Turning 30 in two weeks.....
Still a Virgin
never been on a date
never even kissed a girl
I dont think I am ugly or anything. I am in shape, dress better than most, and maintain good grooming. However it still changes nothing. I try to talk to girls but it seems they are to busy or just want to get away from me.
I have friends who look worse than me and are fat who have gfs. I dont understand why my life became like this. I feel like I just wasted all of my twenties.
I wasted it all.
Your issue is not with looks or any other external factor. You're simply a pussy.
And yeah: this whiny thread only cements this further. Get off this website, stop looking for comfort and get out there and meet women. Challenge yourself for fucks sake
Stop being a pussy, bro.
You know what happens when a girl rejects you? Literally nothing. Life goes on. One rejects you? So what? The population of the planet is literally half female.
Grow some balls and talk to women. Learn about them. Listen to them.
The fact that you haven’t dated around or even kissed a girl is more worrisome, because it leads me to believe you don’t know how to act around women, and you know what women hate the most after lack of confidence? Man-child ass men.
If you don’t wanna actually talk to them, start a Tinder or a Bumble account. Just fucking get out there and stop wasting your life. Women aren’t that complicated and pussy isn’t this unachievable prize.
I believe in you.
Now, get out there and stop being such a waste of space.
Did Tinder and Bumble
No matches but some fat land whales.
I even bought a one month trial of Tinder and it didnt do anything
Got matches to some nice people but for some fucking reason none respond back at all.
Post your face or someone that are equally (un)attractive. Could be an issue if it's that bad
Guess it’s time to get out and do the real thing, bud.
Go to bars. Go to shows. Go to the gym. Go to museums. Practice just talking to women; without experience, you’re not gonna land anyone, so learn how to break the ice, read body language, and how to keep the conversation going. If you have friends, hang out with just a couple at a time. If you don’t have friends, go by yourself and be okay with it. Just get out and quit wallowing in self-pity.
What city do you live in?
You'll be getting laid plenty once you're a wizard, believe it!
>go to a museum
Please fuck off.
This guy should enjoy his hobbies as he likes, and talk to girls in those situations. He doesn't communicate to girls he likes, only advice is to just do it, fail some, get better, win. This is not difficult. Frustrating sometimes, yeah ok sometimes. Difficult, impossible, no.
The point is to get him out of his comfort zone, you dumb fuck. He’s not gonna grow if he’s comfortable all the time.
Have you tried not being a piece of subhuman incel garbage?
you should seriously and for real get an escort
Become a wizard brother.
Too scare to get caught and go to jail.
I have the worst luck
Talking to the girls around him is already new and uncomfortable, fucktard. A museum may just ruin it more bc it's some pickup artist logic that barely gets you laid but what next, the truth you hate museums and just played her for sex? This btard needs advice to get a relationship, stat. Not a 1 night stand built on bs.
Nah, man he's right. You're an autistic mong
dude if you're in literally any major city in the world it happens every day. in any big city in north america or europe with about 1 hour of internet research you can order a woman to your room for a price of $200 - $400 depending on quality and where you are.
Just do it to get it over with. You'll be more confident in your everyday life after you bang one out with a pro.
diff user, but this is some quality advice
I know it happens everyday, just like people smoking weed.
Its just that im the 1 in 10000 where I would pick the one girl that is actually a fucking cop.
Have you tried having more personality than a piece of cardboard?
Obviously the girls around him aren’t working, so what’s that gonna do? If he doesn’t have a girl by now with the women he has surrounded himself with, why not try with women he doesn’t surround himself with? (Not to mention, the women around him probably already know he doesn’t have any game or have no interest in him.)
Why not talk to complete strangers? Why not meet fresh faces? Why not get some fucking culture at a museum? It’s one thing if he’s pulling some pickup artist bullshit, which, frankly, he won’t be doing, but getting out and meeting women in different places isn’t a bad thing, you fucking basement dweller. It gives him things to talk about.
He’s still a virgin, so why the fuck should he rush into a relationship when he’s not his best self?
I’d recommend he casually date, bang some girls, get experience, gain some confidence, better himself, and *then* start looking for a relationship.
Persa-whoozit? What's that?
My personality is this:
I like going to the movies
I like swimming in the pool
I make alot of movie references
Not that funny, I try to be, but I just make this akward. So I dont try too.
I dont like social crowds ( I know this is probably the problem however I dont think this is it)
so no clubs, concerts, or anywhere where there is a massive amount of people in one area.
I love animals more then people.
you won't if you're smart. Take some actual time to research it. Go to fucking google or duckduckgo and put in "[your major city] vip escorts" and "[your major city] bodyrubs" and "[your major city] asian massage parlor" and you'll find hundreds of people posting online about it. Find some whore or brothel with several reviews over several years and just fucking do it you pussy bitch.
That's bullshit. I've known people like this, they end up going MGTOW as they trick themselves into thinking they've achieved some success or met some goals. Which is the ultimate cope for losers.
Just live life, don't be a pussy. That's all there is to it
LOL
putting keywords on a search engine where police will start tracking OP
like they give a fuck. you're a nobody, they already track you everywhere and everything you do. live life.
Keep building capital and you'll eventually find yourself between them, if gold diggers are your last resort.
Otherwise I suggest MGTOW, rent an uterus if you want lineage
you should become anhero.
rape
If you've seen fat, ugly guys have girlfriends then don't you think it's safe to say you can get one as well? Just try harder, OP. Don't be such a pussy