Someone please help me.
I want to be a girl so fucking bad. I really do. I've spent the last several days only thinking about it. It's something that I want so deeply.
I'm tired of having a fucking cock, it's disgusting. I want to have a pussy, I want to be a girl. I don't know how to achieve this goal. I don't even think it's really possible. I don't know how to live with myself now, it's so difficult.
>I want to be a girl
what is "a girl" to you?
Be specific.
These discussions are useless unless you define your terms.
Define "girl", pls.
kill yourself and god might make you a girl next time. good luck user
ask your local sociopath doctor to mangle your genitals and make some Frankenstein-esque gaping hole you can call a pussy for you (they'll very gladly do the procedure)
congratulations, you are now a woman! except no real man will ever get within 50ft of you..
>I want to have a pussy,
why?
you want to play with one, or have one. different things, user.
By "girl" I mean, I am currently a guy. I want to turn into a girl. I want to be a girl. I want to have a vagina and not a penis.
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ywnbaw
Tough shit. You're a man. Deal with it.
stop watching porn
I want to have one. As in, one on me. I want all things women have. It's just such a painful feeling. I don't know how else to describe it.
I've felt this way since I was a kid.
Pic related is what I want to do to degenerate retarded trannies like you.
Shotgun suicide survivors end up living even after losing their mouth, eyes and nose. I'll make sure to show you hell on Earth fag.
any surgeon who performs bottom reconstructive surgery should lose their license and go to jail
I've never done anything to my body. I don't really plan on it. Honestly, it's just an upsetting thing to have.
I understand those who want to act upon the urge. I feel like my will to become a woman is stronger than the people who genuinely transition. I know that if I transition, I'll never be a woman and I'll have to live with disgusting consequences.
I don't know what I want to do. I can't afford a therapist, nor do I plan on going to one if I could. I don't think I'll kill myself.
Seriously, it's so fucked up.
Dysphoria, eh? It can be painful to live with, and many people don't want to live with it.
What do you think? Can you go through the procedure, and face the anger of majority of the world?
Sooo since you want a pussy does thay mean you want cock or would you be a lesbian?
But women don't thank their lucky stars they have a vagina, they just have one.
You said you're "tired of having a cock".
What exactly do you mean by that. Find a way to tell us, don't cop out and say "i can't describe it" -- you started a discussion thread, so discuss.
do you think you'll be pretty and feminine if you have no penis?
Probably not. I don't know how exactly I should go about it.
I have Dysphoria & Autism lmfao. My life is literally a joke. I don't want to kill myself or anything. I'll likely just try and live a normal life. But every day, the urge to be a girl eats at me. I look at women with jealousy, not because I can't get them, but because I can't **be** them.
So you want to be a woman, but you don't believe in the delusions of trannies? You're in a hell of a pickle then man, you're pretty much fucked unless you just start lying to yourself like trannies do. You're not gonna get a lot of help on Yea Forums since nobody here ever gives genuine advice, always been like that probably always will. Ultimately you're going to have to go your whole life never getting what you want, sucks, you know it, but it's just how it is.
Give me your precise location and if its feasible I will solve all your problems in a couple of days
Good point. I did start the discussion thread. I'm too used to doing that haha.
Here, let me explain. I want to have a vagina because I believe that it'll help me feel who I am. I don't intend on getting one through surgery or hormone therapy, though.
I believe that having a vagina, and other feminine characteristics (like breasts, thighs, etc.) would be fucking amazing to have. More than amazing; it'd feel right. Kind of like finding the correct position to lay down in.
Having a penis makes me feel yucky and gross all the time. I'm almost always disgusted by it, though I still use it. I don't really want to have one. It just simply does not feel correct whenever it's on my body, it feels like I've never found the correct place to sleep per-se.
1. why is your life a joke, or more precisely: why do you think your life is any more of a joke than the rest of our lives?
2. why are you jealous of women? what do you think they have that make their lives easier or whatever? do you really know women or do you just have a made-up idea of what it is to be a women and you're jealous of that, not of real women?
I didn't come here for advice, thankfully. I have more than 2 braincells lmfao.
I think it's just comforting to vent my emotions. I don't like the idea of telling this to my family, nobody in my life knows about this and I intend on keeping it that way.
The only issue here are your preconceived notions and your inability to keep yourself happy due to mainly, boredom. You don't need to cut off your dick, just change your life style.
>I want to have a vagina and not a penis.
not possible bro, move on, the tranny shit is a religion like scientology
Live with the cards you've been dealt and make the best of it.
you should probably get your testosterone levels checked
1- Good point, everyones life here is a joke. Though more specifically, mines a joke because I have two horrible mental disorders that have no cure, even through some form of medication. It's just a shitty, mentally.
2- I'm jealous of women because they have something I'll never be able to have myself. I don't care about ease of lifestyle, I want what they have because it'd feel almost natural and correct.
Most of my irl friends are women (90% sure they think I'm gay but whatever I don't even care), though this has been around with me since I was a child. Whenever I was 5, I actively cross dressed into female clothes and slept in them because it just felt correct and natural to identify with that. There was no reason behind it, nobody influenced me, I just wanted it. That emotion has not changed.
Agreed. Anyway, I want to see your face. Show us, boy.
dysphoria also includes anorexia
keep in mind it's all in the mind
a mental illness
which is why we dont treat anorexia with weight loss surgeries
get some help
I think you're missing the point. Realistically speaking, being a male is easier because you are generally stronger, don't have a few days of hell a month, don't have to be that afraid of rape, etc.
But dysphoria is more about the disconnect between what you see yourself as and what you actually are. If you don't identify as a trans person, it might be hard to get it.
>Having a penis makes me feel yucky and gross all the time. I'm almost always disgusted by it, though I still use it. I don't really want to have one. It just simply does not feel correct whenever it's on my body, it feels like I've never found the correct place to sleep per-se.
this is interesting.
this sounds like there's something else going on. WHY do you hate your penis? Women don't hate penises. I have a big fucking weird growth on my arm the size of a billiard ball but I don't hate it. You sound like you're suffering from the repercussions of a trauma you experienced once (or more than once).
Something happen, user?
(ALSO: just ignore the haters here. some of us are interested in what you have to say, what your POV is, etc)
Sadly that is my only option, it seems.
Very funny, faggot. Now show me the real thing.
>they think I'm gay
what is your sexuality?
also, what is your lifestyle. like, are you at work now, are yo a student, do you have hobbies? how do you spend your time.
fwiw almost all of us wish our life was different and believe that if it were it would be easier and more suited to our natural selves.
Cool, interesting that people are actually curious about my perspective here.
I hate my penis because it's something that I feel that my life would be better without it. I have only ever wanted one thing; a vagina. I don't hate penises in general, I'd find if I were a girl (and even pretty mildly now) that I'd actually enjoy the presence of one.
I don't think I've had any trauma, at least not specifically to do with a penis. My penis is average size, and I'm not really self conscious about it. My life has always been kind of "bleh."
I don't know, really. Like, I've always just wished to be a girl. Even now, every night before I go to bed, or any time I think to myself, I simply say "I wish I was a girl." as if that moment, in particular, it would benefit me.
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>dysphoria is more about the disconnect between what you see yourself as and what you actually are. If you don't identify as a trans person, it might be hard to get it.
fair point, but I often wonder if one of the problems in these cases is that the person's definition of "Man" is simply too narrow.
"Man" can include feminine men, too.
Now, don't get me wrong, I'm happy to call a trans man she/her and all, but reality is reality and a man will never actually become a woman (or vice versa).
Transitioning will never be anything but an elevated game of pretend, and that can't be healthy, mentally.
Maybe expanding your personal definition of what a man is could help...?
kek
well-played, sir. well-played.
Sexually? I think I am bi, or at the very least bi-curious. This is a recent development, though expected honestly.
I'd describe it as this: Likely, I intend on getting a girlfriend / wife, though, if I were a girl, I'd get a husband. As a guy, I do not wish to really have any kind of relationship with another man, at least not a serious one.
Lifestyle: I'd say I'm a student. I spend most of my time studying. I'm at the top of my class (8/1202). I spend a large majority of my time studying- and plan on getting a job relatively soon. As for hobbies, I'm typically interested in computer related stuff.
I've lived a pretty normal life thus far.
This isn't a "I wish my life were different" kind of thing. I'd like my life to be the same, except, as a girl. I don't think I'd be any better off, or worse off, if I were a girl.
Though I'd agree that it would be easier if things were suited the way that I would have liked them to be.
do you think that men having those same thoughts, who then transition, end up disappointed because they didn't actually become a woman?
EXAMPLE:
an American guy from the ghetto who wants to have the life of a rich British gentleman.
He somehow gets a ton of money.
He buys an old estate in England.
He wears the clothes, he drives the cars, etc.
He even manages to to get a British passport.
But he isn't a British gentleman because he doesn't have the background, he doesn't have the education, the cultural response and intuition aren't second-nature, he doesn't have the accent, he doesn't understand British things and class things naturally but has to try to learn them and mimic them, etc, etc.
Could there be a similar thing in both cases? Wanting to be something that in reality you can never actually be?
(Or do you believe you could actually be a woman simply because you had a vagina?)
why tho?
>I'm at the top of my class (8/1202)
good fucking job, bud. wish that was me lol.whatcha studying?
You know what to do.
I wouldn't say either. That play of pretend is not just a play. Every time the person is referred to by the wrong gender, they get hurt. If you don't identify as trans, imagine if everyone started calling you the opposite gender. A few days you'd let go, but soon you'd start getting irritated, and then getting frustrated, and angry. You'd be teased and bullied for wearing clothes of the wrong gender, but you'd think that you're wearing the right clothes. You'd be teased for your behavior, you'd be called creepy, you'd be treated as a "victim" and pitied, but people don't listen to what you want to be treated as.
You seem to have a fixed ideas of what a man and what a woman can be, because that's how it's been for ages. But just because "it's always been so" doesn't mean it needs to continue. Paradigm shifts like heliocentric model, or gravity, or quantum mechanics take years for people to accept. There is always resistance in such cases. But the correct stuff has always won.
Gender isn't as discrete as that. It's more like a range. And it doesn't depend on how you act or how you look, rather how you feel. If you want to know what the person thinks when she says she leans towards the female side? Well, simply because she wants the role of women she has known. The OP thinks that she'd be more comfortable with herself and others if she were a woman.
Let's throw in some fantasy, and imagine if she woke up as the opposite gender. She feels she'd be happier that way. If she decides to undergo the procedure, she'd actually be closer to her goal.
As for what she wants to be as a woman, that's up to her to decide. She can be a weightlifter, or a model, that's up to her. The idea of "femininity" is just "identifying as a woman"
Because theyre retarded megafaggots whose mere existence propagates liberal degeneracy and make kids accepting of their insanity
This is why everyone hates you poltards. 2016 was the final nail in the coffin for this site
Honestly? That's a hard question to answer.
It really depends on the person, I'd think. Though, I know if I went through the process I wouldn't really feel like a woman, I'd feel kind of like a loner.
I aspire to live normally, and not disclose this information about me.
I do think there is some level of similarity between the cases. However, it's kind of two different things. One, you have something that is "reasonably" achievable (wanting to become a rich british gentlemen) and then you have one that is unreliably achievable (wanting to become a woman).
One relies heavily on society, and the other relies heavily on science. I believe this to be the main distinction between the two things.
Now, do I think you can be a woman simply because you have a vagina? No. I think being a "woman" is an entire change in personality, there's a lot more to it. If I were simply changed into a woman right now, would I feel comfortable in my position? Yes. But, since I've been conditioned to behave and act like a guy most of my life, I don't know of I'd be able to fully integrate into being a real woman, immediately.
This is seriously a hard question to answer, and honestly I feel like it's a good time to say that I really don't know. It's difficult to maintain a formulated opinion on such a controversial matter.
Thank you. It was pretty easy, though I work hard whenever I am able to.
I plan on majoring in Computer Science (the internet fag degree).
you'll give up and learn to cope eventually
Why does everyone hate us again?
they just need help.
isn't your real beef with the extreme left "actividts"?
I get mistake n for Jewish or Italian all the time.
It's because I have a big nose.
I have a big nose because my father abused me and broke my nose more than once.
I'm neither Italian nor Jewish, but I don't feel hurt when people think I am.
I get it: I have a characteristic that makes me look like those people. I don't hold it against people for thinking that.
I've even somehow had someone call me and threaten my life for being Jewish.
Still don't need society to do me any favors, tho.
I have a big nose, I look Jewish or Italian but I'm not.
Simple.
I get on with life.
You're mistaking "gender" for "gender identity", but I understand your point -- mainly because it's exactly the point I made: expand your definition of "male" to include the male you fell you are.
>she wants the role of women she has known.
fair enough, but this does not make someone an actual women, it makes them a man who wants the role of woman he has know, and I accept that, and I accept him.
And if I know him, I will use she/her as a matter of manners, because I care about my friends and want them to feel comfortable.
But deep down I don't believe they are an actual woman, and I don;'t theink you do, either (without distorting the definition of "woman").
I agree that your fantasy scenario might work better for some, but sadly that can never happen.
You can't just decide you are a (real) woman. It's insulting to women, among other things.
But decide you are an "ultra-fem womanly man" and I'm right there with you.
love your answers, man. rare to see a good discussion like this here or anywhere!
I'm right-wing too, but people hate "the right" because some people are reactionary and stupid.
why hate a fucking tranny?
they're just people, confused people.
they're just trying to work out their own personal reality, not change the fucking world.
they're mixed up like all of us, but maybe mixed up about different things than we are.
so that's someone who deserves your sympathy.
you want to fight someone, fight the people who are try to change society in ways you disagree with. the extreme left is full of grifters and opportunists, spend your energy working against them, not the 0.0002% who are confused about their gender identity.
You're retarded. Trannies are retarded. Kys just like 41% of those degenerates do
you will never be a woman. I mean that genuinely. don't listen to the cults who tell you otherwise because they are lying to placate your feelings.
you're dwelling on this for some reason. I suggest going to therapy to deal with whatever underlying issues you have, or taking up some new hobbies, and getting off the internet for a while.