>26 year old male >dating a 20 year old female. >only ever been with me. >been dating 1 years 4 months. >perfect girl, giddy and pretty. >planning to marry this girl. >i ask to marry, she's not ready. >she says she DOES love me lots and to try again later.
She wants to spice things up with a one off sex pass. She says it's only about sex and I get a free pass too.. but i reject it. She says I am only her true love interest and she would never hurt or cheat on me.
We use tinder for her as long as i watch. Fast forward, all i can remember is her having the wildest sex of her life and I have never pleased her like that.
I am annoyed and don't know why, but she says it's exactly what she needed and everything is back to normal and thanks for understanding it because she just wanted to experience it with someone else and that really was all it was.
I won't tell her I am annoyed, and I don't know if i should marry her anymore because it feels like she cheated me.
>she didnt say "yes" to marriage >lifes fucked wow, u r pathetic dont get married anyway, but then again u r a fucking retard, so u should marry some hoe to spite her right away, so she can become trailer trash and take half of everything u own right away
Blake Parker
Dude why would she be with me for so long fucking me twice weekly if she didn't love me?
I don't get why she would want to have sex with someone else.
Jacob Bell
It's because you don't satisfy her.
Don't marry her she will do it again she's using you lol.
Jaxon Green
how often r u faced with reading challenges?
Josiah Johnson
I think she actually genuinely does love you but she doesn't like the sex.
Maybe consider going to the gym to improve how you look?
Ryan Lee
What does that have to do with anything? Don't be a douche man i need help.
Elijah Harris
Op is a faggot.
Jose Sanders
>I need help >Asks a 20 year old to marry him You sure do.
Eli Miller
why would you want to marry a 20 year old in the first place? sounds like you're too emotionally involved in this, bro (and she ain't)
Alexander Cruz
Dump her. You humped now dump.
Austin Johnson
boy, she cucked you and you are still considering marrying her? you are one huge beta faggot
Matthew Richardson
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Camden Young
>love you >cucks you Yeah sure fag
Charles Allen
Is that your girl she is hot as fuck if she leaves you kill yourself on livestream for a kek godspead Yea Forumsro
Jack Martinez
So much larping going on in this thread You aint got nothing better material OP?
That's what I am thinking but I have to make this work because i have never met a girl quite like her. I don't want to throw 2 years down the drain just over something so she thinks is no big deal.
It's not about the sex, we are so close and she told me she loves me and i love her as well and she asked for permission i don't quite see what's going on.
I don't think she's that superficial.... maybe but if she really cared about that then i don't think she would still be with me or cheat on me.
Age is just a number.
No, it's not about sex.
She asked for permission though, maybe she was just wanting to experience sex with someone else before she got to settle down but i really don't know if i believe my own bullshit.
Lucas Walker
Honesty is evrything OP, just tell her how you feel. Shes a lot younger than you and if youre from usa then shes close to being able to go to clubs n all that. So go with her and show her youre all she needs,
I wish you big luck fren
Parker Hall
She won't leave me, on the contrary it's me who is thinking about leaving her.
Tell me why she would have sex with me twice a week for nearly 2 years, go out with me every weekend to eat out and go explore the world like go to beaches and zoos together and take pictures together if what she really wanted was to fuck around?
It's not her character, she's like suddenly asking to fuck some random guy to get it out her system and she can't really explain it but i don't know if i can accept it or believe it.
She was upfront about it and even asked permission. Does that sound like a massive slut to you?
Why are you getting married at 26 you fucking idiot? Wait a while... You're only been dating this girl a year you absolute retard.
Bentley Richardson
>Will you marry me? >Pls try again later >Brb using tinder to get fucked like a pornstar while you watch
Nicholas Bennett
She didn't ask for your permission, she just wants antes you to watch. She must have been so turned on about you knowing about it, sex will now feel stale for her if it's not cuckning you.
Camden Garcia
U need to cut her off completely, u shouldn’t be with a whore like that who cheats
Brody Reyes
dont marry her. dont leave her. dont invest too much in her. keep fucking her and having fun together while it lasts. dont expect it to be as serious as you want it to be, she's 20. just fuck her properly every chance you get and have fun every time you go out. dont expect her to stop wanting other dicks down the road. good luck
Dude chill and understand where you are asking for advice.
For real, is it weird that you asked to fuck someone else? Absolutely not. I dont know, but only having fucked one person in my life would have felt odd.
You asked a 20 year old to marry, obviously too early and she seems to be curious about what life can offer. Not odd the slightest considering her age.
Women tend to be rather emotional so even if they get good sex somewhere else, doesnt mean they will leave you. Still, id up my game in the bedroom. No reason why she should remember that one night she had great sex. Be better.
Tell her you appreciated her honesty and lets simply hope she comes around regarding the marriage.
Isaiah Watson
If not bait, ur an idiot and should leave
Asher Jones
>Asking to fuck some random guy to get it out of her system
Yes, that sounds like a massive slut to me.
Parker Wright
Hahahahahaha. You fucked it. This will bother you for the rest of your life. Everytime she pretends to cum you'll be reminded that she's thinking about that other cock. She will definitely seek foreign cock again, without a doubt. Dump her.
William Bell
>Asks Yea Forums for help about his girlfriend wanting to cuck him >Dating for a year and already proposed >She's not satisfied with how you fuck her >Gets mad and defensive when Yea Forums points out she's a waste of time >Starts showing signs of being an absolute beta loser who is obsessed over this girl
Nobody can help you here dude, you played yourself on this one. For 26 you sure act like a little child when confronted with reality.
What kind of a response to a proposal is "try again later"? LMFAO!
Nathan White
Listen here, OP.
Do you watch porn? Of course you do, watch your favorite amateur porn where they fuck passionately. Then, go find your gf and fuck her like they fuck in porn.
You have to learn good sex if you want to keep her, otherwise she's right to not want to stay with you and you don't deserve her.
I know it's annoying af but you should learn good foreplay, and i don't mean have her blow you first. >Cunnilingus.
Jordan Miller
Hey user, I think you are fucked mate. I'm sorry, you have to move on. I am 30, my gf is 26. She never had anyone before me. For the past 2 years I've been trolling her about other men, or women, or threesomes. The answer is always a big fucking no. She even gets angry, calls me names but NEVER, EVER she ever wished for another guy. That's called love. Those other fags here don't understand you like I do. Just leave em, bunch of them are virgins still. Gotta move on man and find other girlfriend.
Gavin Nguyen
fucking idiot
Dominic Robinson
You literally said the same thing everyone else is saying.
Btw your gf definitely would fuck another guy, she's just acting over the top so you don't think she's a slut.
Bentley Sanders
good sex isnt enough to keep her from straying away, trust me. but it does increase your chances by a lot. still, no guarantee, ever
Ayden Howard
Fair enough but it's a start.
I have a feeling OP is a little sensitive about his masculinity and should work on that as well.
But sex is easier.
Ethan Taylor
This. Find someone that doesn't need to have sex with other people you fucking cuck. She don't love you the way you love her.
Ryan Taylor
Lmao you’re lord of the cucks
Eli Gonzalez
Kek
Brandon Lopez
She wants everything. She doesn't love you. She wants someone giving her money, a cuddle friend, a safe harbor... That's you. And then she wants to get fucked by many guys which throw her away afterwards. If not she will replace you by someone better. That's it.
Evan Green
Sounds like you should have used your free pass, maybe you'd fund yiur sexual chemistry with someone else is as strong as hers was with a other guy. Maybe you're both kidding yourselves that you are meant to be together.
Wyatt Murphy
don't listen to this faggot
dump her ass, you could find better literally chatting up some random girl at the supermarket.
Juan Turner
True. After awhile she'll look at him but she'll be thinking of that night. She'll want that night back and she'll go out and get it free pass or not
Blake Myers
you made this happen, then you decided you will not talk this through and keep your feelings to yourself. you have only YOURSELF to blame. advice? stop being a retard and think before acting once in a while.
Nicholas Phillips
She's 20 and you're asking to get married? Get a grip you cunt
Ryan Scott
20 is still childhood in the scheme of life. Remember when you wanted to be a spaceman,
Jonathan Miller
Allows himself to get cuked comes crying to us kys Op
Nathaniel Powell
Your first mistake was not dumping her on the spot for even suggesting wanting to fuck someone else.
>Yeah, you can have unlimited free passes. Now get the fuck out of my apartment.
It's very simple. You are now, and will continue to be her emotional support blanket. You're safe and harmless and will listen to her problems. You will never be her true sexual partner since she has now been pleasured elsewhere and shes now realized it really is a you problem and not a her problem. You're now the equivalent of her safe gay friend. The well has been poisoned, you're better off digging a new well elsewhere.
John Gomez
this
Alexander Powell
OP should bake his gf a rape cake, cut her a slice then rape her.
Jason Jackson
this guy gets it
Aiden Rodriguez
Something makes me think he got off more watching the guy than hes comfortable admitting
Ethan Jenkins
He's dating a Magic 8 Ball?
Asher Long
I'm dating a 20 yo girl and I'm 31 and she was a virgin and she would never ever suggest something like that, she gets jealous even if i say i think a girl in a show is cute. She always asks me first if she can be friends with any guys and never hangs out with them alone. She might like you a lot but she doesn't love you
Brody Cook
My girlfriend had never had a guy really go down on her. When I did it to her it blew her mind, she never knew how it could be.
Sebastian Sullivan
>Dude why would she be with me for so long fucking me twice weekly if she didn't love me? You truly don't have a clue, do you?
Levi Morales
Cuck.
Daniel Anderson
Never marry a woman if you aren't her first and only
Let's just face the facts. If you hadn't agreed, she would have done it behind your back. The fact that you let this happen means you're just as guilty as she is. The only real option is to leave her and start over.
I find the fact op keeps stressing the "twice weekly" thing kinda strange. Is it set days? Wensdays and Saturdays? Has it always been on such a tough schedule? On days you don't fuck, does she disappear for extended periods of time?
Logan Gomez
A wife would wait for sacrifice not being a roastie for her husband, ur an idiot and let ur girl get cucked, it’s clear she has shit morals and is a whore, dump her to try and recover your dignity t. Married man
William Ortiz
KEK!!
Caleb Campbell
marry her, she is a fucking keeper dude. It's not cheating, think back on how how it was and how much fapping you are gonna have to that memory. Honestly jealous.
David Diaz
sex with another person is always different. It's good to have different experiences. She wanted to feel what some else was like and despite the sex being great she still wants to be with you. Don't overthink it
Thomas Nelson
Yea Forums conditioning propoganda
Austin Bailey
trolling not a conspiracy you idiot.
Jayden King
This is some weak bait
Aaron Bailey
Shes already left emotionally and is manipulating you for your beta bucks. Get your head out of your ass
Andrew Adams
Bait
Ian Gray
Your relationship was ruined the moment huh had premarital sex. You are both degenerate and if you get married you will get cucked/divorced. Good luck, I hope you find Jesus some day and a woman who would save herself for her husband.
Aaron Bennett
This. It'll be rough on you, but you've gotta cut her adrift. She already told you she's a whore by saying she wants some other dick. Don't marry whores.
Eli Ross
It must be hard being this retarded at 26
Jose Wright
>wildest sex of her life How the fuck would you know that? I don't know what would be worse you being in the room or her bragging after the fact how great it was.
Brayden Jones
I didn't even think about that. Kek. I could only imagine op sitting across from the bed while some other dude knocks the bottom out of his girls pussy.
Jonathan Cox
>She won't leave me, on the contrary it's me who is thinking about leaving her. >Tell me why she would have sex with me twice a week for nearly 2 years, go out with me every weekend to eat out and go explore the world like go to beaches and zoos together and take pictures together if what she really wanted was to fuck around? >It's not her character, she's like suddenly asking to fuck some random guy to get it out her system and she can't really explain it but i don't know if i can accept it or believe it. >She was upfront about it and even asked permission. Does that sound like a massive slut to you?
I've been there. Exact same situation. Using your very excuses not to break up. Staying and marrying and having a kid.
Guess what? You're *never* going to forget. It'll haunt you. It'll fuck up your sleep. For years on end.
And yes, she will eventually cheat again. You'll get divorced. Lose a fuckton of money. Start over.
So hey, choose your own way. But given the chance, I'd punch myself in the face and tell me to break up that very moment. In a heartbeat.