Apparently I'm a "dark empath" and "not a good person"

Apparently I'm a "dark empath" and "not a good person".

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Sure, why give context, user

It's all bullshit labels OP, apparently I'm a "sex offender" and I "shouldn't be allowed near children".

"Dark empath" sounds cool

damn bro, she into crystals and astrology right?

Nigger

What’s a dark empath?

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KILL YOURSELF FAGGOT

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Sounds like me. I put myself in other people's shoes and judge the fuck out of them by looking at all the things they aren't doing to better themselves. At this point in my life I've realized weak people are immoral people and should be shamed rather than celebrated.

That's what I figure. I looked for academic papers. Seems like it was written by someone that felt exposed in a confrontation.
A woman misinterpreted me and when I explained why I thought that was, she started accusing me of this shit. Which is the exact behavior I was pointing out to begin with.

You have misinterpreted me. Not only that but you have very rigidly defined behavior. That is why I think you're a bot.
If you aren't, good luck man. You can get out of the human-bot hole if you start looking at the patterns.

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Never, I'm not trying until I find someone a woman that isn't too fragile that she is triggered by my personality and likes me.
I have better shit to do with my day than a bunch of work to make a nice life for a hypothetical leech.

Never explain your thought process to another person.
You can explain logic or science but never expose how you reached from A to if they disagree with your outcome they'll just start attacking parts of how you got there to invalidate your point.

Instead just tell her:
I'm here for you if you want to talk about it, I'm sorry for my actions, I didn't fully comprehend how my actions would impact you or others beforehand and now that I see the outcome I feel shame and remorse.
You can humbly and with regret take full responsibility without letting a Netflix Psychologist woman decide what you are.

Also if she's not your family, you can just never talk to her again if she's a bitch even after you repent. Walk away, meet new people. She has zero power.

it flows with the context of superstition & judgement, the language is similar & i wasnt going to make a new thread to vent

these tarot videos keep saying im magical & have a devine purpose, that i will accomplish my dreams, & win the lotto, & meet my soul mate, etc. basically just bullshit, but she tends to promote psychological confidence methods, & she has a lovely voice & calm demeanor, & i get addicted to her enthusiasm even if its just an act.

kill yourself retarded mentally handicapped frogposter. you have the mental capacity of a seven year old child. your life is a complete and utter failure. when you finally kill yourself your parents will be relieved. you will never be a woman nigger kike.

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I'm aware of all of this.
I just think it's funny how assertive people are slowly being pigeonholed. Insecure people can't take being seen and that's their problem.

True, I just leave them alone.
I tried to help in my 20s but even if you lift up a weak person they're not suddenly strong and effective.

I thought as much, just checking.
Are you only watching the videos or are you reading as well? Tarot is pretty archaic and I think you have misinterpreted some of it. Perhaps talk to her by asking questions, as a viewer. Clarify what she means by magic and divinity. It might be more mundane than you think it is and that could lead to conversations where you understand each other better, no?
I only noticed this because my perspective on magic, divinity and superstition changed a lot once I started reading philosophers. I always thought it was lies foolish people believe but that is only part of it. Good luck.

>but even if you lift up a weak person they're not suddenly strong and effective.
That is why you don't lift them up, you just show them the path and let them brave it on their own.
It's the process of taking that path that makes people stronger.

>dark empath
Ok cat lady

You haven't said a single intelligible thing this entire thread. Your rigid programming continues, you're a bot.

Exactly, you get it. Some people can take it but some can't. A hard truth to face is that some people you know, maybe you yourself, are being squeezed out of the gene pool for an inability to compete.

>"dark empath"
An empath is just someone who is particularly sensitive to the emotions/energies/whateverthefuckyouwanttocallit of others. I don't see how it can be 'dark'. It's also nothing too special. Everyone is born an empath we just learn to block out all that noise because for the most part it's just noise.

"Dark Empath" sounds like twice as much bullshit as "Empath"

1) people claiming "dark" empaths are a thing are identifying a desire to control people combined with the sensitivity you're noticing
2) you learn to tune it out because it's rightfully distracting and makes you a bad worker
just something to think about

>identifying a desire to control people combined with the sensitivity
Makes sense I guess, just an extra layer of bullshit. Auras exist but we're never going to understand the metaphysics when the occult will always be 98% charlatans

Oh I agree, it is bullshit blame-shifting, a symptom of human nature.

>Clarify what she means by magic and divinity
i was oversimplifiying, but she does use language like that.

i wasnt into tarot at all before, but ive been watching tons of her videos lately & making my own observations on certain visual patterns in the various decks she uses, but how it actually applies to my life or her interpretation is usually vague or meaningless in most cases, or dependant on my imagination.

in one video i was worried about a friend in ukraine at the start of the war & the reading said im gonna be ok, im gonna win everything, & there would be a hard part with a fallen tower but everything is good. so i fixated on that, when my friend hadnt evacuated. their apartment building was one of the first to get bombed into nothing, & i used that as a reminder that they must be ok when there was longer periods of no communication. eventually they got to the west safely after 2 or 3 weeks. the videos were made before the war, & she hasnt done anything specifically referencing it, so thats how my interpretation fits in.

i dont leave comments on her videos because google is a pain to make a new account, but i sent her an email about helping her with something & the problem fits my skillset. but just opening up that much made me feel humiliated when i dont get any response, & it made me reconsider her sincerity of connecting with people or if im just too unstable to let myself watch her videos.

also, i tried finding her pictures online to see if shes cute, & i couldnt find anything but i did find a girl with the same name that does yoga & is really gorgeous. so i get in this mindset of feeling worthless because of how fucked my life is & knowing women like that would never accept me.

Have you thought about what it would even be like if she did accept you? An LDR is stressful even without the current restrictions. You're falling apart before you've even talked, could you handle it?

People who claim to be empaths are no more sympathetic than anyone else, but they decide what other people must feel about a given situation and project those feelings onto those people. They're delusionsal. Dark empaths are this, with a heavy dose of manipulation tossed in.

Wanting a stronger society is bad, you are a dark empath. These retarded terms are made up by the same people that using “colored language” like ‘dark’ to describe something bad is racism. Print it on a hat and wear it lol

Agreed.
I didnt and still don't claim to be an empath, I was accused of it. Like made a point of, most people just tune it out.

I think similarly about them.

These people think big words are a verbal attack instead of asking what it means or looking up definitions.

You can pick up on potentially negative attributes of others which makes you a dark empath

Though it's all so tiresome it's all bad faith semantics

Very astute. What do you think would be needed for it to change?

>You're falling apart before you've even talked
thats my point with being unstable

>LDR is stressful
to clarify the tarot youtuber isnt in ukraine, but she is just as far away from me

i just let too much of her energy get to me, & the consequence of artificially lifting people up is either you have to keep holding them up or they crash back down. unless i actually win the lotto, losing trust in her sincerity inhibits my ability to take positive messages from her readings.

lately its been a new experience, because a lot of things have been really in sync with her, & when i watched other youtube tarots, most of them were unbearable or just very wrong. so seeing someone i could relate to so consistently on this kind of level was very disarming to me.

then i made the mistake of watching the videos about how a crush feels & it ended up encouraging my romantic delusions. over a few videos, a story starts to embelish of this 'relationship', & ways i normally try to see the future start to overlap. i was coming to a point of having to preemptively decide to keep her at a distance, because the spiritual connection might be more rewarding or acheivable than a romantic one, while her cards kept telling me to take more risks & handle things slowly.

but instead i cant even have a conversation & i start deconstructing the signifigance of any interpretation. even thinking that she could be honest, but the cards are lying just to fuck with me. thats always how hope goes, its just a carrot leading you off a cliff.

>real context: youtuber i dont even know, doesnt answer my email after a few days
>psychic bullshit & mental problems are a bad mix

>i just let too much of her energy get to me, & the consequence of artificially lifting people up is either you have to keep holding them up or they crash back down. unless i actually win the lotto, losing trust in her sincerity inhibits my ability to take positive messages from her readings.
let "her" crash, you already know what you're doing so the fantasy is basically spoiled anyways. the real person is someone that shits just like you do, you winning the lotto isn't dependent on you knowing you'll win either.
>lately its been a new experience, because a lot of things have been really in sync with her, & when i watched other youtube tarots, most of them were unbearable or just very wrong. so seeing someone i could relate to so consistently on this kind of level was very disarming to me.
does it need to be anything more than that? you feel vulnerable to her but she doesn't know you as it is a parasocial relationship. your vulnerability is already being exploited and you're doing it to yourself
>then i made the mistake of watching the videos about how a crush feels & it ended up encouraging my romantic delusions. over a few videos, a story starts to embelish of this 'relationship', & ways i normally try to see the future start to overlap. i was coming to a point of having to preemptively decide to keep her at a distance, because the spiritual connection might be more rewarding or acheivable than a romantic one, while her cards kept telling me to take more risks & handle things slowly.
nvm i guess you understood that
>but instead i cant even have a conversation & i start deconstructing the signifigance of any interpretation. even thinking that she could be honest, but the cards are lying just to fuck with me. thats always how hope goes, its just a carrot leading you off a cliff.
you appear to be thinking yourself into corners
1/2

i recommend reading philosophy to expand your world view. some advice i received about reading philosophy is to consider it simply as someone else's perspective rather than the truth.
The reason I'm recommending philosophy is that it helped me when I was similarly stuck in single track thinking. You are obsessive. I recommend Hume and Kant.

>the fantasy is basically spoiled anyways
its like a form of existential nihilism, & believing in a world that doesnt exist. except its more like the world does exist, but i dont. & letting those stories in my head doesnt actually change my life or show that i could if i tried. but stories can change how we feel & sometimes how we feel is all thats holding us back. except that i dont exist

>you appear to be thinking yourself into corners
yeah im normally good at that
not just corners, i fold space & time like origami & envelope myself in paradox

dark triad

I'm a dark empath and it pretty much means I absorb npds negative emotions

>reading philosophy
I can smell the poverty on you....
You need to recommend a book....not a fucking field or an author, plebe.

what do you call it when you reverse empath & force people to take on your emotions?

No idea. I can't do that

Most ppl can't take on other ppls emotions. And I think what ur referring to is a Narcissist.

i mean how, empathic is like chameleon changes its colors, but the reverse of that would be more like lucid dreaming. theres a name for it isnt there?

I'm sorry. I don't follow

imagine you put some food in the stinky fridge, & the food absorbs all the shit air & tastes bad. thats empathic. reverse empathic would be more like a bowl of cereal, where the cereal changes the milk color. the difference of subjective & projection rather than absorption.

Anyone who unironically refers to themselves or others as an "empathy" is a narcissist and a projector. People who can't control their own emotions wil control other people's behaviour to accomodate, which includes labeling you as something worse than them or that you're not to regulate their own ego.

*Empath

My phone corrected it cause it's not even a real word lmao, that should tell you all you need to know.

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