Why are southern men so gay? Any time I go anywhere, there's always at least one dude who seems all normal, but I notice pretty gay mannerisms, and they definitely notice me. I was at a doctor's appointment earlier and some kinda skinny, stereotypical redneck guy walked in and was leaning on the counter with his ass out and legs spread, then kinda crossed them. Then when I was waiting to check out I was sitting in the second row of seats on the end, I saw him walk out, and he went around the first row just to go in front of people, come around, and sit a couple seats over from me, all while making sure to not make eye contact or look at my junk. And he was lying really far back in the chair like he was riding cock. Like damn, do people not realize I can tell when they're looking at me or trying not to? I never know how to feel about it because it happens a lot.
I'm from the south, but you won't catch me acting gay in public. I really don't act or register as homo at all outside. I'm crazy gay though, so I don't know how to go about finding a relationship.
People think they aren't acting gay, but often we don't realize little things about ourselves like leaning on things with your ass out. Many others may not notice it either, but I do. There are also the ones who try way too hard to be manly and confident, but to someone with a very accurate gaydar, it exudes insecurity.
Tired as hell because I can't sleep. Also amused at how much attention I get from gay men. It's cute in a way even though I only like other cute bois.
How are you doing?
Hey, sorry about the shit I said a few days ago. I know it was very uncalled for but uh, yeah you could probably see why I did it considering the above :/
same here, hello and welcome if you are new, i am on and off here mainly coming here when its one of those days and you need to chillax but yeah good to see new faces
Am a florida man myself, Never bothered to use grindr or any dating thing, infact I've never really done anything romantic with any other person in my life and it sucks because I have no one to blame but myself
Jackson King
you aren't wrong, i've found a bunch of people interested from here but maybe only one or two within 100 miles :T
I live in Georgia. It fucking sucks. I don't actually look for anyone either, but I go out enough to see that basically nobody around here is like me because I'm a short, long haired weirdo. My best bet would be to just find a cougar since they sure as hell like me, but even then they just seem like the same vapid women as 20 year olds wanting to get fucked.
I used to think long distance relationships were stupid, but I've come to realize it's a lot easier than going out and meeting people because you already know a lot about that person. I'd kinda prefer it at this point.
Yeah I think I just appear too stern and people don't approach me for that reason and I have a hard time approaching others or atleast holding up a conversation, other than that I'm not openly gay in public so i dont know, hoping one day I will find another person who understands me as well as I understand them
I'm like that in terms of looks. Due to my circumstances growing up I became an angry little bastard with perpetual resting bitch face, and really intense eyes. It seems like I get very mixed looks, usually either kinda creeped out, or just outright want to fuck. And both suck because it shows how much people judge others by their covers, but I suppose I do too...
i just get told i look depressed all the time even when i'm not which is fun
Joseph Johnson
Same. I hate having to talk to people, and it's especially hard now that I'm not on any anxiety meds.
It sounds like you need a big hug
Kevin Rogers
that'd be very nice
Ayden Young
Want me to fly out there and give you one? :P
Hudson Mitchell
in the end they might just be concerned but yeah I can see how that would be not fun never been on any anxiety meds but I feel like I should try to get some
>group hugs
Caleb Brooks
it's never said in a concerned way, just being told to cheer up or that i look like i want to kill myself when i'm perfectly fine until they say it is fucking annoying
Christian Ramirez
Whatever you do, do NOT take any kind of benzos. They will fuck you up, big time. I hate them, and today when I was at my appointment, I forgot to mention to my doctor that I stopped taking my klonopin when she was writing my prescription, and she was shocked and could barely hold back tears throughout the next 10 minutes. Very few people understand how fucking awful they are, and it takes some serious commitment to quit a drug that turns you into a mindless, emotionless zombie. You don't realize how fucked up you were until you quit, and sadly, not many do. I would sooner do heroin than even think about touching benzos again because they have absolutely zero benefits, so don't fucking do it.
Hey, are you okay? Do you want to talk about something?
Josiah Brown
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Thomas King
i'm fine, i've just been told the same thing for years now
Grayson Gray
People who say "I'm fine", are not fine. I would know.
Joseph Brooks
well i've got to tell myself that or i don't know why i'm not fine and that scares me more
Kevin Barnes
And that's exactly what you have to do. You have to dig really deep to find out what makes you feel bad, and it isn't easy. I've gone through hell to get where I am, and I really like you, you're sweet and I want to see you happy. I'm more than happy to give advice or lend an ear if you ever need it.
Christopher Parker
thanks
Aiden Flores
advice taken I'll keep an eye out for that anything we can do to help in any way let us know