Why do I like the idea of sucking dick so much?
I'm a complete virgin, never even been on a date before. I don't find male bodies attractive, but I find dick appealing. I would consider myself sexually and romantically attracted to female bodies and their lady parts
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Funny words don't change how I feel nor explain why I feel that way.
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>Why do I like the idea of sucking dick so much?
Because you want your dick sucked, and you can imagine and therefore relate to the pleasure being felt by someone having their dick sucked.
If you ever manage to fuck a girl or at least get one to suck your cock, it'll go away.
I feel the same. I love cock, and I love when they look like women.
Maybe. Doesn't really solve anything though
This makes some level of sense, but why then would I want to suck someone else's dick? Wouldn't it make more sense for me to want them to suck me?
>why then would I want to suck someone else's dick?
You long to demonstrate on someone the type of pleasure YOU want to feel.
It's like dudes who dress up like girls sometimes because they can't get girlfriends. They're not trannies, they're just projecting how they wish a girl would dress and act for them.
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Any1 know if this works?
In the hopes that they would reciprocate? Am I understanding you right? That actually makes quite a bit of sense
Try it desu, might be the best thing you have in a while.
unironically porn
how? don't fucking ask me but the shit that's happening there targets your desires in a particualryly strong way
You complete and total loser. You should kill yourself
Do you speak from experience? I'm worried I'd regret it and won't be able to take it back
I quit porn earlier this week, so I guess it could just be lingering brainwashing
>In the hopes that they would reciprocate?
Yeah, kind of. You want to act out on someone or something what you wish a girl would do to you. It doesn't meant you necessarily want to suck a dick. You just want to demonstrate what you want. (Unless you 100% feel you need to feel a dick in your mouth, then you may just be curious.)
It's the porn addiction, user.
Yes lmao but honestly I’ve never been with any guy besides my boyfriend of 5 years KEK. So don’t take my advice seriously. I did fuck 3 girls prior and it clicked that I didn’t like women. They’re pretty to look at but nothing more. If it happens then so be it. I wouldn’t force anything out of fantasies. Try jerking off before any big decisions like the one your dealing with. I always found the post nut clarity to be a life saver.
And porn may have some part in it but not entirely.
T. Grew up in the countryside with no internet until the age of 16. I was feeling for guys by age 14. And gave in at 17 so I wouldn’t say it’s porn outright.
Not sure if this clears anything up, but thinking about sucking dick always makes me more flustered than imagining a girl sucking me off or me fucking a girl. I don't know if I "need" to feel a dick, but the idea doesn't turn me off. Could just be that mindstate you were mentioning earlier though
It's porn brainwashing. I used to binge watch tranny porn when I was a teenager. I dated women throughout my 20s and loved eating pussy. Eventually in my 30s I got tired of dealing with women so I finally sucked a cock.
It's weird. I also hate the rest of a man's body, face, and voice, but feeling a cock pump in your mouth is pretty hot. Also men leave immediately after unlike women which is awesome
I don't really even understand what decision I have to make. I don't plan to pursue any men because I don't find them attractive, but in that case I'd never really resolve my feelings towards dick I think? It just doesn't seem like something that will resolve itself naturally for me
>but feeling a cock pump in your mouth is pretty hot.
So you did enjoy it? Doesn't really seem like porn brainwashed you if you really liked it in the end
Im in the same boat as you I am turned off by men but the thought of sucking cock excites me
If it’s something you feel as if though you have to do then you have an option. I would look for shy guys looking to experience something in the same ballpark. I wouldn’t hop on Grindr and get with just any dirty fag. Find a cute shy guy who you can build some trust with and then maybe if the chemistry is right, the rest will be history. Don’t rush it desu, there’s no one pushing you.
Have you ever tried to seek anything out? How do you cope with it?
I've always been an orally fixated guy, I've had girlfriends where I hold them down by the neck, and eat them out while jerking off. Feeling a cock pumping in your mouth is kind of a shortcut to that climax of watching porn where you're enjoying someone else's orgasm. Would I ever suck dick if I never watched porn? I really doubt it. It rewired my brain to go from being horny to focusing on a cock bursting with cum, which I can do realistically by sucking one. But maybe I'm just a massive faggot, I dunno
But that's just the issue. I can't imagine myself going out of my way to make a friend I could potentially suck the dick of. Grindr is like you said a huge no because of all the potential health and safety risks. I don't like the feeling of "needing" to try a cock looming over me, but jumping into something can only go poorly.
I don't know what I want, I guess. It's a tough feeling for me to reconcile with
I get what you mean now. Do you regret sucking a dick? How did you push(?) yourself to try?
i haven't had any experience i thought about asking my neighbor if he wants a blowjob because he is hypersexual
It’s a confusing feeling I know how you feel. Hang in there fren, I wish you the best!
How did you get over it? What made things click that dick was what you really wanted?
Do you know him well? Sounds like he could be carrying lots of things
I felt physically attracted to men and I could barely get hard with my girlfriends at the time. Ended up falling in love with a cute femboy in stage club. I had butterflies and refused to acknowledge it as falling in love but I gave in eventually.
I don't regret it. I'm pretty careful about the guys I suck. I've never had a weird smelly trucker or something.
Actually the first guy I sucked was also the first guy to suck me. He was a younger Taiwanese guy who gave the best head I've ever had. He kept saying he'd never been sucked before as he was extremely shy. I'd touch his dick sometimes and eventually one day sucked him. He was young and horny so could still get hard and suck me even after he came. We did this for a few months
your right that's why i haven't done anything yet he most likely is carrying something not sure what else to do though as I don't want a gay guy because i do not want a relationship at a just a one time suck to check it out
Oh I see. Since I don't have any attraction to men maybe I've just got a different issue entirely. Or maybe I'm lying to myself. Hard to tell. I definitely find dick attractive though
sexuality and eroticism are fluid things- only you can tell us why you like the idea of having a hard, stiff cock to slobber on
What made you pursue dick? What caused you to want to suck him?
I'm not really sure, I just find them attractive. The idea of sucking a cock just sounds really hot to me, it makes me super flustered and gets my heart pounding. Thinking of having sex with girls gets me hard too, but it doesn't do all those other things.
Just seeing his cock so hard while he sucked me was a huge turn on. Knowing that it was there waiting for pleasure, knowing that his body was so ready to feel my mouth on his dick.
Before that I mean. What made you want to try having sex with a boy? What made you go through with meeting him?
Where you from OP? I'll suck yours if you suck mine.
Oh I'm the guy who blamed porn for me jumping the gun. I watched insane amounts of tranny porn as a teen. I hated men's bodies but loved the idea of having a cock like my own to pleasure from the other side.
See, that’s where I was years ago. I initially found no attraction towards men. It took me a while to except that it was more than the sex that I was attracted to.
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Would you say you started to associate yourself with the girl at all, or just that you wanted to pleasure a cock as yourself?
Maybe I'll turn out similarly to you then, or it's like other anons said and I just need to get my dick sucked to clear my head. Seeing as I haven't even seen another person naked before I don't know if I can claim it's the dick or my idea of dicks are used for that turns me on
Oh, I guess that's that then, central Europe in here.
Still, I'd encourage you to try it, but perhaps change your outlook a little bit. At least reading this:
>I'm worried I'd regret it and won't be able to take it back
yeah ofc you won't be able to take it back, but take it easy OP. It's just a dick, it doesn't make you any less dignified or worthy of respect or anything. You try it out, if you don't like it I guess you give up on it, if you like it, great. Just try to take it easy like I said.
Maybe it'd help you if the other guy was a well groomed twink or even femboy.
I don't have a problem with sucking off a guy, assuming that's what I really do want. What I would be after is his dick, so as long as he is personally healthy and clean then (assuming I could push myself to try) sucking a guy wouldn't bother me much I think as long as I knew them well. Though I would prefer as much of a woman as one can get from a biological dick
>Though I would prefer as much of a woman as one can get from a biological dick
Uhhh what do you mean by that even?
I mean that I know a shemale is still a guy, just one with more feminine features. If I could choose who to suck off ideally it would be a shemale, just because they would most likely be the most appealing to look at for me
Ah I gotchu. You watch any transgirl porn?
I haven't watched any porn in weeks, and I fully quit digital porn earlier this week. But yes I've seen a fair bit in the past
I see. Feel like your cocklust would subside if you take a break? It might, they say nofap reinvigorates one's interest in more vanilla porn and makes for better erections.
Also what's digital porn, if you pardon my ignorance (google just keeps giving me Digital Playground).
I plan to stop using porn entirely. I feel it's just not healthy for me. Though it could also remove the cocklust as well. It could potentially make it even stronger, if we imagine that porn was actually brainwashing me into liking girls and not guys
By digital porn I mean animated/drawn stuff. Rule 34, SFM, that sort of thing. Drawings.
Ahh, I see.
>It could potentially make it even stronger, if we imagine that porn was actually brainwashing me into liking girls and not guys
Yeah I guess there's a chance of that as well. Though, if we're only talking about liking dick, there's dick in straight porn as well so you always can look at it and envy the woman. So idk if it's likely.
Maybe not likely, but always possible.
I just want the feelings/cravings/whatever to stop coming back unless it's really what I like. Seeing as I don't find men attractive at all I doubt I'll ever get the chance to really resolve the feeling, since it's not something I'm likely to pursue
Fair, fair.
Oh yeah OP, you may have heard of the Kinsey scale, you know, the "there's different degrees of gay" scale?
The same guy did some research into male homo/sexuality and found that it's very common for guys between the ages of 20-30 to develop some homolust which will then abate and disappear as they get older. It's possible your cocklust is just an instance of that.
Could be, sure. I'm 19 though, and I really, really don't want to put up with this for 10 more years, so that's not going to work for me. I'll have to figure out for myself before then or I'll go crazy and do something stupid
>or I'll go crazy and do something stupid
Don't be silly user, what's the worst thing you could do other than try sucking a dick?
I could get too horny and offer anal despite never doing anything back there and completely destroy my ass. I could rush into something without vetting the guy properly and get an std or other illness. Or he just kills me or something. Kidnaps me and makes me his sex slave.
I'm almost 40 and this is definitely true. I tried sucking a few cocks and it was fun but it never just pops into my head anymore like when I was a teen.
That said, last summer I was at a nude beach and ended up next to a younger guy. He kept glancing at me and his cock was eventually hard as a rock. We made eye contact and he put a towel over his head and waved me over with his hand. So I went over there and gave him a nice slow bj. I was just there to get a tan lol. Funny how life works sometimes.
You can just answer the question without quoting. You already have a >> link
pebbles in the ocean my friend
I'm well aware how unlikely those things are to occur, but that doesn't change how serious the implications would be if they did.
I think my best bet is to ask female friends for some assistance in finding a suitable guy. If my friends trust him then I think I could give it a go
Oh that kinda stupid, fair enough.
>Or he just kills me or something. Kidnaps me and makes me his sex slave.
Well I understand how such thoughts would creep into your mind but you are getting a carried away a little, those things are extremely rare.
>I was just there to get a tan lol. Funny how life works sometimes.
Kek, pretty cool though.
I don't usually say this, it's kind of clique. But, just this once, I feel it's appropriate. OP is a massive fucking faggot.
In all honesty I think I just don't know what I want and am afraid to commit to a choice that I can't take back. Not sucking dick is simple, just don't suck it. Once you suck a dick though it's not something you can undo. I guess that worries me. That I'd make a bad choice, or that even if I found out I enjoyed dick, that it would be a bad first time