So, my gf found out that I masturbate to porn, and she didn't liked that at all, to say at least. She considered that as cheating, and made a huge drama about it, making me feel guilty, and said that she will forgive me, but I must swore that I will not do it again.
Long story short: I did, and I feel fucking bad. But should I?
We are in long distance relationship atm, but we plan to live together asap.
What should I do, user?
So, my gf found out that I masturbate to porn, and she didn't liked that at all, to say at least...
Sick my dick
>long distance relationship
dont expect more from a frogposter
fuck her right in the pussy
Treat. Yo. Self.
>long distance relationship
How the fuck did she find out? Keep going, it's not cheating in the least, but really. No pussy in the room? No say at all about porn
what she gonna do?
she not even living wit u user
I'm afraid losing her, even such little chance of that drives me nuts, because she's basically the only thing why I woke up and try to do stuff to make our future life better.
Can't really tell how, cuz she may read that, and find out about that I did it again. Idk user, I feel bad breaking my promise to her, and Idk what to do with myself.
Fap. You're in a long distance relationship, and you know what? She can't very well do anything for you! Have some porn. Go on /h/. Fuck her opinion, you can't fuck her pussy.
I was in the same situation as you but married oh, she used it as an excuse to start when I found out was a 5 year cheating spree.
You're already burned, and you know you won't give up porn.
Dump her.
who was cheating
Op, run dont walk
Fucking kids this days....
Everybody masturbates, its not a fucking problem and for sure it isnt cheating.
I think I may, as I did with my bad habits, but I don't know when and how. I feel like I would not give a fuck about porn if I would have regular sex with her, cuz I love her, and I would never put my dick in anyone else, basically, because that would make her feel bad. But I was masturbating to porn all my life, basically, from the age of 7-8, I guess, and it's fucking hard to get rid of that source of fast dopamine, I guess. Fuck, it's all so complicated
But after all what she said I feel really guilty and like I cheated to her. Fuck. I really don't know what to do.
What do you mean?
Leave her immediately. If she's autistic enough to think watching porn is cheating, there's no telling what's coming next
user. You didn't fuck another woman. You didn't start another relationship. You got some porn and chopped your chode. Beat your dick. Punched your penis.
Not the same as cheating
But fuck, she feels like I did, and that makes her feel bad, so I feel even worse by making her feel bad, especially in that way. I think I would feel kinda sad too if she did masturbate to porn, but I won't consider that she cheated at me.
Okay satan.
Women are irrational creatures. Let them be, keep doing what you're doing, and just don't let her find out. She's being irrational. She's trying to keep you to herself when she's hundreds or more miles away. She can't help you, you need to help yourself
Find a new girl. Stop wasting time.
But maybe I need to try not to? And I feel like telling her that I broke my promise. I know that more than stupid, but I feel like I can't hold that in me. Should I try to tell her that, and not fap to porn again? Like fuck, I feel such a big guilt on my shoulders, but I feel if I would drop it, she will leave me.
Besides that situation, everything is basically perfect in our relationship, and that's what makes me feel so attached to her and that relationship. And I feel like I'm ruining it all by myself.
ahahahahahahahahaha, faggot.
Sorry voice to text. She caught me looking at porn twice and then started cheating like crazy, even though I quit porn for years and underwent a huge transformation when I realized it genuinely hurt her.
So yeah, divorced the turbo slut.
I'm sorry user, that's an awful thing to happen to anybody. She was probably just looking for a justification to cheat.
Yeah I found stuff after the divorce that makes me think she was cheating before. And I read some of her notes from her therapist she started going to toward the end, she clearly has a need for variety that even the perfect man couldn't satisfy.
I feel bad for the poor bastard she's with now, he doesn't know what's coming, and I'm not going to tell him because if they move in together I get to stop paying alimony.
America!
So what should I do, user?
Sick my duck
If you actually like her tell her that it's unreasonable to expect you to stop doing something that you've done since before you knew her and is completely natural and harmless. You're not having an intimate emotional or physical connection, you are simply satisfying a latent biological need. If she can't accept that then you break up. EZ.
Trust me you don't want to be with a girl like that for long.
Maybe I should try to offer her to fap together to porn?
Your gf is a fucking moron if she thinks watching porn is cheating lmao. Let the slut go, she ain't worth it
The baddest part is not that you watched porn or told her/got caught but that you feel guilty.
I got that discussion with my GF ( now co-living ).
In my opinion you have 3 choice:
- tell her to send nudes/masturbate via skype
- tell her to STFU it's not her businness
- dump her.
also stop watching porn it may be helpful in the long term, I have some issue with cumming if my GF is not acting like a whore, plain vanilla sex does not stimulate me so much...
id fap to porn and show her the porn and itd turn her on
lol if she considers porn like cheating she ain't the one man
There's gold in my balls.
This.