Help Yea Forumsros: I've been seeing this girl for 1.5 years now (known her for longer) and we're exclusive...

How do you want to play this, breakup and walk away or have some fun? You confront her and guilt trip her and maybe in the meantime make her feel worthless and try to patch things up with you. Fuck her like you always wanted to but were considerate of because she's your gf as a way to make up for it then dump her ass when finished.

Speak for yourself

Its pathetic to even ask. Grow balls. Confront and move on from her.

Establish dominance, sleep with him first.

This. Mentally end her

OP here- I’m at this crossroad right now. We talked about doing freaky stuff with a 3rd in the bedroom, but we agreed it would be a girl only. Now that I’ve found out she’s trying to fuck other dudes, I feel like I’ve been backstabbed

Dump the bitch and never speak to her again.
But you probably won't listen to me...because you're a cuck.

The first answer is the correct answer.
Your only other option to to sit back and wait for her to cheat. Even if you bring it up to her and she promises nothing has or will happen, eventually it will. Maybe not with the guy that shes talking to now, but one day another guy will message her and she'll just be more cautious and sneaky about it.

So you'd rather allow her to cheat on you, probably repeatedly if she thinks she can get away with it, than deal with an uncomfortable situation. Nobody should fault you for leaving when she's planning this shit.

I’m totally speaking for myself when I say that I seldom come on here and when I do it’s just for a reality check/reminder that I’ll never be someone like you lol.

Sadly you’re probably right about that. I’m stuck because I love her but I know she’s not wife material at the same time

Definitely not a cuck, as in if I walked in on her and the guy I wouldn’t hesitate to leave him in a bloody pulp. However it feels like I have a chance to do something about it before it gets to that point

I don't know what you want OP, sounds like you just want this to go away but it's not going to. Things are going to awkward in the aftermath if you breakup but you better say your piece first, just some advice.

>I love her but I know she’s not wife material at the same time
The longer you stay together the harder its going to be once you catch her.

Best advice I've seen in a long time.
Thanks, and sorry Yea Forumsro

OP here: what do you guys think is the best way to confront her about this? Since I found out via a sketchy method, it doesn’t entirely put me in the right. I get that you shouldn’t look through someone’s phone, but I had a nagging suspicion and confirmed it. Any ideas?

Give us something to work with OP. What was the sketchy method?

Unfortunately those other reasons mean nothing and you need to do what’s best for yourself. Tbh they’ll side with you considering she did the cheating.

Oh also post her nudes pls, no face obviously

I have a sharp memory so I memorized her phone pass from sight once. It was too hard not to use that knowledge once I had it

Hate to say it, but you're going to need to take it on the chin here.
Make sure to keep proof if needed.
Anyone who takes her side in this you dont need in your life anyways.
Dont choose comfort and complacency over truth. Its a direct route to misery in life.

Can you gaslight her into thinking she shared it with you or some bs scenario where slipped up?

No need to be sorry to me lad. Get yourself back out there I bet you're young too. Good luck to you my Yea Forumsro

>However it feels like I have a chance to do something about it before it gets to that point

Fool. Idiot.

If she's not "wife material", why THE FUCK would you bother with doing something to prevent it?

She is SHOWING YOU WHO SHE IS!

Grow some fucking balls, Jesus Christ...

Make copies of the information you have and send it to all of her friends. Affairs DIE in the daylight. It doesn't matter HOW you found out, you found out. That's enough.

Put her ass on the curb and walk the fuck away, OR hand her the knife to carve your heart out.

Those are your choices. You've been given good advice, far better than you deserve. Stop trying to talk yourself into accepting her behavior and step off

survivnginfidelity.com Tell'em Cee64E sent you.

Honestly at this point I’ve thought about all kinds of crazy shit. Like convincing her that I know by “intuition”. But she would still think I’m unaware and try to lie, which also hurts.

Also thinking about making up a mystery person who “told” me, and I won’t reveal who it is

At this point I would just ghost her to be honest, if you try to end this with conversation she will grow into your head

Is the guy she wants to fuck single?

Yo, Idiot... When you confront her and she asks how you found out you tell her that's not her problem. NEVER GIVE UP YOUR SOURCES

You don’t have to confront her, or cause a scene, or any of that high school bullshit. Just fucking leave. Go full ghost, leave for milk and never come back, change your number, ect… She is actively planning on cheating on you (if she hasn’t already) you don’t owe her shit, no explanation, no reason, no motivation, leave her guessing. If you run into her in public pretend you don’t know her. Alternatively you can take the bitch way out and say some vague chick-shit like “it just wasn’t working out. Be a man, grow some self respect and just bounce. It will make her chick brain crazy wondering what could have possibly gone wrong, dont ease those thoughts by actually telling her…

It will fuck her up if you don't tell her why you're leaving. At least you can go out knowing you'll be in her head rent free for a long time

Girls have 5 guys on the go all the time. You’re being cucked

This

Easy OP, you approach her calmly and admit what you found. You say you don’t want to have a fight but just want an honest conversation about it and that you love her. Ask her if she’s unhappy. And ultimately that you’re okay with it. Become a Cuck, keep her, keep her bro. Win/win for everyone.

This might be the best advice as long as you never say anything it should work out.

It doesn't matter if it's the easiest thing, it isn't complicated at all. It's the only option unless you're a bitch.

Post nudes

So you know exactly what you have to do, but you won't because you're a weak faggot. Pathetic.

Just say you're breaking up with her, and when she asks why, say "You know why". When she pushes further, tell her you know what she's been doing behind your back, and when she asks how you know of this thing, tell her to shut the fuck up and stop the bullshit. Never say how you found out, it's irrelevant, she'll just try to use it against you. You've seen the evidence for yourself so there's nothing for her to try to convince. If she keeps dodging, tell her to shut the fuck up and leave you alone, it's over. You never actually have to say what it is you caught her doing, she will eventually own up to it.

OP you still here? Share your thoughts on what you might do after hearing us faggots.

Just walk away. Break all contact.

This

This is the way

Just leave. If you respect yourself at all cut everything you've ever known about her out of your heart. If you find yourself hoping to fix it then you should cut that out of you too, you're nothing to this person.

Everyone cheats, given the opportunity, so it depends if you want to stick around with her.

He’s a divorced dad only a year or two older than us. He sends her clips of him banging some white trash looking women

Cope. Infidelity is really low in certain personality types.

Ok, my idea is out the window now. I think at this point this advice is best for you user maybe don't swear and shit but as long as you hold this will probably work.

I hate people like this so much. Is it a wonder she's cheating?
>Better let her walk all over me or I might lose her family as my friends.

OP here- she is home now so responses will be slower. I might probe by asking her what she thinks cheating is. More specifically, eventually leading to if it counts as cheating to not fuck another person, but send them nudes while you are exclusive. If she admits that is a form of cheating, then she will nail her own coffin.

Post her nudes in revenge and break up when you catch her cheating

I am interested on that, whenever you do it please update us what was her reaction

bump cause I want to know what happens, in my opinion I would send all evidence to yourself and show family before breaking up. If she wants to ruin the relationship for some other dude she is willing to risk shaming her family as well

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you won't be able to live with yourself if you move in with her. she's cheating on you and you know it. you will not be able to forget or forgive.

start coming to terms with the fact that the "happily ever after" outcome is off the table for you. it is not meant to be. she made absolutely sure of that.

you cannot fix this. women who cheat are already mentally checked out of their current relationships. she had swung branches a long time ago.

no amount of begging or talking will change the outcome here. you only need to focus on preserving your dignity right now. the relationship is done.

>HERE IS WHAT YOU MUST DO

act like nothing is wrong. say you're actually not feeling the new place and want to chill where you are for a bit longer. stress that it is not her fault.

she will press the issue. remain completely aloof and disaffected like you don't really care either way. say "i dunno...i just wanna keep my options open."

slowly stop texting and calling her. if you see her two times week, make it once a week, then once every other week. if she protests, say "i've just been busy."

she will go nuts and try to save the relationship at this point. do not humor her or engage with her. remain completely aloof, detached, and too busy to see her.

this is called the slow fade. it is the best way to break up with a girl because it cuts the drama and eliminates blowback. you just gradually fade out of her life.

doing anything besides this is ego. do not get caught in the trap of trying to get closure or teaching her a lesson. that shit is a waste of time and energy.

the best revenge on cheating whores is to deny them your attention and time. put that attention and time into people who deserve it. that bitch does not.

user hits the nail on the fuckin head. Don't let yourself be cucked like that.

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This is also pure golden advice. user will never be able to do it like this though.

Also, you say everything else is ego, but I'd get such a big ego boost from enacting this plan. It puts you in complete control and you're messing with her until you cut her off, it's sublime.

Dump her

How do you obtain this level of mental clarity? Holy fuck.

Move in with her, keep tabs on their chats and when he's in town, wait until she's asleep one night then use her finger to unlock her phone. Invite him over from her phone and that you'll leave the door unlocked for him, and tell him where your bedroom is. When he gets there, hold him at gunpoint and wake her. Once she processes the situation, shoot and kill him, then rape her and kill her too. You're welcome, user

You have three realistic options.
>dump her
>let her fuck him
>show her what you found, argue, stay with her and get cheated on anyway

Only one put of two of those options doesn't make you a cuck.

Slit her throat

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