Does anyone deal with feeling unlikable? No one asks about me. No one talks to me except a few. Shit, as an adult who isnt that ugly Id expect to get talked to at least a few times monthly by horny strangers. Gays say Im not their type(idc im not gay but they all say that and it raises questions) I dont really hang around many woman. I hit up single girls sometimes who I know need some dick but they never go further than their "hi" response. I wonder often if its my personality. Or if its bc I dont take any social media serious and have 0 internet presence other than FB. Its killing me lately and making me depressed. I want to be someone different if theres just something about me thats so off putting. I dont even know what that could be either..
Does anyone deal with feeling unlikable? No one asks about me. No one talks to me except a few. Shit...
well
Post face?
They all sense you have a micro penis
heres an older pic of me high on drugs at some rando's trap house
I feel the same way OP. I'm pretty average looking, have a good job, average height, can have a conversation without sperging out, but nothing.
my theory is im too average - aka boring and unnoticable. maybe the answer is to adopt somthing to stand out. (e.g. unusual hairstyle, tattoo, clothing)
>thoughts?
you look like a fag tbqh
you're full of hot air i'm guessing that's what your high on and the drugs are for everyone else to tolerate how ugly you are
Aw shit that's a real ouchie bro
Actually it was probably cough medicine or a bit of oxy. Is saying hot air meaning Im a dick head or stupid? I dont think ive heard that saying in a while
Well it wasnt going to mean stupid but you couldnt figure out i was talking about the balloon unless you did and made me explain it which makes both of us stupid
Well fuck we are dumb
Listen here. Go find some shit you enjoy doing, something with other people. Football or chess or whatever. Get a hobby that you enjoy, but also allows you to socialise. The most important part is to enjoy yourself. Do you think anybody wants to talk to the guy "hitting up girls he knows needs some dick" or the guy just having a good time? Put up some good vibes and the good vibes will come back to you. Don't expect anything, but learn to be cool on your own. Don't base your happiness on the validation of others.
It’s my experience that people are just assholes nowadays. Just keep talking to people. If they are assholes, fuck’em. Who needs them? Keep talking to people until you find some people that value you, and treat you with respect. Then just stick with them. If they turn into assholes, rinse and repeat. Until you find people that aren’t retards.
Well i mean i usually just cruise around with a few people sometimes and we drink. I tend to have a good time and talk a lot but no people are coming to me by any means. Im usually the guy in the front seat playing some fiyah. But youre probably right, maybe find some hobbies. Im out of school tho usually working
>nobody likes me
>fiyah
Lol strong point
Captain of my own experience. Both hands on the wheel.
I dont base any of my happiness on anything other than my personal wins and achievements. But i guess its a lack of substance and loved ones in my life.
You expect things from people. There’s your problem.
I'm feeling delirious. I watch Ally McBeal.
No
I really dont expect anything though. I just wish I knew what makes people not want to be my friend or even get to know me.
have you considered that it might just be them and not you?
Of course. I do have a fuck it mentality about these things. But ive been thinking on it lately, cus theres a lot of people in the world and none of them but a few care to speak to me for anything
were you born a dude?
Hm hm hm. I don't think you don't look likeable. I mean, to me you look like a boy, not a man (but I'm probably just older than you), however I doubt it's about your looks. I personally don't usually approach guys/talk to them when they're always surrounded by their friends, have earphones in or stare into their phones in a way that makes it seem like they really don't want to be talked to (like, not just some short looks or messaging someone but burying your face in your phone). Not because I think they're shitty but because it puts me into a more vulnerable position. When he's surrounded by friends I'll feel like there isn't just one person that might judge and reject me but multiple, when he's got earphones in I just assume me talking to him will bother him plus not really into creeping up on him and tapping his shoulders. Obviously can't speak for every woman but I personally don't decide not to talk to people based on their looks but based on whether they a) seem easy to approach in that they're friendly b) have something on them that I care about/that draws be to them (like for me e.g. Those fesrival wristbands or just the vibe I get from them because of how they seem to interact with their environment but I guess can also be a fitbit or sneakers if she collects them or a thrasher shirt - depends on her and your personality/preferences) and c) don't look like they'll not only reject me (that's fine) but like they'll humiliate me.
Really don't know if this helps in any way and sorry that it's essay length