Ask a 35 year old virgin anything

- average looking
- rather short (5'11)
- skinny as fuck, despite going to the gym regularly for half a decade = low-T
- neither funny, nor witty, nor charming, nor interesting socially

>rather short
>5'11
what are you fucking Dutch???

anyways, that answers my question, you just have unnaturally low self-esteem

German.

Did you ever miss any opportunities to lose it?

Looking back, I don't think I missed any opportunities. Never remember any girl showing interest in me.

You have to show interest first. No doubt you could get laid. You’re tallish, skinny, and workout. You could be ass ugly in the face and still pull girls. Start taking weight gainer, and creatine when working out, and just have more confidence in yoursef

Date women at the blind school

That sucks man. If you are nota above average looking and can't make up for it with wittiness/personality it's pretty much game over. Attractive people can get away with being boring though.

I mean, I approached quite a few women in my life. If you count drunken encounters at parties and clubs, probably a few hundred. Yet, I never really got a sign of interest.

Also, I am already consuming two mass builder shakes a day. Overall, my daily calorie intake is >4000 cal. Yet, I am pretty much stuck at 165 lbs.

This.

30 here. i got tip to slit action. ama

You're missing out on an essential part of the human experience. Don't invent some coping narrative. Just go out and get some.
Are you actually trying?

5”11 165 isn’t that bad man. Think you’re being hard on yourself

Why not just hire a high end hooker?

Been going out regularly in my 20s with the goal of chatting up girls. Now, I mainly try to have a somewhat active social life (clubs, interest groups etc.) and just see what happens. Also use OLD but don't get any matches.

It's DYEL territory. Pic related.

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You are not supposed to wait for them to show interest. You have to show them you're interested Chief.

this is harder then you think

>chatting up
Are you British?

NO matches online? On Tinder, even?? Tinder is a point-blank numbers game.

Swipe 1000, match 50, ask out 10, take out 5, bang 1.

It's pretty gross to dehumanize people like that, but that way you do get to fuck someone you like, who likes you.

Even someone with a repulsively ugly face can meet a repulsively ugly lover on Tinder.

Would you say the setbacks are more psychological or physical? I think it's got to be all in your head, bro.

Isn't chatting them up, trying to keep a conversation going, asking for their number etc. an indication of interest?

you reddit spacing piece of shit. fuck you.
i hate you. fuck you. tell me more about your successes

You're fixated on some physicality when the issue really is your personality and mannerisms. Seek out therapist who you can trust and go to work. People really aren't as superficial as the incels imply however introversion can set you back socially

Why are you actually a virgin still, if we're being honest?

almost 28 here cuz the letter to magician school is comming

>Swipe 1000, match 50, ask out 10, take out 5, bang 1.

This would imply a 5% match rate which puts you into the top 90% percentile based on looks. I think average men have a match rate of 0.5-1%. Based on my own impressions, it rather like this

Swipe 1000

Match 5

Chat with 1

Get ghosted by 1.

Do you have an active social media? what kind of likes do you get on it if you do?
are you fashionable? well groomed? height?
do you think its an issue of women not being interested physically or shit personality?
ive lived in south east asia for about 4 years now and drowning in pussy here, what country are you from? what race are you? what is your economic status?

Doctor can help with low T I think, plus maybe eat more protein and calories. Diet plays a huge role in gains

I know how hard it was for me. It did not come easy.

But I learned ultimately that I'd have regrets about what I did than what I didn't do. I'd rather be a reject than a coward. At least I tried. When I realized that, I was hitting on girls all the time. In the end I became a sex addict. I slept with 92 women.

>People really aren't as superficial as the incels imply however introversion can set you back socially

I actually wish they would be. My looks aren't great but much better than my personality.

how can you sleep knowing the lives you impacted

No questions, we've all been a virgin.
But I'll tell you one thing, the novelty wears off at some point.

no
no
no

>Do you have an active social media? what kind of likes do you get on it if you do?

I do not. Deleted all my social media profiles cause it negatively affected my mental health.

>are you fashionable? well groomed? height?

Not really fashionable in like a streetwear sense. I am a buttoned shirts, chinos and sneaker kinda guy. Well groomed, but very unhappy with my facial hair. 5'11.

>do you think its an issue of women not being interested physically or shit personality?

Both

>ive lived in south east asia for about 4 years now and drowning in pussy here, what country are you from? what race are you? what is your economic status?

I'm German living in the US, white, make decent money in HCOL but don't really buy anything since I don't want to stay here forever.

Cliffs of Dover, really fun to play on most instruments.
I'm a guitarist, but I like to play bass sometimes because it's basically guitar for people who suck at guitar.

As I said above, I consume >4000 cal a day which should be significantly over my TDEE. But I have Crohn's and tend to just shit most of it out. T is in the lower range of normal, so my GP refuses to prescribe.

Honestly OP, playing with and sucking on tits is way better that actual sex. I'll never get tired of it. You need to hire a hooker and try it.

some bassist fag with my own name married my sister. they do covers. i wonder how awkward it is when he fucks her and calls out my name

Wait….this is you? If so, you legit have no excuses and can easily fuck a woman

>People really aren't as superficial as the incels imply however introversion can set you back socially.

Indeed being shy doesn't help. It's both personality and looks, but mostly the latter. And this is not incel talk, being handsome/pretty is extremely important when it comes to dating, obviously. And that doesn't mean people are superficial, it's just how it is. You have to be at least somewhat sexually attracted to someone to date them, let alone sleep with them.

Then why am I here?

>neither funny, nor witty, nor charming, nor interesting socially
This is your biggest problem by a mile. Your best bet is to find a plain Jane who is equally dull. Bond over being boring. Water finds it level.

Whatever you're trying, there's something wrong with your system. Not wrong with you. You're looking in the wrong places, trying the wrong girls, trying at the wrong times / moods, too nice, too creepy, too desperate etc these can all be fixed

Fuck you too wah wah boohoo Yea Forums and reddit are the same thing you dorkasaurus just sitting around on your pc being hateful

Gotta say not really. You gotta have some game. Just asking 'so where are you from' is not game.

Exactly. You've identified the issue as one not trivially remedied by going to a gym. The solution is counseling and therapy and ideally avoiding the internet as much as possible as it's inherently antisocial. Going on a retreat even for a few weeks even can alleviate this harm but you need a support group to help disconnecting.

As a 21yo why would 35 yo feel to late already? Sounds like you might just be out of shape pretty sure 30s is still a family active time for sex

How is 5'11 short

Just harmless fun, bruh. I didn't try to marry anybody. Just fucked around.

i was so pathetic. i had girls ask me out, dated 3 of them during school. i guess i was attractive enough to be asked out, even dumped by one because i didnt "act fast" enough. did shit with one, got some oral stuff. she cried to me when we didnt have sex, but she also cried when we tried it.

guess i wouldnt know. those short moments changed me.

OP is this you? You're a fucking 9 bro, unless your eyes are deformed as fuck.
I do modelling and have been printed in magazines and my body is shit compared to yours. It's 100% a mental block you've got going. And others have mentioned, get a therapist and/or hooker.

>Whatever you're trying, there's something wrong with your system. Not wrong with you. You're looking in the wrong places, trying the wrong girls, trying at the wrong times / moods, too nice, too creepy, too desperate etc these can all be fixed

How do I fix this?

>Gotta say not really. You gotta have some game. Just asking 'so where are you from' is not game.

How do you get game?

Again, I am around people very frequently. It's just that I never really connect with people.

fucking reddit poster. asking is the game. you WILL lose. keep fucking asking. you will win

>I do not. Deleted all my social media profiles cause it negatively affected my mental health.

Social media is a great way to meet people, asking for someones number is a bit intrusive, i always ask for instagram because everyone has it plus you can see photos of them then message a day or so later...also in this day its weird if you dont have a profile

>Not really fashionable in like a streetwear sense. I am a buttoned shirts, chinos and sneaker kinda guy. Well groomed, but very unhappy with my facial hair. 5'11.

Women love fashionable people, if youre wearing sneakers with chinos youre not on the right path, check out some youtube or tiktok styling tips, dont need to spend a lot brands like COS have really nice basics, also im a bit shorter than you so youre good on height

>Both

I mean do you stink? what makes you physically unattractive? As for personality thats on you bubba idk what to tell you

>I'm German living in the US, white, make decent money in HCOL but don't really buy anything since I don't want to stay here forever.

Im american, visiting america i realised american girls are stuck up, lazy, unemployed, and dont have anything going for them.... youre in a hard market my friend, i suggest moving to an asian country? singapore, thailand, malaysia are all good options

Ok if this is you, that's hilarious.
I am fat and ugly and have been RAN THROUGH by some of the most beautiful women on the planet.

Put that picture on Tinder and thank me later. What an idiot. If I had your body I would be fucking three girls a day.

Ideal male height for most women is like 6'3.

There's a supplement called DAA that naturally boosts T. I've tried it and it definitely boosted my T, but I just go way more aggressive so I had to quit.

I am not a 9. If I would be a 9, I would have people show interest and would get some matches on Tinder. I had many female friends during my university years and most of them told me I am a 6.

Asking is what I have been doing all along. It never went anywhere. So I guess something must be missing.

Hope you have wonderful life, even with out sex.

>Put that picture on Tinder and thank me later. What an idiot. If I had your body I would be fucking three girls a day.

A better picture than that (which doesn't show me standing in my kitchen) is on Tinder. Yet, no matches.

What do you crave more, relationships or sex?

Oh.
Well that's just evolution darling.
If you have a genetic disorder you shouldn't reproduce.

Is the other picture shirtless?

Those were whores. There's no way you're not a 9. I've seen everything of your body except your dick and an inch of your face. TF you talking about. You're a 9, get over it and get a psychologist.