After 5 years of sex with my then girlfriend and now wife, she was very curious about anal sex. Because it was a heat of the moment type thing during sex, we didn't have any lubricant but she lathered enough saliva on my dick to slip it through anything. As soon as the head got in her asshole she said it was too painful and told me to pull it out and she's never brought it up again. It was so fucking tight and felt amazing. My question is: does anyone know a way I can ask or bring it up to have us try it again? I've brought it up but it always just ends up with her saying it hurt. Pic related is the wife.
It sounds like you already know what to do. Use lube and act like a faggot, stuff like "respecting women" and "as long as you're okay with it."
If it's your priority to do anal cause it felt tight, tough luck. If it's your priority to make sure she's not in pain, she'll respect that. Idk, 50/50.
Xavier Martinez
Bring it up during pillow talk, probably after sex, not before. Don't be pushy. Just tell her that it's been on your mind, and you think it could be worth another chance. Ask her to at least think about it. If she says no, don't argue, and respect her decision. If you show that you can respect her boundaries about it, then she might even change her mind.
Just go slow, communicate, and work that clit. Good luck.
Jaxson Lee
Get some muscle relaxants. It'll make it less painful, and she might be on board with that. And don't forget, lots of lube.
Logan Bennett
I'll have to bring it up again. More out of curiosity on my part. Because like I said, anal was HER idea. But I felt what it was like and I really liked it. Yea I'll bring it up again. Thanks fellas.
Cameron Cox
Don't use regular lube, use coconut oil. It'll slip in easier, and it doesn't get weird, dry, and grabby like regular lube.
