I opened up to my girlfriend that I wanted her to finger my asshole last time she jerked me off...

I opened up to my girlfriend that I wanted her to finger my asshole last time she jerked me off. She spent an awful long time over at her sisters and I ended up falling asleep waiting on her so I didn't even get to see her yesterday. How bad did I fuck up? I still haven't heard from her or have seen her at all.

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Do you like musicals and doing your “girlfriends” hair. If so I got some news for you fren.

>How bad did I fuck up?
She thinks you're a faggot now. Buy a dildo after she dumps you and never bring this shit up again to any other girlfriends.

Definitely a red flag that she's suddenly gone MIA.

No and no, also I'm not gay. I just was curious on how it would feel and was moving my butt up hoping she'd get the hint.

Aren't there girls who are accepting to it though?

I just really hope she didn't cheat on me.

Kind of fucked up for your gf to just leave to her sister's just because you have a minor fetish. If she's not even willing to entertain the idea of fingering you then maybe you're not as close as you should be. Sure, she doesn't have to finger your bung and might not like the idea, but retreating to her sister from you just being honest isn't good. You didn't fuck up, she did.

>Aren't there girls who are accepting to it though?
Yes, but not as many as you've been led to believe. You're supposed to gauge her interest with subtle hints, not straight up ask her to put a finger in your ass. Just as there are women who are open minded about this, there are those who are not and find it disgusting and not manly. Next time you're curious, buy a toy and do this type of shit on your own.

It's probably completely unrelated why she went to her sisters, but since you suffer from this much insecurity, you'll make everything about you.

Tldr - I was you once.

best advice? Get off b, stop wildly assuming shit, and be patient.

If you keep assuming and crying about every little thing, she'll leave for good. Love requires trust. You seem to lack it

Who made up the damn rules on what it means to be a man?

Thank you, there needs to be more kindhearted anons like yourself.

But, I thought we were all here forever?

>Who made up the damn rules on what it means to be a man?
It differs from person to person but rather than worrying about living up to someone else's ideals of what it means to be a man, live up to your own and let people choose you and love you for who you are.

Sex is quite intimate people have this misconception that’s it purely physical, it’s not, when you let someone else know what your kinks are, it’s a window into how you are. Things like age are a contributing factor. If you want her to finger your ass during some sort of intercourse, you should ease your partner into that kink rather than dump it on her. If she ghosting you chances are the other user may be correct in they assessment of closeness fren. In a hundred yrs none of this will matter.

Why won't it matter in 100 years?

>you should ease your partner into that kink rather than dump it on her
exactly. I'd be pretty weirded out if my girlfriend suddenly pulled out a strapon and wanted to fuck me with midsex it but I'd be down to try it once if she dropped some hints and approached it smartly.

you're lucky. the closest i've ever gotten to acquiring gf was hugging my best (female) friend of like fuckin forever

Cause you will cease to exist in your current incarnation. When you get older you will look back and laugh. You will be ok even if she doesn’t come back. Son don’t ever define yourself by what others think. That type of fear will only allow you to be half your potential.

My GF asked if she could finger and rim my bumhole
You will find someone who is kinky lad

Is it really that simple though? Will just being myself make me feel better and attract people to me?

Wanna trade?

>Is it really that simple though? Will just being myself make me feel better and attract people to me?
Here's how I see things: I'd rather be myself and have someone pick and love me for who I truly am than to expend twice the effort on building and maintaining an elaborate lie so I can have someone that will love me because of that lie and not because of who I really am. I've tried being what other people would rather have and at one point it started becoming exhausting.

It's up to you to pick whatever suits you best.

>ast time she jerked me off. She spent an awful long time over at her sister
A normal girlfriend would just say "no, that's gross," or something. If she disappears, she's as weird as you are for wanting your asshole fingered.

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How old are you? Just curious.

Nothing is simple because people have a bad tendency to get in their own way. You have to be true to yourself about life. Don’t feel guilty about your girlfriends inadequacies, this will only hinder you. You are the man, you call the shots, that being said. Modern men live in a society where women hold all the power. This is the natural cycle right before the collapse of a culture and it’s reborn in another form.

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Idk dude my GF said that she likes fingering my ass

>Modern men live in a society where women hold all the power
>This is the natural cycle right before the collapse of a culture and it's reborn in another form
Do you have any sources to back up this claim?

25.

Look all around your clown world. You will understand here in the future.

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Faggot

You done goofed, she is leaving you and you're also gay.

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women hate sex and would rather just fuck themselves with a vibrating massager. everything fun, novel or otherwise exciting grosses them out

>I hope she didn't cheat on me

I doubt a little comment would cause her to cheat on you, OP. If she does cheat on you, no use getting upset about the fucking dumb slut anyway. Don't be ashamed of your sexuality. It's totally normal to want a girl to get kinky with you, she might just be a vanilla when regarding sex.

Any woman who thinks anal play means you might be gay is a dumbass, they would probably lick their friends cunt quicker than you would ask for a finger in ur ass.