Hey Yea Forums, I need ur serious advice

Just go get your own vibratory and make her jealous.

If you wanna punish your GF for being honest. I go with that anons advise
I mean WTF, I'm gonna set aside all my Yea Forums trolling here. A relationship shouldn't be an eye for an eye. It should be open and honest communication and mutual support. If you feel insecure about her using the vibrator alone, wait till she's out of the post orgasm head fog and tell her about your feelings god damn.

dude i know, i wanna talk to her about it but it will only make me look like a bitch (which I am, but at least anonymous to save face)

i feel so fucking shit rn. I cant live with the idea that she has better orgasm from a piece of vibrating plastic than me. It fucking destroys me. Makes me wanna KMS

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we have internet porn, they have viberators.

I still cum the hardest in my own hand or in women over 45 (I'm 27).

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A man’s penis is different from a vibrator or a dildo. It’s a different experience. You shouldn’t worry about how the vibrator makes her cum or how big her dildo is etc. You should learn to use it to please her and you should also work on yourself a bit emotionally. Best of luck user. Also show us her pussy and asshole.

Ah come on user, that’s not a healthy attitude at all. Don’t be jealous of a toy. The novelty will wear off and she will be back to craving your cock in no time. Don’t be insecure. I am sure you are not only a good person but also have a nice cock. So let it go and cheer up.

You think the novelty will wear off? What if she gets an 8 inch vibrating dildo then? I would seriously consider suicide at that point

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Well that why you have to talk to her.
>i wanna talk to her about it but it will only make me look like a bitch
That's where you are wrong. It obviously depends on how you package the information. But generally sharing insecurities about yourself with an intimate partner, aka making yourself vulnerable to your SO takes a great deal of strength actually. On the other hand if you try to handle your insecurities by unconsentually domineering her and trying to tell her top down she's no longer allowed to use her toy, that's what would make you look like a little bitch.
>I am sure you [...] have a nice cock.
Gay

Play with her clit, do some foreplay, bring toys into the sexplay with her.
Do more to give her more pleasure.

I feel like the pandora box has already been opened. She understood how good a vibrator is. Now I am scared she will not want my dick as much.

Any attempts (even through opening up) to stop her use of vibrator will eventually succeed, but leave bad after taste in her mind.

And her telling me that my dick is good is not enough. I know people lie. Here was her response when I told her about how insecure it made me feel

>it did feel rlly good rubbing on my clit, especially since that's where I feel the most pleasure.. But ngl I pick ur pp everytime, I got hornier seeing ur pp than the vibrator made me

Obv she would lie. If I was her and I just had best orgasm of my lifetime, and my partner voiced insecurity, I would say same shit lmao

Seems like you are projecting your thoughts alot.
Literally just be mature about it and talk. My gf and I are pretty open and use toys during sex. Get a vibrating cock ring if you feel inadequate.
Or at least spin it in a way that yall can both benefit.
If she wants to use the toy, tell her to use it while you are there, whip out your dick
Become a chad

fucking underagedb&

I already suggested that, and she agreed. It's not that. What kills me is that I am not enough for her. Her sex life with me is replaceable by a $12 chinese piece of plastic bought at Spencer's. And most of all, I am scared of me fucking her, and her thinking "damn vibrator felt better"

am 18

Doesn't your dick vibrate like everyone else's? You should feel insecure then.

Insecurity is very toxic. Focus on what you are good at and work from there. Also talk to her and see what she likes. Use your mouth, hands, dick. If you can't make her cum using your own body, thats what you should be worried about and should work on

Well, we have great sex and both of us love it. We get horny just from talking to each other and fuck 1-2 times a day. I guess that's why seeing her enjoy a vibrator more made me think "wow, now she will disregard all of that because everytime I fuck her, she will think that the vibrator felt better"

She clearly has a higher sex drive than you if shes looking for more.
Or you are not satisfying her enough.
Either way, just get better at sex and do it more often.

I am out of state rn so we usually do it over the call now. She got a vibrator today for that ig, and now she will forever compare her vibrator orgasm to sex

>>it did feel rlly good rubbing on my clit, especially since that's where I feel the most pleasure.. But ngl I pick ur pp everytime, I got hornier seeing ur pp than the vibrator made me
Lemme translate for your autistic ass:
I want your dick, but I also need stimulation of my clit to really enjoy it.
In case you didn't know. Many if not most women, can't cum from penetrative sex alone. She's literally telling you what she would like from you in the bed.

And given that you are LD right now, be happy that she's only fucking an inanimate object.

Why would she want my dick then?

> dude being jealous of an inanimate object

gj getting cucked by an electric bbc, nice trips tho

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It's not just your dick stupid. It about you as a whole. It's about sharing an intimate time. Think of her using the Vibrator like you masturbating. First of all there's the unfapable residual pressure (actually I'm not sure if it's the same for women, as my partners weren't / wife isn't allowed to masturbate, but that was negotiated and agreed upon beforehand) and then there's the whole element of human connection missing. The warmth of the other body, the sensual and/or nasty things you whisper in her ear. The inability to controll rhythm or intensity of the strokes.
There's a lot of things that make sex with a partner that knows what he's doing better than masturbation ever could be.

And if you don't know what you are doing it's about time you ask her what you could do different/better.

Well to correct that, they might were allowed to masturbate if they asked me. But triggering an orgasm was always done only by myself.
But that's advanced BDSM conditioning stuff, that doesn't need to concern you actually. First of all you should get your shit together

OP a vibrator is specifically designed to maximize pleasure for the woman, your dick is designed to impregnate them. But one thing the vibrator can't give them is a connection, and women are addicted to connection. Be affectionate to her and tell her sweet things while making love or show her who's the fucking boss while fucking the shit out of her, whatever she likes. Don't be jealous of a piece of plastic, ask to use it on her instead, give her a few orgasms with it first and she'll be craving your dick and your connection.

My wife can only orgasm from me o lube roughly fucking her in the ass with a vibratory on her clit.
Sadly the orgams arent worth the pain, hemorrhoids, and medical bills to her.
So guess who isn't enthusiastic about sex?

If you want to get revenge on your GF for enjoying something specifically designed to give her a maximum amount of pleasure you should grow up before getting one. She deserves better than that.

Look, I fully understand your point. And no, my girlfriend is not allowed to masturbate for the same exact reason. I gave her permission since I am not with her right now, and I just dirty talk her until he gets wet, and then make her touch herself. Today, however, she used a vibrator and had a much stronger orgasm. Obviously she enjoyed the whole process as well, since she was moaning in pleasure all this time.

Now you see why I feel that way

First of all, she probably faked a lot of the moans etc. just to give you a good show.

Second of all: a woman pleasuring herself with a vibrator will in 99% of cases be able to make herself feel better then is she had sex. Because it's her body and pleasuring women is very fucking hard. That does not mean she doesn't enjoy sex with you or prefer the vibrator to you - because you're a human and the thing is just a piece of plastic. Don't compare yourself to a sex toy bro.

She was fuckin' someone else not the vibrator, bro

okay but sex feels better for me than beating my meat. I don't understand it.

Advice: stop being so insecure.
You're welcome.
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>I cant live with the idea that she has better orgasm from a piece of vibrating plastic than me. It fucking destroys me. Makes me wanna KMS
stream it faggot

That's because you're not a woman. Sex and masturbation is a different experience - yes, masturbation will feel the best because only the woman knows how to pleasure herself the best, guaranteed strongest orgasm, especially if toys are present.

But having sex, cuddling, getting fucked while getting called dirty things, your partner grasping your hips as he shoots it deep inside you - that's what fulfils the evolutionary need of sex. It's a different experience and it's extremely enjoyable in a different way - in way toys can never subsidise.

How about just accepting that a womans brain is different than a man? Wanna know my secret to pleasing women consistently? Meet them where they are at, not where you wish they were. Accept and even enjoy that they have a different physiology and brain. Showing a girl that you understands that makes them horny as fuck because it makes you stand out from 95% of young men and you can focus on pleasing them instead of focusing on insecurities based on your own perception of sex, which again, doesn't apply to women.

faggot posted a probably real story about a vibrator just to RP having 6.5"

Sorry to break it to you but 6.5 is pretty average dude.

y'all either in nigger country or measuring from the balls

Very based and real.

Women enjoy and experience sex differently then men. A lot of misunderstandings are rooted in the fact men just refuse to understand this.

My partner can rarely make me orgasm on his own, usually he needs help from toys or me - there's absolutely nothing wrong with that and the sex is still stellar

So what's the best part of sex? Sure, dirty talk may make you tingle, but actually feeling physical pleasure as you moan uncontrollably is much better

Please explain

No it's mostly just being dominant. From what I remember reading, by ratio, more girls orgasm in rape than they do during normal sex. That's a blackpill and a horrifying thought but it is what it is.

They/she means sex for women is like an event, a passion thing where it's like a thing. Totally different from men, it's an urge for us, like we have to do it and get it out. Like a hunger. For women it's an indulgence.

Buy a fleshlight i guess, its the male equivalent to a vibrator

Things that aren't physical will often improve the feeling once physical shit starts happening. Foreplay isn't just sucking a tiddy, it's also the flirting before anything else, a light touch to tease, etc.

Even physical touch is better when preceded by something else nearby e.g. gentle kisses around the vulva and thighs before actually going for the clit

Sorry, shorty

>Buy a fleshlight
Speedrun breakup any%

It's normal for girls, own your sexuality slay queen, for guys its what the fuck cant you get pussy why are you fucking inanimate objects

Point proven. It isn't like taking a piss for women, it's an event

Mon then let's see a pic of that 7" mandingo shmeat

Scandinavian measuring from top, 7.5.
Seethe.

I am sorry I offended you by estimating my dick size to be average, but 6.5 inches is probably the most average it gets. Best selling dildos are 6 and 7 inches. Not too big, and not too small.

No I mean where do you stop, because everyone except you measures from the tip to before the balls. 100 bucks says you're measuring to your asshole