Marriage. Is it worth it

You CAN take it back. Leave her, you dumb faggot, and don't make excuses. The only thing keeping you trapped is you.

Imagine the jeweller visit after the years, like can you widen up this ring about tenfold

Really depends m8. In most scenarios, simple answer is no. Hard no.

I've got a great wife, but most girls get lazy and complacent as fuck. Only marry if you find a girl who values traditional gender roles, has a good relationship with her father, doesn't listen to rap music, votes Republican, supports your masculine hobbies, works out and has a strong sexual dynamic with you.

Sounds impossible, but it's not.

if you have a small dick, yes

Literally every aspect of marrying a woman sounds fucking awful and I can not fathom why someone would do so

If you're a woman marrying a man, it's probably very worth it in a lot of ways, but the other way around sounds like a nightmare

I'll add.... my wife is literally my second half. We have no secrets. Her passwords are mine, our phones are openly accessible to eachother and chances if you're talking to one of us on the phone, you're talking to us both on speaker.

Very few people have a relationship like ours, but very few people are completely open with eachother. Phones make people weird, not us.

Pro-tip: if you do find a girl like this, start your own business. You will literally make people sick with jealousy and they'll do what they can to make your life miserable. Our current culture promotes backwards values and the normalcy of a happy family is too much for miserable onlookers to handle. You want complete control over your life and finances.

Again... I'm probably 1 in 100,000. Chances are you'll end up with pic related.

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>almost marry gf of 4 years
>she leaves me
>a year later she's probably double her weight

dodged a fucking bullet, listen to the advice that if her mom is fat she will be too

Is that a question?

No. Marriage is an outdated tradition that reflects the Judeo Christian beliefs system. Think for your self --develop your own identity outside of conformative traditional values.

Don't do it. Those days are well gone now. I don't trust any woman these days. Never go joint anything either as they bleed you dry. If kids aswell it's all in mother's favour you can't win. So many male suicides and I think it's why and I've lost 2 close friends like that. RIP Bros.

Fuck off atheist incel cuck

Well, I don't know if it's worth it to have a straight marriage. Seems like guys get fucked over pretty hard if things go south. That being said, I'm a faggot and got married, and that's been great. Honestly it's not all too much different from when we were dating, but it's had some benefits in some ways. But I guess also that's just because we're not flaming faggots. We're non intrusive chill faggots, so I'm just married to my best bro and we play vidja, drink, hang out, etc like you would with any other bro. Just with gay shit. Obviously if you're not gay your mileage may vary.

Memes aside it's nice to have this level of connection and commitment and to not have to worry about shitty women problems. I've been in relationships with women but none of them were half as healthy or positive as this one is. I feel like some straight people will have that same experience but the political and interpersonal climate has made it more difficult for men and women to be friends, much less lovers (at least from what I've seen). Im interested in hearing what other anons have to say though.

No marriage
No cohabitation
No giving her money / paying her bills / etc
No joint anything
No conditions or circumstances that prevent you from leaving her completely at any given time

Stick to these or you're getting fucked. This is 2020. If you're a male, know that the marriage industry (and it is very much an industry) and the legal system that enables it are 100% against you and do not give a fuck about you at all. As far as these systems are concerned, you exist in order to materially support a female, nothing else. You will always been seen and treated as less.

Don't fall into these traps. They want to suck your resources and don't give a fuck about you otherwise, and you have no allies in this. Never trust them to treat you like an actual human being. Take care of yourself first and foremost, because no one and nothing else will

Thankyou. You hit the nail on the head my friend. 2 years ago I had it all, then 6 months later I had nothing she took everything and I'm still paying for it and will be for next 12 years. If the purge was real I would be there in a shot.

Don't do it. I've been married 22 years, we get along some of the time. I'm really only staying so I don't lose half of everything including my retirement. There are brief moments we do get along and that said all of our friends are jealous we get along so well..... That should give you an idea of how hard marriage is. If you want to keep your money, don't do it, explain to her that you want to be with her only if it makes you both happy, if she doesn't like that idea, well you just dodged that bullet. Oh and kids, overated, I have two kids, 20 & 19. There is no love given to me from them, mostly ungrateful and I can't begin to tell you how many days I worked trying to give them a better life, how much money I spent on doctors, toys they didn't play with, diapers I changed, vacation days I used up for them. And now, I'm lucky if they come to the door when I bring home groceries.

I know you will say that I should have raised them better and by God I tried. But remember your "wife" will always have a say in how they were raised and usurped me at every opportunity. Two boys and both of them are "allergic to grass, dust & break out in a rash if they sweat" mind you, I was never allowed to take them to the Doctor to verify all this. Take my advice DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!! I'd rather slam my dick in a car door every year on my birthday than get married again. And after what I know, I'd actually look forward to my birthday.

that's why you marry someone of same occupational worthyness / social status.
so that both of you make about the same, give or take 20-30 percent
this way money doesn't become an issue unless your spending habits are very different (i.e. one of you wants to save up for assets, and the other likes 15 dollar mochas)

The wrist

I’m a cuck, so I love it because I’m more and more her bitch with each passing year. It’s not such a great idea for guys who aren’t so beta.

A bitch's bitch. lol

Just take her hiking around some cliffs

Where'd you get that shit? A Hallmark card? Grey's Anatomy?

Women change when you get married, usually for the worst. You can't get that back from dating.

Tits or gtfo

Worth it in what way? And marriage as in legal binding contract or religious ceremony? I believe if you are the religious or spritual type I can see the benefits of having a ceremonial gathering that celebrates the intertwining of two souls and all that jazz.

But government marriage? Fuck no, never.

Why? Because there is no value in it besides the fact that legally you get to be MR/MRS -blank- and there MIGHT be SOME tax advantages (though this doesnt apply to state income in most states and federally it really only has benefit if your incomes have a large gap between them). And in terms of income the benefit is so negligable due to the fact to see any real benefit one of you basically has to be rich anyways lmao.

But the downsides? Complete and total asseture loss (loss of assets), lack of ability to modify contractual obligations, complete ability to alienate most of your rights by someone else. As a man comes additional issues, biased legal system, a divorcee couple forces a man into a WORSE predicament when fighting for kids, ect.

Legally speaking in almost every way, even including protecting your rights to your kids, its better to stay single.

Faux marriage? (Cohabitation/Long Term Relationships) depend on your state, some states let you keep all legal rights as if you were single, some dont.

As for not marrying, if you still want to give your faux wife the same legal "benefits" of being married you can. You can waiver any and all individual rights but at least you get to pick and choose them when not legally married.

And for those that say prenups? Do I need to list the countless times Judges have personally thrown them out just because they personally found them to be unfair? Tip, prenups are extremely flimsy and can 100% be thrown out in most states completely up to Judge's discretion.

Hail, brother.

It's like they live to ruin everyone's life.

Oh brother you know I have, but but who'd take care of my no load kids? She's got a good job so that's something, I'm actually hoping she can get something close to what I make and we can split a little easier on my wallet

This. Tits or gtfo kek

RUUUUUUUUUUUN!

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So you both are fat and ugly..
>excepted reality
>no one is jealous of you btw

You're gayer than the literal faggot who just posted above you. I'm not a dad yet, but as an adult son I always meet up with my dad to grill, fish or do yardwork. Your sons don't respect you because you're a bitch. My wife wouldn't be telling me that I'm not allowed to take my sons to the doctor. You probably laid down and took shit from her your whole life and they see that. They want nothing to do with you because they don't want to end up miserable like you. Marriage isn't terrible if you'd stop being a beta cuck, but 20 years later... Dude it's too late for you. Just kill yourself.

^ me again. I deleted my 2nd comment before posting by accident but there are also many other unknown benefits both legal and personal.

Societal benefits that have been brought up lately like the supposed benefit that both parties keep their unspoked contractual obligation towards there relationship (beauty standards like staying fit, sexual and romantic obligigations like well obviously sex and dates, ect). Ironically these benefits might arguably seem more tangible to women when you account romantic obligations, but either way good for both parties.

Also legal benefits
Ex - Most people dont know this but you do NOT have to make your spouse aware of where you or your kids are. There have been cases of spouses running away with kids in the country or leaving internationally with ZERO LEGAL RECOURSE. Good luck going through the legal system.

Single couples with kids? You already have individual parental protections in place for instances like that and there is legal recourse if it were to occur. The only way to lose it is actually sign away your legal rights or have them forcefully taken away by the court system (and marriage is one way to sign them away).

>Don't do it nigga.
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My gf is doing the opposite. She still needs to lose at least 30 lbs but she diets and exercises.

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Obvious trap is obvious

I’ve fucked her pussy bud. She’s a woman.

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Im in a 10 year relationship with my gf. I've finally come to the realization that her lack of sex drive and on top of her weight gain has made me not want to progress to marrying her. I dont know how im going to break it to her without sounding like a shallow asshole.

Bussy =/= pussy

Really in what universe?

Just tell her it's over. You don't need to explain anything to anyone

Or just tell her exactly the truth. You're unfulfilled and she's already not taking care of herself. If the truth hurts, oh well. Perfectly legitimate reasons, you are not in the wrong even if lesser people tell you that you are. If she wanted to maintain a relationship, then she needed to maintain it. She did not.

I believe you 99% looks like a woman to me

It'll be even harder another 10 years from now, more so if you are married. If you have the talk it will hurt for a few weeks instead of a lifetime.

Well my girl is broken up with me right now because I said she needs to lose weight.

Not my brightest idea. She’ll be back.

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Exactly this, I only explain things to people when they will likely learn from an explanation.

Most people particularly boomers and lefty menials think they're owed an explanation about everything, its pathetic.

Mate that chicks on the fast train to obesity, one of my exes was built like that and 5 years on shes 300 pounds.
Some of these girls only workout to snag a guy.

She's already obese, she's wearing those stupid women clothes that compress and hide their actual body shape

"Every woman is beautiful (that's why we need to lie and decieve and disguise ourselves"

Yeah probably. She lost 60 lbs then gained 30 back. She eats healthy and exercises I think I’ll need to fuck her a lot.

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We just started dating and I didn’t realize how fat she was until I fucked her on Friday for the first time. Sex was great though. Porn star blow jobs for hours. I told her I wasn’t attracted to her at her current weight and she got mad at me.

Would she get mad at herself if you were a big fat fuck and she wasn't attracted to you because of it?

Nnnope

So let her be mad

nice pillow talk

forgot to add ^^ or some other shitty indication that i wasnt passive agressive