Girlfriend no longer wants to date after 1 year and only wants to be fuck buddies, the tables have turned

Tell her you are going to fuck other women in your bed. If she lives with you, tell her she can watch, but if she cockblocks she's making it up with Anal. And that Friday and Saturday you'll be busy balls deep in some tinder girl. But she can be sloppy seconds.

You need to immediately make her realize you have options. She'll get jealous the second you start having success with other women or draw some lines in the sand. If she still is cool with it, actually fuck someone else or leave a used condom in the bed. Then make her own it. Make her say she doesn't want you fucking other women and that she wants to be bf-gf.

Because the foundation of healthy relationships is good old fashioned spiteful jealousy.

Just because Steve molested you at a young age doesn't mean its a good idea to hang out with Steve. GTFO

This. Wise user.

sounds win win. the reason we pay hookers.

I’ll go with this. I think it’ll ruin our memories. It hurts that she wants to do this. It’s like she’s a different person. I can get laid without her, I just wanted to grow with her y’know?

Break up with her and live well she’ll lose her mind.

In the meantime post your ex’s nudes

All she wants to do is live her life the way she wants. Who knows- made OP is a faggot and intolerable to be with. Maybe not- if not why so butthurt over her wanting to experience things, is she not free to decide for herself?
Why are there so many guys on Yea Forums so jealous and possessive of girls? They are people too, with desires and curiosities. Fuck, quit being such pathetic jealous fags and make yourself more attractive instead of scheming ways to hoard her.

It's based on possessiveness and competition. Wolves and lions kill over mates. Why not us?

She's a dumb whore who needs to be told what to do, like all women.

She doesn't want to date you any more. Women are cunts. She will keep you around till she finds someone else. Then she gonna drop you.

SJW glasses, so a stupid slut who thinks she's a feminist. Make it clear she's if you aren't a priority to her, then she isn't one for you.

Some of us are civilized, experienced, educated, sentient adults who can control our animal urges.
Some are not.
Maybe don't take advice from animals? Just saying, friend.

All I said is I don’t want to be in a fuck buddy situation with her. I don’t understand the problem?

That is not in dispute;
Then childish possessiveness OP is displaying is cringe. Unless they are married, that is- taken an oath/signed a contract/commom law- he has no standing.
Sure puppy love is nice and can be heartbreaking when it doesn't go the way you want but grow up and better yourself having lived the loss. Or accept the terms and change your lifestyle to keep her in it.
OP could ask her to marry him, for example. Or he could just accept her as a friend w/benefits. Or if that is too mature for him, he can scheme jealousy and play children games as others here have suggested. Goddam fools.

Assuming you are op...
So tell her. Make things clear to her. If she is the one for you in your mind, let her know.

It is her role to accept or reject you. Your choice to be strung along with polygamy or swinging or whatever you said she wants to do.

Don't be an entitled prick about it. She doesn't belong to you. But if you want you give yourself to her, you need to tell her. Roll with the punches.

shes already fuckin other dudes

That is not saying go along with her indecisiveness, or be cucked by her. It is not unreasonable to have expectations if you are married. If she has them for you, there in lies the issue.

Good for her! Why hasn't OP started dating others then? Clearly she hasn't settled on OP

The point is to show her exactly what she asked for. She won't accept it and will stop the FWB talk before he even downloads Tinder.

If she lets it get to the point he's banging another woman, she's not worth keeping around. But by then he'll have a new girl lined up to replace her.

Cringe

No, this is not wise. Dude sounds like he’s 9years old.

user, this is going to hurt man. She’s gotta go. If this came out of nowhere then she already has a guy lined up and is currently talking to them. If you think going out and getting a tinder slam piggy is going to make her jealous. It won’t. She may even tell you it does because she will need your emotional security you offer when “Chad” fucks her for the first time and sends her back home. But sure enough more Chads and Brads will be brought home and fuck her in your apartment. If you’re not good enough now, you never will be. You need to find someone new user.

Dont be a simp you cuck nigger

Society is built around our "aninal urges", dumbass.

It's really simple slut, if you're with someone, you shoudn't cheat on them. If you just want a fuck buddy, that should be made clear in the beginning before anyone gets invested or misled. People generally want a normal relationship, so it's shitty to be with them for a while to just say "nah fam, fob tho", like why even let them bother up to that point? Let them move onto the next chick who might actually want to be with them, instead of passively holding onto them.

Based.

No. Women must be shown.

>I just wanted to grow with her y’know?

Finding a woman like that is really difficult at a younger age, especially with the rise of social media and porn. Date older women who are more emotionally experienced if you're looking to settle down. The problem with younger girls is they haven't had enough emotional partners to really understand what they want. And even if they have they are still young and looking to get a taste of life - one day they'll want to settle and have kids the next they want to travel halfway across the world to start a brand new life.

Spend some time dating lots of women and ask questions early on about where they see their life over the next 5 years. If they don't have a plan, or its really shoddy, don't go on to become exclusive with them and move on. You ain't got time to be wasting on hoes with no direction user.

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Take the deal. Best of all worlds.

>the lawman is the determining factor in whether or not you should have adult expectations of adults when it comes to relationships
OP needs to move on and find an actual girl to be with, but you're straight retarded. His problem is very legitimate, just that he's handlong it like a bitch. But if you are dating someone, and 6 months in it turns out they have the indecision of a child and suddenly say they don't want to be together, that is bullshit. I'm not saying people aren't free to do as they with, but it's an absolute cock move to not express this ahead of time instead of just springing something life changing out of nowhere. Guys aren't just sex robots. Make a decision, stick to it, or at least warn someone if you're not wanting to be a relationship in the first place.

who is she?

Do a 360 and run away

That exact type of selfishness would make her fail as a mother like she's failed you as a partner.

But then he would run her over

>wants to go from gf to fuck buddies

On one hand your lucky shes not completly leaving you.
On the other hand, shes going to be screwing a lot of otther guys every day now.
You could have one last big fuck with her, take some viagra from extra hard and long and keep going for an hour or 2 and record it on phone.

Then try to never do her again, just tell her you got a new girl you want to be loyal to.
And share video you made here?

Fuck buddies do not work. Sure, seems nice at the moment...getting some hot breakup sex and some booty calls. But you will have trouble moving on if she is still around. Or both of you are going to end up hurting each other cause one of you is going to start fucking around with someone else or dating someone else.

Better to just rip the bandaid off. Stop communication and move on. She's probably already distracting herself by texting/hanging with another dude.

tell her to stay mate
women play those games to see how dominant you are
dont plead for it just tell her to stay
dont act like a faggot while doing it

It may be built to serve them (markets for entertainment, food, etc.) but it's also equally built to resist them (courts, law enforcement, banned substances that are deemed socially harmful) - so I don't really understand your point. Comparing us to living things that likely can't even conceptualize some of our problems doesn't make much sense.

Just keep fucking her, think of her as a free whore. Do what YOU want and be done with it, no feelings attached as a person.

Fuck more hoes on the side as well, is my advice. Individuals dont look so special when you start knowing a fuckton of people.

Cut it off only when you have to move on (life goals, work, meeting a nice woman etc..). Dont be pissy or pathetically pityful, keep her a a fuckwhore piece of meat.

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Just break up. Go fuck some other women right away so you don't get all weepy over some bitch you don't really love, just craving the pussy.

She wants access to penis until she finds someone else. Or she wants to fuck someone else, but use her pussy to keep you on lock until she figures out what to do with the other guy. Point is fuck her if you want but actively seek someone else and then dump her