Breaking up with my girlfriend today because she's polyamorous. YLYL bread.
I spent like 3 months basically cucking myself by trying out this lifestyle, genuinely facing my insecurities and trying to overcome jealousy, trying to figure out if my tendency toward monogamy was just social indoctrination like religion.
Turns out, nah, I just like when I'm in a relationship and I don't have to worry about them fucking and dating other people.
Help wash away the greasy film of cuckery that coats my heart, Yea Forums.
That was definitely what I attributed it to at first, because, duh. But then I started spite fucking a girl I used to talk to, and it wasn't helping. Full retard love mode, bro
Polyamoury is legitimately just the 2019 womans way of being a whore and still being accepted socially "because she told him beforehand!". OP im glad you realized this earlier, the notion that wanting a girl to be with you and only you is ween as toxic and controlling these days and its fucked.
Well, it came from the same notion that probably made a lot of us the people we are today: "Am I being lied to about this social construct?" That's the question that made me lose my religion, and question the government. So I applied the same concept to love, wanted to see for myself what it was like to try complete freedom. I know some dudes who seem happy with it.
But, it really seems like I really need that "it's us against the world" feeling in a relationship.
In my experience, making right-wing friends is like making friends who watch anime. I'm SURE there are some out there that aren't autistic or insane, but...
Josiah Jenkins
The final frame should be her holding the letter to her heart and looking wistfully in his direction, and him looking off in the distance wondering if the caterers have put out any food yet.
Kayden Wood
Yeah when people preach that monogamy is a social construction etc, it’s pretty damn odd that nearly every society decided to follow it. You’d think we’d have a lot more variety in our societies.
It’s almost as if it its actually innate to us as a specifies or at the very least all our ancestors found it pretty damn useful to establish it independently from one another.
Regardless of what edge-lord atheists try to tell the world religion is necessary to create and sustain productive and purposeful society. Many if not most rules in religions are there as pillars to build a worthwhile life on. Sure, some rules are out-dated, but most speak directly to the part of you that wants a transcendent experience in this life. By shutting yourself off to them you're only damning yourself to nihilism and unhappiness.
I pity your lot. The grass is always greener, sure, some people may have enough mental disorders to be ok with that kind of fucked up arrangement. The fact that you thought you'd like to date a literal whore and to live life as a whore yourself shows how shallow and unfulfilling your life must be.
I... what? If I say I don't like apples, you can't dispute me lmao. That is what has happened in my experience. Don't blame me for being observant, blame all the NEETs and incels and mall ninjas that are giving conservatives a bad name.
Camden Kelly
This is OP here to say I love you. People will call us samefags. Or just fags. But we know.
False, they just dont reveal their power level frequently so its hard to tell.
Im going to create a sort of fraternal society soon, if you are okay with giving up some level of anonymity and putting in member dues so we can buy shit itll be a good place for you
Jose James
>"I pity your lot," he says, as he wipes the cheeto dust from his hands using the same, still-warm sock he just emptied his post-hentai nut into
You tried, some chicks will be cool and keep you number one above all others. Most will value their family and themselves above you. Some will value other men above you.
If you chill around with a poly chick, don't fuck her. Don't discuss it. Poly can too often equate to mental illness. Just find someone else to be interested in when you encounter glaring red flags.
Christian Evans
Nah, working a cushy job with downtime. After my work day ends at 4:00pm I'll drive in the car I own to the house I own and if the mood strikes I'll probably fuck my wife.
As I said, I pity you lot.
Joseph Walker
>Poly can too often equate to mental illness.
Replace often with always.
Dylan Collins
>polyamorous It's a construct of modern life so that people can fuck around.
Cooper Stewart
I like you. You're confident in your views, but not an asshole. That's what I'm trying to achieve.
Adrian Sullivan
too often was slang for fuckin' run away lololol
Lincoln Martinez
Just bring it down to 70%. Shave a third off of what your response would normally be. Its akin to censorship, closer to matching frequency to communicate. Thanks for the compliment, you made my day. Lunch hour is over, enjoy your afternoon!
Tyler Scott
What about when it's your boyfriend who wants to do it? My boyfriend of thirteen years who I have two children with left me last month because he was "polyamorous".
Bentley Gray
I initially dismissed this line of thought as puritanical, but I'm starting to see the truth in it. I knew walking into this I'd get judged hard for ever even trying it, but you can see how I thought it was a noble pursuit. Trying to overcome fear. I was a bit deluded, though. Where the ylyl at doe ??/??
>Heh, good thing he used the wrong contraction in his argument. Now I can just point out that flaw and it'll negate his whole argument. Nothing personal kid.
It's funny how thin skinned you faggots are.
Anthony Moore
only retards let something as trivial as politics get between friendships anyways lmao
You're a thot he didn't respect. Got what was coming to you.
Jackson Thompson
Meh, I never hold the old college try against someone, you came away with new perspectives from your experience and have grown as a person. As long as you didn’t catch anything incurable, no harm no foul, but yes post more ylyl
Marriage is a great tool, because it sucks to get a divorced, the time and money spent around it even if it’s a no fault divorce is a money/time sink.
Actually shows a guy is committed if he marries you
Anthony Hall
Thanks for sharing this user. I've wondered myself sometimes. From a very logical perspective: Given that 1) Mutually beneficial social relationships are essential to psychologically normal human life. and 2) Social relationships tend to grow in value over time. Investing your time in a social relationship which explicitly endorses and encourages diluting the value of your relationship is a fundamentally self-sabotaging activity. The more you value the relationship, the more devaluing the poly agreement becomes. So, entering into an agreed upon poly relationship is placing yourself into a catch-22.
Cooper Allen
So is that saying it's my fault? I was a faithful stay at home mom and housewife after my chronic health issues made me need to stop working So I can't help but think he just wants to find someone who can make money because he doesn't like working (I agree I need to respect myself more, I should have left a decade ago)
Isaac Lopez
The only way I can see a poly working is if it’s a fetish to be humiliated (thus both people are being fulfilled in a horrible way)
Or it’s two sociopath (void of any actually empathy and bonds) who just really enjoy each other’s company.
Elijah Jenkins
I knew there would be a few actual humans in this thread
Glad this was insightful for you. I was even reading books on polyamory, and for a time was convinced that this would be a good way to heal my insecurities, so I was fully invested.
On the upside, she recently went through a relationship with a very controlling guy who I think is the cause of her recent need for sexual freedom, so maybe she just needs some time and some therapy. I'll stay a friend in her life to find out.
You pretty much nailed it. It wasn't your fault he left you, it was your fault the situation got to the point where you had two kids and no marriage. Not to say you're completely retarded, OP is here to tell you that love does make us do stupid things. But from now on, don't be a doormat.
Easton Bailey
they exchange love letters on their wedding day then get photographed reading them for the photo collection so they can look all lovey-dovey while expressing their feels.
but the guy is just not reacting or she wrote something stupid as fuck, while she's super worked up and in love cause he wrote something amazing or she's acting.
just my guess.
Charles Cox
>So is that saying it's my fault?
Well, you reap what you sow. You decided to rear children with a man who did not promise to be faithful with you. You say boyfriend, not fiance so I would put more blame on you than him.
A relationship outside of marriage is a standard contract of "we stay together until one of us no longer wants to be together." The whole point of marriage is a sacred vow that you will be together for as long as you both remain on this earth.
He never made such vow.
It sucks to hear I'm sure, but you got what was coming to you. You should have never agreed to have children with a man unwilling to make that vow.
Adrian Watson
Yes, and the whole point of this thread is wiping it off. Didn't read the post? lol
Jordan Baker
>Chronic health issues Major red flag right there. Basic, fat bitch excuses. Kys please
Bentley Murphy
At least post some funny pics if you’re going to circle jerk about op and shit
Dont do this. I did this with this 6/10 long term girl i was with. Youll get dragged through the mud. Everytime a new fuck buddy ditches her shell come crawling back. She will tell you how much she loves you and misses you. Act like she appreciates you and values you over all those other guys just until another guy gives her some attention a week later.
Gather your resources, make yourself a better person amd advace your life goals. Dont put the pussy on a pedestal, and soon youll start pulling some new vag. I went from 6/10s to 9/10 and better, no looking back
Leo Wright
Truth be told, he was probably nervous as fuck. I think a lot of guys get that "hyper vigilance" when they're super nervous. We get to a point where we are unable to process emotions so that we can be super focused on whats going on around us and keep a clear head.
Everyone else cried at my wedding but I didn't have any emotions except nervousness until I got drunk at the reception.
Noah Cox
At least you figured it out, and stayed true to yourself. There's nothing wrong with making mistakes.
Aaron Sullivan
listen to user
Nathan Richardson
Actually it's an insane allergy to cleaners and fragrances that keeps me from going basically everywhere but thanks bruh
Hunter Hill
Yeah, right fatty. Keep telling yourself that
Kayden Wilson
Don’t enter a poly relationship unless you’re a chad who can get laid more than your partner or you’ll end up bitter and jealous. Or don’t enter one at all because they’re retarded.
Leo Allen
Dubs speak truth
Evan Moore
OP here just got off the phone with her, feelsbadman because you can't help who you love but feelsgoodman because it was all on my terms.
It would be cool if she grows out of this, because she's a great gal and she's gorgeous, but this poly shit is not worth the feeling of emasculation.
