore
>Sometimes I just go soft though
what the fuck.. is she too tight? have you tried wearing a condom? condoms help me last longer

i read something online a while ago that i never got to try because i havent had sex since then. basically it says that premature ejac comes from your kegel muscles being weak. you know when you hold in a piss? thats your kegel muscles. you should try just clenching them as tight as you can when you feel like youre about to cum. that should do the trick

>My girlfriend says it doesn't bother her, but I can kind of tell that she's just being nice to me.
how bout licking her till SHE cums. And then lick her again?
if she cums twice everytime you pump and dump once, i guarantee you she won't mind.

You need to do long sessions of edging too learn to control what you feel, is hard but once you learn to control yourself you can cum in minutes or last several hours if you want, i been with firls that cum in 5 mins or less but girls can cum several times, and been with girls that take hours to get an orgasm, is about practice and patience to have a really good sexual partner, live and learn kid, and enjoy what you have when you have it

For me, a combination of pulling out and already having cummed earlier in the day does the trick, otherwise I'm done in like 90 secs

Pulling out works especially well if you're good enough at eating out to not kill the momentum, because that's more important than the actual act as far as her enjoyment goes

Do I need a prescription for that stuff and would you really recommend it? Will it fuck me up in some other way?

Lol

That doesn't sound very good haha, I guess I could try it, but I think it will just kill the mood.

Yeah going slowly would be the obv solution, but it's less fun and it often leads to me cumming anyway or going soft on her.

I don't think she is too tight, I'm pretty sure I'm just super sensitive. I've never used condoms before. I will try that.

I eat her out a lot to compensate. We use a magic wand too sometimes. I probably eat her out more than I actually have sex with her lol. She is the opposite of me and it takes quite a bit of effort to make her cum.

Yeah I pull out sometimes to give my dick a quick rest. It's kind of tiresome to go back and forth between quick bursts of fucking and eating out. Pulling out is honestly quite difficult, I've had plenty of times where I pulled out and ended up cumming or half cumming anyway.

Piss n shit before fucking and learn to relax
You can take Benadryl to reduce sensation

Can’t relate, 20 here and my gf says it’s a compliment if I cum pretty fast and takes it as an insult if I last too long

Sounds like she's getting off on how hot and unattainable she thinks she is

I'm almost 40, been with around 35 women, and I still cum in 2 or 3 minutes. Luckily I can go 2 or 3 rounds but the odd woman likes a very long hard pounding. If she's hot I can't do it. I've been everywhere from a coom addicted porn junkie to now having not watched porn in years. Doesn't make a difference

Not joking, acupuncture

Just enjoy yourself while it lasts and finish your girlfriend in some other way. Soon enough you will be old and need shit like Viagra to even get an erection.

Sure, it can have it's benefits too. We've fucked in fitting rooms and parks before because she knows I wont take very long.

Do you think my doctor would refer me to one, or would I have to look for one myself? And would I need to tell them about my issue?

>19
>will need viagra soon
>be me already

Get drunk, makes it harder to maintain an erection but you wont finish for a while. I dunno if this actually works or not tbh, ive never had issues going for a while.

Yea lol my wife hates the mess but loves the fuck. So it’s all good until it stops or she has cum too much.

I have this problem sometimes, my triggers for cumming are basically when I’m “into it”. If I am making out or all over my wife I have trouble controlling it still. The best thing I can do to help is do long division in my head or square/cube numbers in my head. Imagine a chalkboard in your head and start mathing away. It doesn’t have to be math, just something that distracts your mind from the pleasure of wet pussy or the woman. Math works for me because I like it and it is very thought intensive/mentally distracting. Also luckily year of working out and being a coomer allow me to stay hard after cumming 3 times or the ability to get hard again within >30 seconds.

My only weakness is eating pussy, as long as its clean and healthy it tastes fine. And if you can get into eating pussy they usually love it too, my wife is begging me to come fuck her before i want to stop and my sick is dripping.

But yea.. distract yourself, and control yourself. That’s probably the best key for most guys.
Also cut or uncut? Im not cut

Being high does the same thing, except the erection stays just fine but keeps me going for 10+ minutes

It eventually gets annoying that I haven't coomed yet but eh

I'd rather not drink or do weed, honestly. The idea of doing that before sex is unappealing to me.

dont try to last longer.. girls prefer when you nut fast- it means their pussys good and theres nothing fun about struggling to bust a nut for 45 minutes

if you wanna feel perform better get good at foreplay, girls appreciate that more

I have this issue user, been with my wife for over 10 years. Comes in waves for me.

I’ve found condoms and some numbing spray works and absolute treat but gotta wait 10 mins for it to kick in and you have to wear a condom or it’ll numb her too. I usually eat her out for a bit while the spray dries and works. I admit it’s not ideal for the spontaneous stuff, she sometimes starts to blow me and I’ll stop her right before I come then work on her for a while till she cums, then either get inside her or she’ll finish me with her mouth. For the less spontaneous stuff I’d recommend some spray though. Can be bought on Amazon for a tenner.

Also, communication with your partner is key. During sex and about how you feel about the issue in general.

Good luck op.

Well it doesn't have to be that long, but it'd be nice if I could go for like 10 minutes right? Or if she could give me a nice blowjob. And I do plenty of foreplay, dont worry. Do you think she's being honest though, when she says it doesn't matter? Because that's not the sense I get.

do you workout user? if no start cardio or lifting weights ASAP.Focus on the leg workouts. Im currently in the same boat as you where i dont last longer than 5 minutes but i was regularly fucking for 20 minutes before i stopped working out.

Pay attention to the tension in your thighs.
When you feel like cumming, untense your thighs and focus on your thighs in your mind's eye.
Relieves tension and keeps your mind off the fact you're balls deep in poon, hopefully should give you a restart and you can go a bit slower.
Also, change the pace up as you need and just call it variety.

Yeah I will definitely be trying out condoms. Do you think I should talk to her about it more often? She says it doesn't bother her, but I dont really believe her and it does bother me. I know porn isn't real, but I'd still like to have an intense session where I can really enjoy the sensation of it without having to numb myself.

Yep, I do figure skating with my gf and I hit the gym 3 times a week.

what routine do you follow in the gym user? I used to do Legs Push Pull (3 sets) for 6 days when i was fucking good. Maybe try amping up the intensity? Good luck though

Squats, BP, deadlifts, rows and OHP

just 6 or 7? try 12 newbie

I'll try. The thing is, I just kinda want to fuck without it having to be super concentrated. Sometimes my gf likes to ride me, so I will have less control over my thigh tension.

ah, youre good user. I had a talk with my gf about the same and i believe her. She said she is happy as long as im making an effort to work on it. Maybe try telling her how you are trying to get better? Im sure she will appreciate that more than the sex itself.

That's rough but I have the opposite problem. I last and last and take hours to cum. It sucks. Anyhow to fix your problem work on foreplay more. Eat her out like it was your last meal, don't know how? Consult the internet. If you made her cum once or twice she won't care you cum fast

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Another minute man reporting in here, what I do is pound away right up until the moment i'm about to cum then stop and squeeze like you're holding in a piss, you can kiss and stuff while you're doing this too. Sometimes I'll feel a little jizz trickle out, that's fine as long as you don't have to pull out or anything. It ain't easy but it helps.

When I start going again I can last like 5+ mins. Shit sucks though, I used to last like 10 to 15 mins as a teen without issue now I'm in my late 20s and I could probably cum in less than a minute if I was super horny.

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Google a TCM (traditional Chinese medicine) or acupuncture place near you. Or look at Groupon if they deals near you. You don’t have to go through a gp, just book straight with the place.

They will ask basic medical/health patterns and you need to tell and them and be honest with the premature ejaculation. They can help with acupuncture and supplements. Worked for me. There are definitely solutions more than numbing your dick or just dealing with it forever

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True, a lot of it is mental though. I cum real quick if my partner is really vocal or I'm super into them, so it helps to get your mind out of the moment for a little bit.
Besides, this is usually short term shit, the novelty will wear off eventually (physically and mentally) and you'll last longer anyway.

>19 years old
Found the problem.

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Hey bro
>Sometimes I'll feel a little jizz trickle out
The moment this happens it's just over for me, like, I can't just cum a little bit.

I'll try squeezing more, but I just feel like sex is less fun if I have to put in constant effort like that.

Well, you can try and go slowly.

Also, try taking weed.

Alright, I will look into it. My sister has done acupuncture before, so I'm sure there is some chinese penis doctor nearby.

Lucky you. I'm cut pretty bad. Last weekend I fucked my wife four times in the cunt, two times in her mouth, and once in her ass. She augmented with her Hitachi and cummed five times. I didn't get to cum at all until last night. Be thankful you don't have a numb dick. Also, gas all kikes.

What's your mindset in regards to your GF?
I find if you're super stoked to be having sex, you cum really fast.
Legitimately have lasted longer with my ex when I was sorted pissed off with her and just smacking her ass and railing her rather than slow, intimate shit.
Physically, it should have made me cum faster, but mentally I was less exited about having sex with her, so lasted longer.

It's weird shit man, talk to your GF, and get good at eating pussy, she won't even care that much.
Draw letters around the clit with your tongue.

That's some good advice user. I feel like I could learn a thing or two from you.
>Not OP, just another lurking 19 year old

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I love her and I get turned on quickly when I'm with her, unless were in a really formal setting or if there are people we know nearby. If I'm really not in the mood for sex I have trouble getting hard at all. And I'm a good pussy eater (I think) so I should be fine in that regard.

Good pussy will make you do that!

While you're banging, you don't love her. Pretend she's someone else, or that you hate her and this is an anger fuck.
I don't mean this in a bad way, conversely if you can make yourself less turned on by her, she'll get more pleasure.

Viagra won't help. You need to exercise your kegel muscles so you can stop yourself shooting too soon.

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>I don't mean this in a bad way
Yeah I understand what you're saying. I will try to get in a different mindset when I fuck her. My dick is very sensitive though, so no guarantee that it will do anything.

Worth a try, if it doesn't work, it is what it is

OP here, I have to go now, but thanks for all the suggestions. There's definitely some useful stuff here. Thanks!