How do I talk dirty in a gentle femdom relationship?

How do I talk dirty in a gentle femdom relationship?

I love cute sex with love, cuddles, kisses, etc. even when I'm having sex with a random hook up, but I hate calling bitch or slut to a girl with whom I'm having sex with because it makes me feel horrible. But I also don't want to stay there in silence the whole time while we're having sex. I make a point of telling her everytime she's doing something that feels nice, but still I don't know what else to say.
I enjoy it when they call me good boy, after doing something that they enjoy, but that's not something that I can tell them myself, because I usually am the submissive one.

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Also check my trips that almost were quints

Good job user i am like you, for me it works if im kinda high/drunk

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It was a good accomplishment for me
What does it work? You know better what to say when drunk? I'm the opposite

Wow I never knew this is what I wanted. But there's ardor in my belly and erection in my cock so it must be.

>I enjoy it when they call me good boy
>Good boy

Bark,bark,bark, bark

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I know, right? During usual relationships, men are supposed to act like alpha males and women are supposed to pretend that they are ok with it, and not tell what they want to do. But I love validation, being loved and watching the girl being assertive enough to enjoy herself, and do what she feels like doing instead of doing what the guy wants and faking an orgasm afterwards.
Women say good boy to dogs because they love their pets, and I want women to love me as much.

Ok, boomer

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Truth hurts faggot.

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What part about having sex with women is gay?

Your "gentle femdom" will end up with you sucking nigger dick off while your GF is plowing your ass with a strap on and with aforementioned niggers asshole juice on her face. American man 2020.

Calm down

Those fears you're expressing come from a place of insecurity and distrust. I feel bad for you user.

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Why does everyone keep saying I'm American? I'm not. And I'm not so insecure about my sexuality that I have to pretend that I'm into being dominant in order to not get called faggot. I pity you, because that's obviously what you're doing, perhaps to compensate for something?

That pegging stuff is ok, but I'm more into girls worrying about me, taking the lead during sex and saying nice stuff. I wouldn't like it if she grabbed my hear, or said awful stuff like "remember not to embarrass me in front of them again". What I like is when she bosses me around, tells me what she wants me to do during sex, but still likes to kiss and cuddle and say romantic stuff

Someone is self projecting. No matter how many layers of tough guy you wrap yourself into, it won't make your cravings for cock disappear

Take it easy with millennial reverse psychology and intellectualization of your problems. "I am not insecure so I don't act dominant". What kind of nonsense is that. Women want and NEED strong dominant men otherwise they are just a natural destructive force. And strong men enjoy the challenge of subduing them which makes their cunts wet no matter what kind of lefty ideology they were fed with.
If you think that women want a sensitive, emotional and submissive individual as their partner then you're either a virgin, terribly misinformed incel or a fag dreaming of having your ass reamed. By a strapon at first. And then by a nigger dick to satisfy your lefty fetish and delusions of owning anything to blacks.

I bet you think every woman loves rape too.

Someone feels exposed and not willing to accept the truth.

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You shouldn't talk about psychology like you know anything about it and no one said that every woman wants a sensitive guy.

Stupid millennial snowflake. Get few years of experience with women and you will understand.

Of course rape is bad but women want to be conquered and they always have. No matter what position they are in. Masculine is there is protect them, support them and fuck their brains out just like you would do with a cheap whore. Then you cuddle them. Your virginity is obvious for miles.

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Lol, you can't make this shit up, you actually are a baby boomer. Let me tell you a secret, women your age don't enjoy the sex your generation gives them, they just have to pretend they do because they don't know any better. I can assure you that women like to be treated with respect by guys that listen to them during sex, and are willing to try whatever they want to try. No one likes to have to go through what literally is undistinguishable from rape every time they want to have sex
Not him, but I'm OP, and I assure you I'm not virgin. Get off /pol/ and talk to real women

I do have sex, thank you very much! But seriously you can do the things you describe and be sensitive as well

>thinks he's acting in a dominant way
>is desperately defending himself from strangers
>doesn't understand himself enough to see why this backfires

Strength user, can only be gained through self realization. You don't need to be a pussy, you just need to recognize when you are.

You my friend are brainwashed by feminazi propaganda.

>Go to /pol and talk to real women

No one here wants to give their tips? What do you say to your partner when she's the one leading and you/her don't like calling her slut

Lay off the pot. And lefty propaganda books.

Self assertion and pride are attractive qualities in anyone.

>No wonder nigger porn is popular, white snowflakes grow with feeling of guilt about their skin color and having a dick as if it's a crime while getting more a more inclined to become man servants with no say in a relationship while their wives are fucking niggers who don't give a shit about your mental illness.

What does this have to do with anything, you are basing world views soley based on text and images you see on this site

Fucking Americans, destroying a good thread because of the Russian propaganda they fell into. If you hate women and feminists, don't try to pretend you satisfy women in bed

>lefty propaganda books.
It's Carl Jung user, not "leftist propaganda"

Just moan and groan. Maybe tell her how soft and warm she is down there or something m

>good boy
Oh user top kek.

I like to tell her my love or shit like that. And of course compliment her on everything that she does and I enjoy. She's putting a lot of effort to make me feel good, and I gotta make her know that I like it. And always ask permission to do stuff, like kissing, touch her tits, going down on her, etc.
If you're undressing and she wears a skirt, go down very slowly towards her pussy, kissing every part of her body, and once you get to near the pussy, nibble her skirt, look at her eyes and ask may I? before kissing her pussy

Using Jung and Freud to justify spreading your ass for a woman with a strap on while reciting feminist slogans sounds quite lefty to me.

Try to understand her and accept her for who she is. She isn't perfect but neither are you!

You're in the wrong thread, buddy. Nobody is advocating for that. Also, can you please stop trying to make this thread political? We don't care about American politics, mostly because the concept of right wing you have there is different from the one we have here

Thanks, I always try
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I'm dating a submissive little asian girl who likes to play at gentle femdom to spice tings up sometimes. Neither of us are into ass play. You've got some weird ideas about people who disagree with you. Honestly at this point I have to wonder how you can be so blind to your own insecurities.

"Oh, I love you"
"Kiss me"
"You feel so good"
*bites your lip*"ouch"
Sniff her hair
Kiss her so softly that it takes about ten seconds
But important thing is to also tell her good things after sex.
Those weren't almost quint's dumbfuck, you were off by a thousand.

I think that probably the main act during gentle femdom is cunnilingus. Pegging is not against gentle femdom, but it can hurt sometimes, and pain is not ok in gentle femdom, because both partners have to be very careful to make the other one enjoy it

Nice, those are good. I like the one about biting the lip the most. But I'd say "Is it ok if we kiss?" instead of "Kiss me"

Cunnilingus is basic sex practice not femdom. But self-reproach of young men these days and pressure to degrade yourself in favor or the woman or any other oppressed group will turn eating her out into a form of femdom. Geez

You're a fucking snowflake and you will learn taste of penis sooner than you imagine now.

No problem!
Don't overthink it.

Fine let's not even call this femdom then. This is just how some dudes like to be treated.

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During gentle femdom cunnilingus usually is the main act, though. Gentle femdom is basically a reversal of gender roles, and because of that many times a guy would go down on his girl and eat her out until she cums. Once she came, the sex ends sometimes, just like it sometimes ends when a girl gives a blowjob to a guy and the guy cums..
Thank you :)

BDSM is basically how some guys like to be treaded. Whipped and gagged. But it still is domination. However, if gentle femdom is not the correct therm, then how would you call it?

That seems kind of inconsiderate on her part.

Don't call it anything.

Like a blowjob for most people. Sometimes there's time for sex, and other times there's little time and I only lick my girl's pussy. Blowjobs don't do much for me, but I can cum just licking a pussy, that's why it's not inconsiderate, because the girl knows she's with someone into gentle fendom and, thus, into that sort of stuff

Dude. If you cum while eating her pussy then you're on a far end of the spectrum of normal. Gender confusion and dysphoria looming large..

What do you mean? Pussies are precious, and watching a girl moan and squirm while I eat her out is the hottest thing that you can do during sex

You want pet names that aren't demeaning? Just use normal ones like baby, honey, sweetie, sugar, etc.
You want dirty talk that doesn't involve pet names or demeaning anybody? Just narrate what's happening and how it feels, or how hot your partner looks.
"Baby, I love eating your pussy." "Holy shit, boo, that feels amazing on my dick." etc etc. It's not that difficult.

Femdom > all. The world simply needs to learn it.

>that's not something that I can tell them myself, because I usually am the submissive one.
You can absolutely tell someone how you like to submit. That is 100% a part of keeping things healthy while engaging in BDSM, gentle or not.

what if being submissive =/= being weak?
What is the strong can be controlled?

That is literally completely normal and healthy and don't believe anyone who says otherwise.

>femdom revolves around the male anus
Pretty sure femdom centers on the female body, not the male one.

>Cunnilingus is basic sex practice not femdom.
It can be either one depending on how the people involved are treating it, how long it goes on for, what position, what other sex acts are done in that session, and a billion other details.

>you enjoy making your partner feel good
>therefore you want to be female

Pretty sure you don't know what femdom means.

Yes, this is what I look for, but sometimes feels awkward, because it appears that I'm only narrating what's happening
I mean, I can't tell a girl good girl when she's been the one taking the lead
They usually are, actually
Thank you, most girls are not into it, but a lot of them are, and they always pursue you because there aren't many guys into that kind of stuff, I imagine
This

Of course pussy is delicious but if you smash it and make her cum like a whore not service her like a paid prostitute.

What if black is white and up is down?
Listen to yourself. Lefty relativism has rotten your brain and you can't distinguish simple opposites. You will be surely the one to raise gender neutral children, maybe cross dress to show your appreciation for women and get into chastity just to show "how strong" you are. Open your fucking eyes. Or lay off drugs because you're making no sense.

True, women can be as forceful or as loving as they want when they make you lick their pussy
Dumb, isn't it?
I'd literally pay for a prostitute to let me lick her pussy until she cums, without her doing anything to my dick.

cringe and subpilled
the feminization of men plays a large role in western decline

Don't care, this is not the correct thread. Go somewhere else, please. Create another thread if you feel like it

Only YOU can be the one giving pleasure?

I get pleasure by giving pleasure to a woman. What turns me on is watching a girl moaning and clearly enjoying sex, more than any physical sensation that a blowjob could give me.
Of course, I like it when a woman gives me pleasure too, but only when that is something that she really wants to do and turns her on. What turns me on and makes me cum is not the physical sensation of the blowjob, but rather the look on her face, her eagerness to suck my dick, her moans, watching her masturbate herself because she's horny, etc.
Anything different than that is the same as fucking a plastic doll, to be honest.

Is this girl special?

i don't think you should focus on finding a femdom wife, just find a vanilla older woman who doesn't want to be called a whore and has money.

My girlfriend, but I do this with strangers too, it doesn't have to be special.
That sounds cool, but I do have a girlfriend now

You have problems bro. She will find a dick to fuck. It's gonna be black and odds are you will get to taste it too.. since you don't anything to please her. Can't negotiate basic biology and instinct.

I actually can't complain this is almost the perfect woman

Why does everyone feel so insecure about cheating in this webpage? Who hurt you?
Yeah, basically, a girl that loves you and cares about you and is not with you just to fullfil some life goal. A girl that mostly thinks about herself and says hurtful things sometimes, but that's how you know that when she cares about you and says nice things she's being honest, that she's with you because she really likes being aroun, and doesn't do it just to make you feel good.

I love gentle femdom

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