Ask a complete failure in life anything

Ask a complete failure in life anything

> 36 year old male
> kissless virgin
> no friends
> bad relationship with family
> minimum wage job despite university education
> chronic illness

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With that attitude you won't reach anything greater, step up your game, and make changes

Been trying to find a job in my field for 2 years now. Been trying to date for almost 20 years.

What is there to ask? You have nothing that interests me. Good luck though, maybe you should try harder.

>university education

Yup, no failure there. I've got your sets except without uni ed.

Everything you described is self induced. Let me guess your chronic illness is depression. Stop making excuses and have some personal accountability.

There are people in the world who suffer far greater tribulations than you do who come out on top... stop being a pussy

Useless degree

how long until you rope yourself?

At what point in life did you realise you were fucked? Also, what did you study?

>Let me guess your chronic illness is depression.

It's Crohn's. Depression isn't even worth mentioning.

Do or do not, there is no try

>At what point in life did you realise you were fucked?

Depends. When I was around 25, I came to the realisation that I might not just be a later bloomer dating wise.

>Also, what did you study?

Biochemistry. Molecular biology. Biomedicine. Call it what you want.

Boo fucking hoo. Get busy living or get busy dying.

You know that there are disgusting, horrible, hideous people that are able to form romantic relationships? What exactly is stopping you?

You strike me as someone who gives up very easily.

> Biochemistry. Molecular biology. Biomedicine.

IOW a useless degree with limited job potential.

Go back to community college and get a plumber's cert, ffs. Something you'll ACTUALLY be able to get a job in.

Do you have a social circle or any close friends?

You know the job doesn't even need to be related to your degree field, right? Go to a graduate recruiter if you're that lost.

>You know that there are disgusting, horrible, hideous people that are able to form romantic relationships? What exactly is stopping you?

I know many average and below average looking people who get gorgeous women. Why? Because they are decent people with a good personality. My personality is shit.

I fell for the study-what-interests-you meme.

Yes. I'm considering joining a trade.

>Been trying to date for almost 20 years.
go on a date with someone off grindr
go on a date with a random fat girl
ask a friend to go on a date with you just to practise
even if you found the girl of your dreams on your first date without doing this, you have such low confidence within yourself that you wouldn't feel comfortable 'being yourself' due to those thoughts

What do you mean your personality is shit?

OP you need to focus on yourself and your self worth before you try doing step 2).

No. Just some acquaintances with whom I go rock climbing.

Since I am an academic idiot, I have no useful real life skills. I asked around with recruiters.

thats bullshit, we all know this.

Just be yourself!

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I'm boring, dull and neurotic. No wit, no humour, barely able to hold a conversation. I'm also becoming increasingly grumpy.

biochemistry isn't a useless degree by any means. the petrochemical sector, big pharma, even food and drinks hire biochemists. and if the private sector isn't your thing, you can go into academia

> considering

Stop fucking considering, stop fucking moping, stop fucking feeling sorry for yourself, and get busy living. Or, like I say, get busy dying. The choice, and the life, is yours.

> I don't have any friends to ask for that
> And I had no success on Tinder in like 5 years. Maybe a dozen conversations and two dates. That is all.

The more time you spend around other people, the more they will bring out different sides to you.
You were not born boring, dull and neurotic - it was a process, based on your experiences, memories and everything else factoring in on shaping you as a person - the beauty is that shapes can change and it only takes one other person. You have to be aware and accept the fact that you can't do it alone, if you are going to give up trying by yourself and opening the door to other people.

If you wish to be reborn, do it while you're alive.
Wanna be someone else? Think like someone else. It's never too late.

academic skills are real life skills. Employers can recognise you were able to sit down and learn some shit about biology to a relatively high degree. Lots of people are too stupid to do that. How many applications do you make a week? You're not under some delusion about how hard it is to get a skilled job, yes? 99% of your applications will be rejected and 99% of your interviews will be rejected too, no matter who you are.

OP here. The whole bio field is oversupplied with people. Maybe 1% of PhDs get a permanent faculty position in academia (I've tried but my publication record wasn't strong enough). And industry positions are super competitive especially at the PhD level.

>You were not born boring, dull and neurotic

I was actually.

Go outside and talk to a stranger, it's the same thing, except they aren't already your friend. Compliment them on something, then either carry on the conversation or walk away.

> Maybe a dozen conversations and two dates. That is all.
When I was on tinder i was sending a dozen conversations each day - if I matched with someone, I would message them. Stop waiting for other people to do the first step - the first step is the hardest and nobody wants to make it, some people just force them too because they feel completely shit otherwise.

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wait, do you have a PhD?

> go into academia

Holy fuck u dum. Got a sister in academia. Took her 20 years of being someone elses scheckbengal before she managed to get a base level tenure track position. She'll have to work past 65 to pay off all the loans, and catch up to the point where she can retire.

Me? I'm out the fucking door at fiddy-five, own two houses, already with no mortgage.

Academia. Gimme a break.

>Lots of people are too stupid to do that.

We are talking about biology here. The gender studies of STEM.

>How many applications do you make a week?

All in all, I applied to maybe 200 positions. Had five interviews.

Crying, screaming and making people go "awww" is not boring or dull. I don't know the full definition of neurotic, but I guess a baby could be seen that way.

2/3 user, now look at those 2 points.

You gave up a long time ago, didn't you? OP this is all on you. You have to work hard to compete for what you want. All this namby pamby "trying to get a job and girlfriend for decades!" is pathetic. You go out and get whats yours. Whatever it takes.

all of academia is saturated. I'm doing phd in mechanical engineering and I have to compete with 15 chinese and 10 indians. that's why so many people hop from post-doc to post-doc until they get a permanent position, or their qualifications gets them a job in the private sector

I was in a similar situation as you, but I always remained positive and everything changed when I decided to pursue the things that I was passionate about. Then I met people with similar interests and I ended marrying my editor.

The best advice I could ever give is to stay positive, so, you are always in a place where you can see new opportunities.

>When I was on tinder i was sending a dozen conversations each day - if I matched with someone, I would message them

Me too. But I don't get a dozen each day. Far from it. And I am not particularly picky.

Yes. Pro-tip: don't.

This. I spent four years as postdoc in NY working 70 hrs a week for 50k / year. Luckily, since I am European, I have no study debt.

From what county are you?

There's your problem. You only applied to 200 positions in 2 years that's only 8 applications a MONTH. 1 interview for every 40 applications is fucking high you dingus. You need to apply for a fucking thousand jobs. All day every day applying for jobs and improving your presentation. Of course you won't get anywhere if your maximum output is 8 applications a month.

I heard you the first time, Red. See you in Zihuatanejo.

OP here. I'm German. The German "solution" to perpetual postdocs is to simply not allow people to postdoc for more than 6 years. I couldn't get another postdoc position in Germany even if I wanted to.

good for you

Germany.

He has made these threads, everyday, for almost 10 years. Despite all the advise we give him, all the ego stroking, all the help and he just whines loudly and refuses to change his situation at all. In future if you see this thread just ignore him.

There aren't even thousands of jobs for which I am qualified for.

He could have applied for a few more jobs with the the he used whinging on Yea Forums today

OP is this true, are you really just a whiner?

What?

Well exactly. Instead of doing something he will just sit on his ass, jerk off all day and complain his life is going no where and wonder why his life is shit. He could change his life if he just fucking committed himself to something for more than 15 seconds.

Not bad, at least you have wealth social state and whole Europe to travel. Try to find hoby, anything would be good.

What is holding up your suicide?

It's true. Come here same time tomorrow or wait a few hours today and he will make the same thread. He just likes to bitch and whine and pretend he is powerless over his own life.

WRONG. Get your head out your ass. Just fucking apply like crazy, you have a fucking PhD. Ignore when it says experience in the field required, just apply for everything that you might possibly consider doing. Expand your search. 200 applications in 2 years is pathetic. Quit blaming the world for your own laziness. That is why you have failed.

The common advices were: change our environment, join clubs, work out, try Tinder, put yourself out there.

I have move to the US for a few years.
I joined a rock climbing club and regularly take e.g. cooking and yoga classes
I started to go to the gym
I've been using Tinder and Bumble regularly
I regularly go to bars.

You might be right. I've been mainly applying for PhD level positions in pharma / biotech. And some data science gigs. Maybe, I should consider less prestigious stuff. TA positions, general office positions etc.

I spend around 10-15 hours a week rock climbing. I consider that my main hobby. I also like running, gym, skiing and windsurfing in season, reading, cooking and video games.

user, you can't fool me. I know you are a compulsive liar. You might have done some of these things once or twice but you've never committed to anything and you haven't addressed your personality issues. You need to grow up and you point blank refuse to even try to grow up.

Dude, move to U.S. biochemistry jobs are in super high demand right now and that's just for bachelors. I'm sure theyd let you into a post doc at any University here too. Did you fail to network in grad school? Thats probably what killed you

>Did you fail to network in grad school? Thats probably what killed you

He did. He thought after he finished his studies all the major companies would rush to seek him out and his brilliance and just give him the top jobs with all the money. He hasn't tried to network or meet people in the industry. He sends one email, never follows up, then makes these threads.

It's more comfortable this way.

All of this is true bro. But maybe, I just used this as a band aid instead of address my personality issues.

I returned from a postdoc in New York (Sloan Kettering) last year. I had to go back because my project ended, my visum was running out and I had no health insurance. I applied for biotech jobs in the NY/NJ and Boston area. No success.

But yes, I suck at networking.

100% this. Expand your search from not only your ideal job, but to anything that is better than your current position.

>I just used this as a band aid instead of address my personality issues.

I can't even... Okay user. See you tomorrow.

You are right. I have no idea how to network. As a PhD student, I found it quite easy to network with other researchers / group leaders at conferences. But I never managed to talk to anyone in any meaning full position in industry. Most biotech / pharma companies send their sales people to conferences who are not really involved in hiring etc. The big guys - if they were there at all - were nearly unapproachable.

Fuck you bro.

You said you weren't interesting but here you are doing all this interesting stuff with your molecular biology PhD. The problem isn't the world, it is solely your attitude and perception of it. Concentrate on sorting yourself out and realise that your situation is your fault and you can change it with hard work and sacrifice.

Did you impress any of your professors or research/team leaders? If so, don't be afraid to seek them out and ask them for help. If not, keep emailing and bug the shit out of people that can potentially get you somewhere. I hope you have some letters of recommendation or references. You're gonna need them. Hell even starting off as a janitor somewhere is an in. Don't give up

>You said you weren't interesting but here you are doing all this interesting stuff with your molecular biology PhD

I don't consider this particularly interesting. It's not like I am outstanding at any of this or have some stories to tell.

>Did you impress any of your professors or research/team leaders?

I don't think so. I did decent work, nothing more. My PI at MSKCC had some industry contacts and I used those first. However, nothing came out of it.

News flash: its not about what you think is interesting about yourself, its what others find interesting about you. Any normal person would be interested in hearing more about that shit. You are outstanding in this shit cus most people dont do half of the stuff you are doing. Also being interested in other people and just listening is a valuable thing. You can at least do that, right? Your head is really far up your own ass, OP. Just chill out and get out there and shake your dick around. Don't get bummed out or frustrated when it doesn't work, eventually you will get results.

>News flash: its not about what you think is interesting about yourself, its what others find interesting about you. Any normal person would be interested in hearing more about that shit.

To be honest, I never really get the opportunity to talk about myself. People mostly ignore me. And when I strike up conversation, they are not interested in me.

That's the reason why I keep making these threads. I have nobody to talk to. People don't care about me.

If you have a degree look for some kind of internship, and date a girl who is as ugly as you are. Problem solved, or just keep being a retard and kys

Its exactly the same situation as your job hunt. You have to talk to 50 people before 1 gives you a chance and then you have to have 50 chances before you get an acquaintance. There are people like you who are looking for someone to listen to and who will listen to them. It takes effort and time to find them and connect.

>and date a girl who is as ugly as you are

I'm pretty average looking. And also primarily approached average looking girls. Maybe, I have to find someone below that level.

>1 interview for every 40 applications is fucking high you dingus. You need to apply for a fucking thousand jobs
Look at these unrealistic expectations. Does anyone seriously have that much time to dedicate to finding work? I know what you're gonna say, "you shouldn't be complaining about free time because it's all you have, and it's not like you're doing anything meaningful with it" to which I respond that it doesn't matter how many applications you're admitting when you're not seeing any results. Whether I put in 1 or 100 won't change the fact that the hiring manager probably already placed ol' Steve's cousin's sister's resume to the top of the pile cause he owes him a favor or two and she could really use the work.

Do normal people usually talk to 2500 people before getting an acquaintance?

>That's the reason why I keep making these threads. I have nobody to talk to. People don't care about me.
I don't think Yea Forums is the best place for you. Have you try playing a game and join its community?
What about that sport you practice? There must be an online community.

Your male, approaching middle-age and have no close friends? And you think it makes you a loser? It just makes you male and middle aged, friendo.

gee wizz its so unrealistic to apply for 10 jobs a day. boo hoo waaa. Give me a fucking break. Life is hard, you have to put in the time and effort to get anywhere. You can cry about it all you want but at the end of the day you'll still be a fucking loser.

Yes.

>36
>Kissless virgin
Why do you avoid women? Sure their personality are shit. Are you just not attracted to them?

OP here. The issue is that you cannot just spam applications with generic letter + CV when it comes to high end positions. I need several hours for each application because people require you to at least give them a personalised intro letter. More often then not, they ask questions in relation to motivation etc and "I need a job" just doesn't cut it.

Hey, retard, I know you have brain damage but you missed the point. You can spend all your time with your Sisyphus complex all you like, but if it ain't getting results then your time is being wasted. Does that mean you shouldn't try? No, dumbass, but you're acting like frequency of output has any bearing on whether or not you're able to see a positive outcome, and I'm telling you that it just doesn't work out that way.

Only if you truly believe that all organisations of the world rely solely on nepotism. Which obviously isn't the case. If you up your output you WILL see positive results. I'm guessing you're another loser who thinks the world owes him something.

What do you do for a living?

I never really played online. Apart from a year of WoW in 2005.

There is a climbing community. I have people who I can hit up if I want to go to the crag. However, why should other climbers be particularly interested by an average climber. Same when it comes to my educational background. Normal people might be impressed that I used to be a cancer researcher (*). Other people with a biochem background are not.

* because people think that cancer researchers contribute something to society which they don't

Damn that's sad. I wanna hug you bro no homo. Buy a nice pet to keep you company.

I work in manufacturing, and I've seen plenty of people get jobs just because they were relatives of people who already worked at the plant and who were tight with the supervisor. Nepotism exists, but it isn't the only reason why you can be rejected for work. Sometimes there's no reason at all, and you're just rejected because the hiring manager didn't like the way you looked at him.
>I'm guessing you're another loser who thinks the world owes him something.
Eh, fuck you, I never once asked for a handout, even during periods of homelessness, drug abuse, depression, the loss of loved ones, and other predicaments. Do people need help? Yeah, but I guess that being downtrodden by a fucked up system that doesn't give a shit about you is only the natural order of things, right?

>why should other climbers be particularly interested by an average climber.
why should other Yea Forumstards be particularly interested by an average Yea Forumstard
see? we don't care, yet here you are.
If you really want to get laid, try joining other communities, look for other interest. pretend to be interested in other crap even if you not.

I've been regularly going to yoga classes for the last year. Mainly because I wanted to improve my flexibility. Hot women all around, but I never managed to exchange more than a few words with them.

I never said nepotism doesn't exist. Obviously it does. Nepotism only means that we have to work harder and apply for more jobs, not less. I agree that it is a fucked up system that doesn't give a shit about you. Your solution is to cry and complain about the state of things. My solution is to work harder to wade through the shit to the top. You can only control what you can control. You can't end nepotism but you can apply for a thousand jobs. No one is asking for a hand out, im telling OP to be a man and take what he can, through whatever it takes.

Why don't you move to a nice beach town and get drunk everyday or wtvr. Lurn2surf n shit.

erm... pretty sure men going to those are seen as either gay or just degenerates looking to see females in yoga pants.
u may wanna try something else.

>i work in manufacturing
Loser wage slave confirmed.
> I never once asked for a handout, even during periods of homelessness, drug abuse, depression
All of those things were your fault. No matter how much you want to blame the world for those things, in the end you had choices along the way and you chose that path.

Now, I know this might seem like a radical idea, but maybe, just maybe, something's wrong with the current state of things, and there needs to be some changes made for the better. If a problem exists, you don't just disregard it, you have to address it. Working around a problem is fine, but it doesn't do anything to make change, and you're just defending the shitty system at this point.

Isn't your recess over yet, kiddo? Get off the library computer and get back to class.

Second point is indeed a nice bonus.

I can surf. Not a great surfer but I am able to surf.

Oh great, lets hear how this loser wage slave drug addict vagrant is going to fix the world. Whats your great ideas? Put you in charge of everything?

The shitty system exists whether you like it or not. You can sit moping at the bottom or you can work hard and improve your lot. Its obvious which one you chose.

bump

Who's your favourite actor?

why Yea Forums? why not /r9k/ or /bant/? have you try /soc/ or Yea Forums?

Hard to say. Peter Sellers?

/r9k/ is too sad even for me. Yea Forums seems to be mainly about watching sports, no doing sports. I use /soc/ regularly to post my naked body though.

c'mon. I'm lonely.

was Hitler wrong?

Get a pet if you're lonely retard

Get fit and all your problems will go away. Go to the doc and check for low testosterone, it seems like you have low t.

You're right, but if he hasn't gotten together at 36, it's game over. Too late.

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yeah, OP should just give up, just like I did

trite, but true

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Try harder

Yes.

I work out regularly. But I am still far away from getting fit. Pic related.

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I have a cat. See pic.

You didn't mention student debt. Have you totally fucked up your financial life, too?

No. European. Got a PhD, didn't pay a cent.

oh my god! that's a handsome pussy!!! what's his/her name?

What did you expect? A great job and hot chx to fall right in your lap? Bwaaahaaahaaa. That's like the cat ladies your age thinking that a white knight is waiting right around the bend to save them from their useless lives.

At 36 you obviously don't heed good advice. I'm guessing you're posting here for attention. You've got it. You make us all feel better about our better spent lives.

>I'm guessing you're posting here for attention.
why else would anyone post anything on Yea Forums?
-not OP

You sound like a good candidate for alcoholism. Not sure how it will help... but atleast you'll be drunk.

Yeah, the US has a long way to go. We educate total retards willing to go into debt, while smart people are avoiding college altogether.

What's your degree? I looked at other posts and didn't see what you graduated in.

To make lasting lifelong friends and to pick up hot chix

>implying these are failures

Stop comparing yourself to Hollywood OP, you'll be happier

>What did you expect? A great job and hot chx to fall right in your lap?

No. But maybe some success. Some indication of progress. Some sign that I am on the right way or that I am worthy.

His name is Darwin.

>What's your degree? I looked at other posts and didn't see what you graduated in.

Officially, I have a PhD in medical sciences. But I am a biochemist / molecular biologist by training.

>His name is Darwin.
cool. I had a pussy cat with the same color pattern, less fluffy, tho

>to pick up hot chix
yeah... sure...

Cool.

Fml finishing up my master biomed in a year, this thread makes me wanna rope

what's your favorite shitposting? traps? wwyds? rates?

Go directly into industry. Skip that PhD.

This thread.

Why dont you go volunteer in some third world country? Go explore the world. Start train hopping and hitching. If your life sucks make it useful to less fortunate people it will give you purpose plus probably some pussy

>Start train hopping and hitching
I was about to suggest this!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=hTljCYjieJg

Witnessed. Forgive me ignorance, but how is that a worthless degree? Surely there are jobs available for that.

post a picture of your beard

There are jobs in industry and academia available but the demand for molecular biologists / biochemists is in no relation to the supply. Decent positions have thousand of applicant because. every year, tens of thousands of bio* PhDs are churned out by the universities. The reason for that is simple: medical research makes up most of the academic research output and PhD students and postdocs keep running it.

I cannot grow a beard.

this is why you cant get laid though, take some minoxidil to grow it

Post your face OP

Why do people post such gay bullshit advice on Yea Forums. So vague, so useless. You could find this on a refrigerator magnet.

>get busy living.
More retard advice. We are all living retard. Holy shit, not even OP, just find this advice to be the gayest shit ever.

>. But I am still far away from getting fit. Pic related.
lol you're actually torlling if you think that body isn't the top 10% of men easily.

Won't post photo. But minoxidil - a vasodilator - doesn't just make beards appear. Especially if there is no follicular damage.

>why don't you go get raped by somalis
>why don't you just lose your job and start riding trains everywhere
>why don't you just get kidnapped by some guy you hitched a ride with
Holy goddamn this board has turned into fucking reddit.

I would maybe consider the top 0.1% of men really fit.

What you just posted is definitely fit, you have made it. Keep going but if you are OP then yeah that's pretty good.

The thing is: I didn't notice any difference when it comes to girls. So I guess it is either not good enough or it did't matter in the first place.

What does your face look like and how autistic are you?
In some cases you literally start so far behind that you don't have much chance of catching up. Genetics isn't a meme. Neither is non-genetic heredity.

>What does your face look like
try imagine angela merkel with a pedo stache

I'm average looking. Not more. But I am super awkward socially.

Have you checked out jobs on a global level? You might need to move. Have you checked into teaching? I don't want to sound preachy, but I can't believe you've tried very hard to get a job. Do you just suck at interviews or what?

>(You)
I find great women on Yea Forums. You don't? :)

nope, just attention whores...

Your dumb as fuck

I've been mostly looking in Norther and Western Europe. Don't want to move back to the US.

And to be honest: I am very bad at teaching. Or explaining stuff.

ugyhij

*you're
And, why am I dumb as fuck?
Your vague, cop-out, normonigger advice is what's dumb as fuck.

>Ask a complete failure in life anything
what does the fox say?

...

Are you the German virgin?
>minimum wage job despite university education
What's your degree in?
What's your job?
What's your wage in Eurodollars?

what's the dumbest thing you ever done?

No degree is useless you fag if you like your science.
Knowledge is something they can never take from you.

>What's your degree in?
>What's your job?
>What's your wage in Eurodollars?

- Biochemistry / molecular biology
- I work in a supermarket for around 9€ / hr

Studied something with bio in it.

not that kind of thing. I mean something exciting, kinky, something that triggered some adrenaline rush, that kind of stuff

Can't recall anything.

...

Not much happened in my life.

What led to your shit personality?

well, go outside and do something! grab a girl's ass, stole something from the girls at your yoga classes, get caught and spend some time in jail, anything!

It was never decent in the first place.

Yeah. Jail time is really what I need.

>Yeah. Jail time is really what I need.
see? this is why you're virgin. you aren't willing to take any risk. do you really think any woman will be interested in someone like that?

Something had to form your shitty personality, what was your childhood like? Lonely too?

No. I was decently popular. Had quite few friends. Even in middle school, I was ahead of my peers in many things. I was for instance the first boy in my class to ask a girl out (at 12). But somehow, my friends developed socially while I didn't.

What stunted you then? Surely it wasn't hard to mimic their behavior and grow with them, you had to get hung up on something

>I was for instance the first boy in my class to ask a girl out (at 12)
waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah? never asked a girl out and I'm not kisseless! how can you be???

I always had problems mimic people or analysing / rationalising peoples behaviour.

She rejected me. The first of many girls.

oh right... you'll die a virgin, i guess...

Oh you're just another autist

How do you think you're gonna die?

I'm pretty sure this is not autism

Tim? Is that you buddy?
How you doing Tim?

You are supposed to keep trying.
Be honest.
You didn't even approach many girls, if any.
Try to think like the girl a little bit.
Why would you ever be interested in a guy that is unsure of himself and doesn't have the confidence to pursue them and convince them to date him?

>> 36 year old male kissless virgin
you have no excuse for that
if they can so you
youtube.com/watch?v=HMDdoNUjPRU
>> no friends
you can start with facebook
>> bad relationship with family
try to fix it it's not the end
>> minimum wage job despite university
education
that suck /make an APP for IOS or smoothing
>> chronic illness
sorry for that

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Forgotten.

MOM???

>You didn't even approach many girls, if any.

Maybe a few hundred in my life (excluding online dating). Which is not a lot per annum.

>Why would you ever be interested in a guy that is unsure of himself and doesn't have the confidence to pursue them and convince them to date him?

If I were a girl, I wouldn't date myself.

>start with facebook
That's awful advice
Facebook is terrible even for normies
Nothing good is there
And a social retard like OP and me can't use Facebook
I have an account but it's terrible

>If I were a girl, I wouldn't date myself.
Alright, why though?
What do you think it's wrong with you and you're undateable?