How can I convince my best friend's wife to have a miscarriage?
Me and my best friend who have the strongest connection with and I would always hang out for years had suddenly dropped the news yesterday that his first kid is on the way and he was excited. I personally told him "congrats"but deep down, I feel like he should wait to become a dad since he's in his early 20's and he should not be a dad. Unfortunately him and his wife dont believe in birth control or abortion so they are gonna be parents but they didnt consider my choice if he could be a dad or not since it could affect our friendship and the fact that I known him since he was 8 and I was his mentor.
Im not fucked up or anything but I just dont want to be left behind with no love or kid especially since I had to work so hard to find new friends to replace the ones I grew up with that just moved and found "better jobs" or started new lives and just forgot about me.
I understand that you want to keep your friend, but we can't go back user, only move forward. Also, I empathize with you, but the fact that you want to murder this unborn child because it might be an inconvenience for you is truly appalling, you need to rethink your morality. How could you even suggest something like that? Asking a happy expectant mother to miscarriage because you "think they're not ready."
Nolan Jenkins
holy shit man. you want to kill your best friend's kid? what the hell is wrong with you? obviously they want the baby or they would have gotten an abortion.
Leo Perez
You should commit yourself to an insane asylum
David Miller
I hope you grow up and realize how infantile you're acting right now. Your friend is moving on to a new part of his life. You need to, as well. Stop hoping for the baby to die and get your shit together, maybe you can have a baby soon too and then be bro dads.
Your friend fucked over his whole life , move on take the high road.
Matthew Taylor
again, you can never go back to the way things were. you have a choice now to either adapt to the new dynamic or leave these poor people to raise their child in peace. his wife is pregnant and her needs come before yours. he married her, not you. he doesn't have to ask your permission before starting a family; the fact that you think he should demonstrates your lack of maturity.
as far as him not being ready to be a father, that ship has sailed and it was never your decision to make in the first place. it's not up to you. for the betterment of your friend i think you need to either grow up and accept your new reality or peace out. a new father will have a lot of responsibilities to take care of without having to cater to your narcissistic bullshit. offer to help care for the kid or keep your distance.
no one i know that had kids young , ended up worth a fuck ...just miserable low wage slaves working their whole lives for some one else.
Jose Mitchell
>take the high road, continue to live in your parents basement smoking weed and playing vidya all day while your friend goes on to build a happy new life with his family
Daniel Adams
people like him won't see the error of their ways until they're 45 years old in a dingy basement efficiency eating cold takeout and scrolling through estranged friends pages on Facebook, looking at their nice houses and happy families before sighing wistfully and returning to Pornhub.
and by then it's too late.
Brody Phillips
lol, k , im the only guy out of all my high school friends that , owns a house , a nice sail boat , and gets to travel. None of them since they had kids before or during school , had the option of school or a trade. all of them got divorces and went through huge costly custody battles , in which their own kids ended up hating them, for caring about their personal bullshit instead of their children.
But i get where your at kid , basements, memes, weed, and video games.
You will see if and when you grow a brain who was right.
Leo Anderson
>but they didnt consider my choice
its not your relationship bro lmao this is PSYCHOTIC thinking
Nathaniel Torres
none of my "estranged friends" even own a home. you don't know me , but you sound fucking pissed , i don't follow the system like good cattle.
Owen Ward
nice blog faggot go LARP somewhere else
Joseph Roberts
>someone tells him the bitter truth >"u mad bro? u so mad"
ok buddy , ill go do something more worth while. You're obviously retarded or brainwashed or both .
but ill leave this here : Average Cost of Raising a Child in America
The most recent available information says that the average cost of raising a child from birth to age 17 is $233,610 in a married two-parent middle income family with two children. This information comes from a U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) report from 2017, using information from 2011-15 and figures in 2015 dollars.
That easily buys a nice sail boat Dumbass.
Colton Walker
You are an awful and selfish person and certainly not this soon-to-be father's friend in any way shape or form.
I hope the child is born healthy and grows to be a great person unlike you.
Angel Sanders
You can always slip a substance into her drink that would cause a miscarriage.
imagine being this selfish and immature. you deserve the noose just for thinking this
Justin Martin
Every post in this thread makes me sick. You’re all weak to even consider the word selfish to have any negative meaning. Being “selfish” is simply living with your best interest in mind, which is how any successful human has ever lived. All these bible thumping morality morons will lead you astray. OP: you’re the main character in your life, others are merely a tool you should use to further increase your overall quality of life, however that may be achieved. If you want your friend to lose their child without it coming back to you, try to cause them an immense amount of stress. A house fire is always a stressful situation for any budding couple. I wish you the best of luck.
Adam Flores
real chads can afford both. not sure why you're so belligerently proud of having nobody to care for you when you're old and frail or carry on your family name but it's not for me to judge. you do you.
you must be Chinese, to them , every thing and every body is something to use to enrich themselves, everything else be dammed.
Kevin Gutierrez
You're a selfish asshole and a monster. I hope this is just b8.
Owen Lewis
I'm not in china, we have a social welfare system. Who says i don't have kids ? i just said all my friends had their kids when they were young , I'm almost 40. I also when to school for a trade , and make ok money. You really like to assume shit you have no fucking clue about.
Aiden Ward
Chads? , now we all know you're 14 and retarded , grow the fuck up mr "chad"...faggot ass nigger.
Ayden Myers
You fucking say your not gonna judge while judging you hypocrite nigger.
Anthony Gomez
based
Isaiah Cook
wew lads. my post really struck a nerve huh?
Nolan Richardson
Kick her in the stomach
Jk
Jose James
My parents had me when they were 21, I'm 26 now, and they're both making over 110K a year, each. I'm working on getting a degree still, but you can very easily have a kid at around 20 and be fine if you're not a retard and give up drinking/smoking/partying to focus on your ambitions and making a lifestyle. Fuck outta here.
Charles Carter
Ok cool , i'm not saying that it never works out but making good money and not having you would have freed them up to enjoy their own lives instead. but its a proven fact young couple don't work out the majority of the time. that makes single family homes , and that creates shitty kids that grow up to be even worse adults.
Eli Nguyen
>I want to kill my friends baby so he stays as my best friend What the fuck is wrong with you OP Unironically kill yourself
Leo Sullivan
This is a larp. If it's not a larp then you should be convincing your mother to have a late term miscarriage.
Lincoln Carter
>I need advice to go back to how things were Restart your life
>Yeah you have to give up your way of life to support another life
you're either a nigger, white trash, or have the maturity of a 8-year-old. either way you should just get a vasectomy right now before you curse some kid with having you as a parent
Evan Murphy
Things will never go back to "how they were" This is part of life Things change, people grow Don't take away their child just because you want him to spend time with you How would you feel if he did that to you?
