Am I the only one who gets off texting ex's for nudes while being in relationships...

Well I'm not sure how to find another 10, dont like being single I guess

You don't. It's pretty much impossible. Explain how shes a 10.

I've never had an "ex". I married my gf who I'd known since we were 13.

Been with her almost 25 years.

It's degenerate to text people for nudes. Especially if you're not married.

I've been talking to an ex for 3 years after only dating for 1 year. The thing with ex's is that neither of you can have feelings otherwise things become complicated. Like expecting things to progress like getting back together but you broke up for a reason so dont even try anymore. Staying in touch with your ex is a bad coping mechanism.

So its okay to text people for nudes as long as you are married? I'm sure your wife would love to hear that.

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No, you were ambiguous in your reply so even though I knew what you meant, I'm going to give you shit for it.

Let's say she's literally a russian athlete, 10/10 bod, intelligent well educated into literally whatever I was back then. Was my best friend before dating
And no I don't ask for nudes they're willingly given or video calling etc.. Yeah I know, i think I'm bad at letting go. I was forced into keeping in touch with my first gf and then habit stuck but shes the only one I never like sexted. We've rehooked up being both single but not while dating others.

You hit the nail on the head with your last statement. It is an attempt at fullfillment without the risk of being devestated.

Pretty sure he meant receiving nudes from his own wife.

Retard.

Find a good woman. Court her. Show her what you have to offer. Impress her daily and show off. Marry her. Children. Always stay true and never cheat.

Becrespinsibke.

Hows your fedora collection coming along?

My wife won't let me take nudes. She feels it's immodest.

We just make love a lot. 4x a week etc.

I have 3 children and no fedoras.

Strong traditional family with high achieving children.

Ride on your chances risking it for your happiness. I dont know why it ended but if you think of her so highly maybe something can be reciprocated back.

Op, never want kids. I wanna find a girl that doesn't tempt me to talk to other chicks. Your philosophy just sounds like your personal goal you've set yourself

Like I've had some crazy ass opportunitys in the past that I turned away because I didn't wanna cheat physically, but I've never been as happy as I used to be with the first. Granted I was literally like 17 w the first gf and it was obviously abit of infatuation or whatever but still loved her more then any other years later. 25 rn.

She's in England, I'm in Can. Impossible to try again and I've broken off most of the friendship as current gf was fairly jealous and untrusting for somewhat relevant reasons. I know I sound like a dick but every chick ive dated came with baggage and dumb ex shit too.

Must be nice.

Not only are you a dick but you're also an idiot. Why would you do all that for someone you don't even love.

Do what? I'm lost lmao. I studied a law degree in england, I didn't move there to be with a chick.

I still fap to porn that exes and I have made, and I'm married.

Right? Like I saved a ton from the same, just on occasion I'd talk to them and it sometimes lead to more. Idk if I was in a better more serious relationship again I'd have no urge?

Listen to your gf that you don't love.

I still care and love her to a degree. Just because I've not been as serious as with others, like I've been with this girl for 3 years now. Do love her but she's not the one based on everything I've gone through

Half-assed love doesn't seem fair to your current partner. Have you grown since breaking up with 1st gf.

The real Aristotle speaks!

So this is one of your exes and she sent you a pic of her asshole? Why did you break up with her? That’s rare.

What’s your prize clip?

I know. But she's done similar to myself, I won't go over three years of stuff. Right now we're doing long distance so I doubt it'll even matter, I'm more or less
just confused about my behavior and I wanna just be a better dude or figure out why I'm not happy enough. No this is current gf. I broke up with all of my past ex's, of which used to send nudes ect till I stopped. I have many pics of my gf, she's sweet but she's also manipulative and well just not what you'd want to wifey.

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I've thought I've gotten more mature, took relationships more coldly since the first. 2nd chick I dated really took advantage of my trust and I think I just adopted her behavior. She was mixed mulatto or whatever, hot but cheated. Idk, I wanna say I've learned but I had a bad relationship follow the best so I never really tried again. Its hard to explain, I just expected alot more along time ago

Holy shit OP. I do the exact same thing. My girl works at a bar and isnt off yet and im texting 2 of my ex's right now.

Why not just stay single? I love the single life

Post more nudes

Your current gf has a nice asshole. I’d dump the others and stick with her.

For me I think it is something about knowing they still want me, that im still on their mind and they still want to fuck. Even if I dont go through with it, hearing my ex drunk call me and tell me how bad she wants me to fuck her just does something for me.

Yeah this works until they end up being the ones sending nudes to their exes. You're probably just a cuck and encourage it.

Youre hung up on the past. Since behaving this way hasnt gotten you in trouble and you havent hurt anyone you continue. I think you've set a kind of co-dependency on you 1st gf for all the emotions you had felt before. Like you've only invested in her and not any other girlfriends so that's why it's hard to be happy.

At least I haven't been the only one. You ever feel guilty?Maybe
You haven't even seen my last ex mate. She had/has a bettee ass but she's like half uh Somalian, fairly dark skinned but best ass I've had.
Idk, I get lonely fast. Second I'm not talking with friends or whatever, get bored and feel shit if I'm single. I really never tried to stay single more then 2 months since I started dating

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I don't feel guilty in the act, usually when I see my girl and i'm constantly worried about my phone going off or me not covering my tracks well enough.

I'm one of those fags who believes that a man is only as good as his word. So, hooking up with exes is off of the table. Besides, divorces are too expensive. That's also why I keep said vids on a hidden folder in an encrypted external harddrive that is hidden in plain sight. My wife would be livid if she knew.

I know you're right but I seriously tried in my second relationship, treated a bipolar cunt like a princess and just got toyed with. Like I want to feel how I used to again, and forget about random gratification from exs but I can't find a girl up to that standard or even meet one. My fam moved to a new city, so I dont even know anyone out here

You don’t respect other people, so why should they respect you?

The most attractive quality in a guy is that he does what he says he’s going to do.

I have a friends with benefits but we’re exclusive in bed, we’re free to flirt and talk to other people. Doesn’t make me feel like shit and I’m not lonely. I can have sex with him whenever, and ask for ex for nudes without the guilt.

Tell me about your relationship history, mine is something like this:

>First gf was smoking hot but i broke up with her for no reason and im still in love with her
>Next serious gf was a brown skinned psycho bitch who gave me trust issues and made me feel bad about her cheating on me, causing me to look for validation from girls i had fucked or dated in the past
>a couple of throwaway relationships, never last longer than a month or two. constantly getting nudes from exes the whole time, never cheating or doing anything physical.
>new girl, feel guilty about it because I actually want things to work with her, i want to be different. But every little thing she does is a red flag and almost sends me spiralling back into the messages of an ex to see some titties and feel better

You're feelings have validation but that doesnt mean you're entitled to anything. You dont deserve things from other people because someone before hurt you or didnt treat you right.

I've tried that, and got screwed over twice. My ex's have been oblivious to this behavior in the past, I broke up with them. Like maybe I half self harming behavior but how the hell am I supposed to find a perfect girl after getting screwed or finding out most girls I've dated just aren't what they seem later on

I've been handed a lot in my life due to luck and I'm nearly a lawyer now so I guess I expect to date someone of the same caliber but I know, I just idk.. I can't find one that would actually treat me like I used to think was possible.

Literally same. But first gf perfect.. The chick is literally cosplaying ahri and shit for fun with a few 1000s followers on shit. She's definitely changed and I'm not into the whole ethot shit but that's her life now. After getting screwed over by a manipulative next chick I just gave up, lower standards. Talked to ex's, kept it going.. Eventually into this situation and I'm stuck in a long distance relationship.

I have a titty fetish, and I used to date this chick that is a natural 36G. I can't say that I have one favorite with her: vid related.

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I would drop everything and marry my first ex right now if she said the word, and she's done nothing but become more down to earth and cool and i just feel like a fucking idiot for ending it.

i still have vids of my psycho bitch ex who cheated

Well OP my last thoughts. I think everyone never gets over their 1st gf because that's the purest love we ever have. It's the 1st love we experience that sets the standard. It's what you know and learned. That's why we seek similar partners and experiences. We're all creature of habit. I think you need to be more warm towards the ones you love. Trust and love mean more than anything. You shouldn't ignore your behavior. Don't leave any regrets. Pleasure isn't the same thing as happiness. When you get tired of using people maybe get to know what it's like being alone (but not too long) be good do good.

Same, but my first was led astray by shit friends and me not living there. Face of innocence back then. Like I'm okay with meeting a 8-9 out ta 10 bomb shell in the city I'm living but I don't wanna fuck it up with the past or have her manipulate me. I can agree to a lot of that. I just wish it was simpler and could actually find people who think the same. I haven't trusted my current gf since day one for good reasons, I usually stick with bad relationships too long

My ex also turned into an e-girl. Gets a lot of attention from guys on tiktok and even shared nudes once. She has a discord with all her orbiters and says they're just friends. Shows me texts of guys in her dms asking her for nudes and her sending them. Kills me in the inside. I wanna die.

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Pretty normal, it's a standard ego boost stroke job. The morality of it depends on whether your gf would be hurt by it. Some girls prob would be bothered more than others. Eventually you are gonna cheat though. I did at one point and felt bad for a long time even tho the girl I cheated on was a total cunt. Brought an ex over, railed the shit out of her and came inside her. Oh well.

>somalian
ahahahah. yikes.

Mine was just into photography a little, she's more into designing shit then the weebs who follow her, she's never been into nudes and all that like last I heard she's just focused on work and shit but yeah that would have hurt me if she was doing that at least. I'd post a pic of her but I wouldn't know how to block face or whatever from Instagram

trying to convert to webm

You'd be singing a different tune with that ass in your face. She'd do anything I'd ask too, was down for a three some but never got to organize something. She wasn't bright though

Are you on pc/mac/android/ios?

Mac, having a hard time getting them under 2MB and when i do it says something about audio not being allowed

Heres a pic though

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youtu.be/hPhc9FU7ycI

In the program, there's normally an option to edit the video in order to remove sound. Also, you'll need to adjust the resolution/frame rate. Be advised that mp4 has high compression than a webm file. So, if you're converting from an mp4, the finished webm will be larger.

For OP to ponder over

That's deep shit. But, it's true. I didn't find happiness until I understood the significance of sacrifice and duty, and I found those through enlisting and starting a family, where there was something bigger than myself, and I had to face new challenges on an almost daily basis.

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Nice, user.

Got any more?

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oh shit. I take it all back user, that is indeed nice.

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Im usually nihilistic, I know I may never be as happy as I have been, or to just enjoy every moment. Nothing truly matters. But atleast here I need to feel acceptable accomplishment etc whatever humans need. But what if humans are just not supposed to be so tied down? What if I'd be truly happy having a couple girlfriends for the rest of my life? Just hypothetically I mean, I doubt that is the case. But who's to say if three of us were happy it would be so wrong

Like if i could change things, I'd want to have a strong relationship and a fresh start with someone who shares alot of similar values without any of my past. But I have no idea how to do that, I'm not in university anymore and in a city where I know no one as well

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It's okay, user. You'll figure it out. I'm an existential nihilist. Life has no meaning other than what we attribute to it. Find out what's important to you. However, in order to do that, you must truly find yourself. Two things did that for me, Afghanistan and psilocybin. If you keep searching for your muse, you will find it.

More?

That's perfect. You can reinvent yourself. Be whoever you truly are, and people can accept, or reject it. It's no skin off of your nose.

Signing off for the night, sorry boys.

Gotta hang out with my girl and all of her friends who are coming in from out of town

God damn it Ethan get back in your cage

Its just rough, I used to have close friends who'd at least say similar shit or be there when I was single. Like I really. Really. Hate being single. My current gf pushed me away from all of them, most were girls and a few close buddies, but she sort of just got me off social media gradually. I really appreciate the advice though, I just don't know how to manage it if I do breakup again and just wait

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You fucked up go get her back and
never let go kiddo

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Why do girls do that shit. Like logging of social media solves all your problems. Yea not communicating fixes everything too. It's ridiculous.

She was power grabby, anytime I talked to a friend about me and her she'd take it as me talking shit about her as if its her business how I discuss and argument we'd have.. Two years later most of my friends don't know why I've been mia

Get a hobby, man. The bitch sounds like poison. After I found myself single at 30, I started lifting more, got a swole bro that I met at the gym, and then we'd just go out and crush. Sadly, if you're looking for intellectual stimulation or personal connection in 2019, it's going to be difficult. I lucked out because I met my wife while I was behaving badly, and she was smart enough to steer clear of me until I calmed down. We don't have everything in common. However, we have it where it counts. Seriously, the worst thing that you can do is isolate yourself. You will only fall down the rabbit hole of depression, and it's a bitch to get out.

You got your shit in line. Good for you b/ro.

Actually social media is toxic. I did it two years ago and I haven't looked back. We seem to have accepted social media as a surrogate for genuine human interaction. Instead of talking to insignificant people on Facebook, I either troll or do this in a limited capacity on Yea Forums, or I meet with real people for coffee and invite my neighbors over for dinner. I'm white and conservative, and my neighbors to my left are a gay couple, and my neighbors to my right are a pair of black college girls. Needless to say, they lean left. But, we all get along, and it's unlikely that we would via social media.

Yeah, tryna work on finishing my law credentials and some other shit but its like all this shit happened at once. I don't even know how to meet people in this tiny city. Like I've been in fairly big uni and tourist citys for 8 years , really not used to any of this shit. I think I should try to reconnect with some friends at least

Op, think ima sleep. I appreciate the constructive criticisms. I think my original post had a lot more depth then just fappen to nudes. Im not bitch, I know people are going through some real shit while we debate and discuss but I really don't know how to deal with this shit solo. Idk why I fear being single, I know what I'm worth but I think I just need someone there too

Try meetup. I was doing traveling radiography for a while, and that's how I'd meet new people in whatever city I moved to. I'm in fayetteville, Arkansas now, and I was shocked at how much there is to do. The food is shit. But the breweries are flame. I also met some guys at the bike park, and we shred Kessler mountain at least every two weeks. Stay focused on school. But don't give up. If you're passionate about something, other people will notice, and it will be like moths to a flame.

I'll have to check it out, I used to play osrs and met some peeps in the u.s england etc but I def need to find some irl buds close to home. Hopefully they have this where I'm at