You ever date a shy girl? A nerd, weeb, or sperg girl? An anti-normie? What was it like? How was she in bed...

Yes I have. Couple times. One wow-playing goth who spoke of new RPGs our first date with a lisp. "I have all these quethts!" Another literal autist girl who was blond and from New Jersey and didn't understand why no one liked her. I trained her to like it in the ass. Both became annoying and uninteresting and I broke up with them. Also the goth had inner labia like beagle ears.

I was the first 'big' guy she had every gave a blow job to. I cum a lot she gagged and sneezed as I cummed came out of her nose. She wasn't a fan of sex either so didn't last long. I use 'big' like this as I'm about average just apparently her previous encounters had been with guys who liked to say they were normal size

Hmm. The one chick I dated didn't go psycho when we broke up, she just blocked me and moved on. She always hated being weird and wanted to be normal (reason why we broke up), so I guess she's out there being boring. Or maybe you could call it living in a stable financial situation with a steady partner.

hahah it really be like that sometimes, previous girl i dated was some nobody streamer, fucked her pussy loose and then ditched her when i got bored, she threw a brick through my window and got arrested. haven't heard from her since lmao

Nerdy weeb type I met on Bumble. She was sweet, shy kind of chubby but really cute face. First date I thought went pretty well. Talked for about an hour. She had a weird life I guess. Leave with just a kiss. Hours later she explains she has split personality disorder and she thinks she wouldn't be able to date me. Had her draw me a nice pfp for discord before she ghosted me though.

>it really be like that

Small-minded idolizer of nigger culture identified. Kill yourself.

ok boomer

Crusty old bastard

Ah true mate. All the "artsy" chicks I've known have been fake bitches who were only doing it to be cool, and one who tried really hard to appeal to me, but her heart wasn't in it.

Kill all nigger lover and nigger lover enablers

typical weeb. she started learning japanese at one point. honestly i didn't mind because we shared common interests. i just didn't like how she slowly started talking to people in odd chat servers. plus she fucked around with someone right as we were going to start dating. i'm not too sorry she's out of my life now.
i had to force her to take a fucking shower every other day if we were living together. also she didn't like my lack of respect for sjw's. fuck it. fuck her and the horse she rode in on. i just wish we could talk like normal people instead of the straight up ghost maneuver she pulled. for what it's worth she sent me sick loot from conventions she would go to. touhou plushies, a physical copy of "ten desires", sailor moon and vocaloid.

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Ghosting is the normal MO for those too terrified of interpersonal conflict

A little salty there?

People are allowed to be salty over bad breakups. It's like, one of the five accepted reasons.

>shit on your doorstep
hold up

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What are the other four?

For real don't date a girl with mental illnesses. Usually those artsy Girls have something disturbed about tger mental health. Healthy habits bring healthy choices ;)

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Getting fired from your job for bullshit reasons
Getting into a car accident that isn't your fault
Getting robbed or some other criminal shit happening to you
Getting fucked over by the government

Gir my Dick sucked by a former gaming weeb kinda girl. Fake personality, but licked the cum when I told her to

.. you've never?

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They act that way to attract a beta male they can control, in reality she's a normie like any other girl. She will change on you if she notices you looking at normie girls. Most are chameleons and don't have a personality. All of those nerd girls are still attracted to a "chad" type alpha male. No girl likes a gamer or weeb unironically

Yes
It was awful
She didnt even speak more than 5 words at a time
Sex was awful
Awful overall.

Forgot to mention I was still able to turn her into a total whore and stole her from her Boyfriend. They are currently dating after I fucked her 50+ times. 2/10 would not recommend.

whatever you do, dont date a bpd bitch

Yes, and as you might expect she was quiet and passive. She was more introverted, but could be coaxed into coming out of her shell with a little charm. She was lacking in confidence but not self-hating so it wasn't like I had her threatening suicide. She liked video games too, but mostly RPG types that weren't competitive. The plus side to all of that was that she wasn't annoying.

She wasn't voluptuous or pretty. But she also wasn't fat or ugly either. So it was a little harder to get excited about banging her because I honestly had better potential prospects. But I was with her because I wanted to try something different. As far as sex went she was willing to do whatever I wanted and really got excited about me cumming as though it gave her an ego boost.

It didn't work out for logistical reasons but that was probably a good thing because she's fat now.

no

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Yes, after you break the ice it’s like any other relationship given you aren’t a total shithead.

Sex was great. But the bitch was crazy.
Now shes fat, and a schrodinger's faggot claiming she isnt a boy or girl "both but neither" shit, and she blows everything out of proportion. Talkin anxiety attacks at the drop of a pin and going to the ER over an itchy throat.

Looking back im better off now. Much less stress

>You ever date a shy girl?

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Girlfriend of the last 8 years is almost as much of an introvert as I am. She had a rough upbringing. Sexual abuse and shit like that.
We've lived together for the past 7 years and we're talking about having children maybe a year from now. We support each other a lot and she works way too much for her own health. It's probably the most comfortable and fulfilling relationship I've had.

Good for you user

thats pretty wholesome
im happy for you user

Wish I could get my girl to cosplay, or do anything kinky

I'm gonna come over there and fuck your bitch, break your relationship just for the shits and giggles lmao

She was abusive and kinda crazy

This is the least threatening thing I've ever seen

dated a girl who thought she was pagan. she didn't wipe her ass fully so she had little white pills of toilet paper on her hairy ass all the time. she was mostly a starfish, but basically sucked me whenever i wanted, which was nice

Good luck with that buddy. You'd be more likely to get caned in the nuts, at which point I'll bend you over and show you why you're a weak and pathetic excuse for a man, and why size matters.

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not if i bend you over first lmao

Ya'll were fucking horses? Damn, she must've been a kinky bitch.

helped her gain confidence and grow as a person until finally she felt too cool for me and tried to get revenge for me looking down on her
stupid fucking bitch

My wife was like this in high school. Anime chick, kind of reserved but just nice and outspoken enough to have friends. Met later in our twenties and started hooking up, still into anime and western shows, but way more nerdy in general and way more outgoing/extroverted. Dating her was awesome, sex is super adventurous and then a year into our marriage we start looking at porn and hentai together. I was a closet lolifag and was testing the waters with young rule34 western characters. She starts saying how she likes that character or this is hot, asks to see stuff with another character she likes, and its shota. Not even bullshitting. Still doesn't admit that liking shota means she likes kids, but I'm convinced otherwise.

Sounds like a personal problem to me

You can like loli or shota and not want to fuck real kids. 3DPD etc

a little would be an understatement. don't get me wrong i miss her. when i wasn't being a complete fuckup she did think i was "romantic". i could never accept that. gotta learn to love yourself before you can love someone else. she would even talk about marriage at times. we tried to get a place together but i drank faster than i could find work.
yeah that's my bad i fucked that up. if she has any mental illnesses now besides crippling anxiety i'm damn sure it's my fault.

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On the other hand this means your wife is a 3dpd fag

that's normal. Just her hypergamy kicking in. Much like if you're with a woman who is overweight and then she loses weight, you had best believe she will cheat and eventually leave you.

I married one. Every day is awesome.

I dated two that were all of the above. I'll spare you the details, but I broke up with them both for a reason. Don't date women like this, they are always severely mentally ill. Find a normal girl who has an interest in your hobbies and get her into the things you like instead. Your sanity will thank you.

I tend to disagree. I think if you're attracted to that body type then you are pedo. Plus she's super 'baby-fever' around kids and has admitted most of her sexual partners were inexperienced younger guys and she's pretty dom in bed most nights, or at least prefers to be on top.

If she actually dated shotas irl that's a different story.

I used to think I was a lolifag but it turned out I like petite girls my age, I was just young back then. Dating anyone younger than 20 is so offputting to me at this point, they're so immature and bratty

>gotta learn to love yourself before you can love someone else
This line is such utter bull shit and gets parroted over and over by everyone. EVERYONE is deserving of love and people working through the darkest parts if their lives need it most, and can love others with incredible depth. Anyone who tells you otherwise is fucking lying and looking down on you.

Yeah well I know that she's been with three other guys before me, one was when she was 16 and he was a virgin like her. Then she was with two other guys when she was 19 and 22 and those guys were both barely 18.
For me lolis are something I think about in a teaching and intimate way, not like dating or romantic. To be blunt, a toy with feelings I care about. My wife is really into the teaching thing and boys that blackmail women (so I think she's pedo and just wants boys to push it on her so she wont feel guilty).

This is my wife.

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>EVERYONE is deserving of love
wrong

Current gf, really nerdy anxious girl who watches anime. 24, so 5 years younger than me. Love her to bits, but next to no sex life as she has no sex drive at all, her anxiety kills it.

I would kill to find a woman like this who didn't have all the
>OMG please beat the shit out of me
tendencies. I really can't bring myself to do it. My current gf loves to be choked during sex and I have a hard enough time doing that.

Not everyone deserves love. And love is not something that you are owed or can be expected. You do have to love yourself first before you will accept love from anyone else. Because YOU are the sole decider of what you are worth and you can not expect anyone else to care about you, not even your parents are obligated. You are the only one obligated to care for yourself and if you don't how can you even understand why someone else can?

I dated a weeb girl I met at an anime convention for a little over a year.

>What was it like?
Pretty good, overall. She was somewhat high maintenance emotionally, but very low maintenance in terms dates, and stuff like that. Was mostly happy to stay in and watch movies, shows, etc. rather than going out.

>How was she in bed?
Very eager to please. BJs on demand, sex pretty much every day we were together (which was usually the weekends), usually two or three times each day. She had a very high sex drive. The only thing she didn't like was anal. Very into BDSM, roleplaying, and sex in public places.

>With all these good things to say, you're probably wondering why I broke up with her
She told a lot of small/white lies, and I'm big believer in 100% honesty. It was the only thing we ever fought about, but it kept happening again and again.

I wanted to spend some time apart, and (her, being very emotionally needy) she starting acting crazy, calling me all the time, calling my brother trying to keep tabs on me if I didn't pick up her calls, and shit like that. Eventually I just my patience, and ended it.

>in hindsight
I don't regret leaving her, but looking back on all my other relationships, she was probably my favorite. Had a lot of great times with her, lots of great sex, and made a ton of happy memories. We still talk occasionally, and I wish her nothing but the best for her future.

>PEEPUL WHO HURT OTHERS AND STUFF DON'T DESERVE LOVE!
Here's some food for thought, maybe they turned out the way they did BECAUSE nobody loved them.

You lead a very sad and lonely existence.

I don't have anything to add. I just want a sperg gf real bad.

No you don't. She will ruin your life.

you're talking about self-actualization. Unfortunately not everyone can do that. Some people will always be weak and needy. I commend you for trying to teach them but it's a lost cause.

Lol. Mistreatment is not an excuse to be evil. Evil people do evil things because they want to, decide to, and only because they either stayed the victim after their own abuse, or they became the abuser. There is a third option and it is to REFUSE to be a victim regardless of the 'lack of love' they received.
No one deserves love. It is something you first earn for yourself, and then earn from others.

>If you need love you are pathetic
What the fuck is wrong with you?

It can't get much worse than this.

I'm self-actualized and understand that I need only love myself. Anything else is a bonus but not necessary to live a good life.

>YOU HAVE TO LOVE URSELF FIRST BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE CAN LUV U HURR DURR
Horse piss. I fucking DESPISE myself and yet I can accept love from my family, friends, and girlfriend just fine while returning it wholly. You guys are talking out of your asses to make yourselves feel better for being unlovable.

I lead a very good and happy life actually, but my past is riddled with abuse. Im the pedo with the pedo-in-denial-wife. I guess thats one draw back, but even I would hurt a kid like I was hurt, even if I do have an attraction for it. Wife helps, she plays a great loli.
Back to the original point though, I like how you just threw out insults instead of addressing where it is I am wrong.
This guy gets it.

Great in bed but autistic all the time. Worth It though, she does the chores because of her ocd.

You either don't believe your loved ones or you don't really despise yourself. Both can not be true. Someone in your situation is reaching out for love and can give it just fine because you are either waiting for someone to prove you wrong (you dont believe your loved ones) or because you like the attention (you dont really despise yourself).

Lol. *wouldn't

And what makes you such a genius in the subject? You know nothing about me or matters of the heart apparently. Lemme break this down for you:

Let's assume you hate chocolate milk (you sick fuck). Guess what? Even if you hate it, other people love it. Does the chocolate milk need to love them back for them to love it? No. The chocolate milk's love for itself is not part of the equation. Not is your hatred of it or their love for it. These are three separate things you are drawing make-believe lines between.

I hate myself. Other people love me. I love them. I don't need to love myself for the latter two to be true. Someone can love something I hate, even if that thing happens to be me. It doesn't change how I feel and is wholly unrelated.

Never a weeb but plenty of nerds.

There's no real "gold mine." Nerds are shit in the sack, and spergs fuck like retards.

All that I said is whether or not you can truly accept love from them if you hate yourself then you couldn't possibly understand why someone would love you. If you hated chocolate milk you wouldnt be able to understand why someone likes it, they could tell you why, but that wouldnt change your ability to comprehend it or relate. But once again, my point is about how you can not find true love until you love yourself and know what you are worth. Loving yourself doesnt mean to like yourself, it means to accept yourself. If you know youre a horrible person but you love yourself, youre likely to find true love in someone who is just as horrible as you.

>You ever date a shy girl?
Several. They are my favorite
Best was a furry/anime enthusiast

>What was it like?
Strange. But very fun. Walking her on a leash was only possible in the more artsy or urban parts of town though

>How was she in bed?
Very enthusiastic and got wet practically on command.
Loved being choked and held down
The one problem is that she hated deep penetration or riding. Both things of which I am very fond.

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>If you hated chocolate milk you wouldnt be able to understand why someone likes it
Why do I need to know WHY they like it? Why do I need to know WHY they love me? That is also irrelevant. If your friend says they love someone you hate, do you doubt them because you don't understand it? No. Not if you're a good friend anyway. You may try to discourage them from it if said person is genuinely bad, but that's beside the point. If you hate the person but they aren't bad, you'll likely be surprised and annoyed but wish them the best.

They love me. I don't need to know why, all that matters is that they do and for that reason I will stick by them for as long as they want me. That is enough to keep me here.

Dated a super shy and socially awkward girl, goth, skinny, like 5'5, was alright, pretty vanilla

Current gf is thicc gamergirl nerd/stoner, less socially awkward, but a damn freak in bed, she doesn't stop, s'pretty gr8 m8, i r8 8/8

mfw post sex

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Sounds like you downgraded HARD, my condolences.

nah first one was long distance and we saw each other irl for like 2 weeks collectively?

>Leaving a cute pure skinny goth girl for a fat drug addict slut
What the fuck is wrong with you.

...

Should have moved or convinced her to move.

she didn't have a job, or the money, and I was super unhappy at the time so it all just didnt work out, still talk to her though, cept she is a he now

>cept she is a he now
NEVERMIND HOLY SHIT. BULLET DODGED.

I've been with some weeby women. Adventurous in the sack and geeky interests are cool but she turned out to be pretty shitty. Also it's weird as fuck when weebs go after you for being Asian.