So, I'm 22 and in a predicament. I don't enjoy sex anymore. It isn't in the sense that I have a girlfriend who bores me...

So, I'm 22 and in a predicament. I don't enjoy sex anymore. It isn't in the sense that I have a girlfriend who bores me. I'm single and have a besides my usual sex partners a different one every other week. I'm not extremely hot or anything. Just charismatic and apethic enough I guess. Sunday I was having sex and I just realised I didn't care for it anymore. I felt like that for a while actually. I tried different things, like dominant and submissive shit, had sex with a couple of guys but it just didn't make me care for it more. Now I can't even get my dick hard for porn. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? This shit shouldn't happen at 22 right?

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Go get your testosterone level checked

You think it's physical? I don't think it is.

I think he has a mental block, he is pushing away feelings and emotional ties to people. I think it's mental health.

Am no doctor..the answers you need, will unlikely be found here.

Okay that you don't want to have sex can be normal but to not be able to have an erection at that age means there is probably something out of balance, go to a doctor and describe your worries

>Head sex with a couple of guys
Do the world a favor and kill yourself, faggot

Could be depressed.

Could be becoming A-sexual.

Question is do you find people attractive or alluring? And if so, is it just the physical act of sex that you can't engage with?

It mightve been an exaggeration. I could, but just don't feel the need to. Just no libido.
Could very well be. I've been stressed alot lately and have been consciously avoiding social contact and even my parents. I'm beginning to think I'm becoming a shit person.

Unless you have a massive, _massive_ porn and masturbation habit go get your testosterone levels checked. Low levels kill sex drive.

If that doesn't check out, could be depression/anxiety.

Or, you could actually be ace. Although I'm given to understand that's usually a 'like that from puberty' thing rather than something you develop later on in life.

Honestly, it’s only going to get worse. Don’t waste your time dude. I suggest a cold pint of bleach or death by cop.

I would argue that sleeping with all sorts of different people might not be satisfying you. I used to do that at your age, but once you get a girlfriend that you're with for a while, the sex gets better and better.

There's a difference between someone you don't really care about trying new stuff, and someone you actually care about exploring new things with you.

The best sex I've ever had has always been a year or two into a relationship when you're super in tune with what each other wants.

Not that you can go out and just do that right now, but take a break man. You're only 22, you've got fucking shit loads of time.

1) Stop taking in soy. Lowers testosterone.
2) Take some time off. Desire will build back up. I had a similar situation when I was running 4 women at once. Very stressful as well.

3) Fag.
4) Thank you for playing to the audience and posting tits even though you're gay. Well done.

I'm not sure. I've rarely loved someone, so I don't even know what sex is like with someone you cared for.

Depressed af you are..
Go see a doc you probably have adhd or autism.

>I don't even know what sex is like with someone you cared for.

Fuck that's depressing

This happened to me at 40 for real but have been cock blocking myself all my life..
like I really want to get into that girls panties but when she naked it’s like meh.. hated myself for not wanting her vag enough to get a boner..
long story short: drinking habit and drugs saved me from trying to fuck..

Maybe go see a therapist about your relationships with people, I know you probably think you're fine, but they can often point out things about yourself that you didn't even realise.

tl;dr. have you tried killing yourself?

I was 2nd post and suggested it was more mental...more importantly

You're aware of the situation, you are looking for answers. You have an issue, get it checked out, for you. You could miss out on a lot of great things if you don't.

Best of luck..no judgement zone from me!

Same story here bruh, I'm going to the doc next week to get my testosterone checked, after that I can start to think of other reasons

Everyone is shit bruh, welcome to the club.

This happened to me recently. I had this hot girl that wanted to fuck and I couldn't get into it. No porn problem. Testosterone fine.

It's emotion dude. We are all trying to give less and less shits about each other. Everyone wants to be mutual fuck toys without love, because love is scary and painful. Sometimes what we need is actual human connection and not just physical pleasure.

I was neurotic because of the fleeting nature of these boring relationships. For me everything works fine with exes or chicks where there is mutual connection that you can feel.

Or you can try to look past the physical and become genuinely interested in people, be friends first, etc. It really depends on the person, and there are a lot of boring thots out there. Go for cool people, not cold people. That helped me.

Tfw sex is the only thing in life I do enjoy. Literally everything else is a chore. Me and OP should trade. I'll have sex for him and he can do all the other shit.

Same problem here op.

I'm 19, physically stronger than ever before (I can do 11 pull ups), mentally healthier than ever before, more sexually active than ever before, and yet I can barely get any sexual pleasure.

I remember it wasn't always this way, my first blow job was literally ecstasy, yet now I feel little when I get head. And of the little pleasure I do feel, it's overcome by a feeling of authenticity when it is over.

I'll be talking to my doctor about my testosterone levels in about a month or so, I hope that's what the problem is and not anything serious.

Bruv I'm in my early 30s, and been going through the same. It's kinda like you said, there's just enough apathy to not even vare anymore.

My reasons are probably somewhat different though.

You hit the nail on the head. Chicks don't want ANY emotional attachment where I live, so why the fuck would I even care after a while?

It's demoralizing to know that they'll come around only by the time they're dried-out. Outside the US I've had one night stands with waaaay more passion than relationship sex within the US.

Sounds like early depression or low testosterone. Both are serious issues, get yourself checked

your problem is that you are having too much sex that your getting desensitized to it. doesn't usually happen unless you have too much sex. stop for a month or two. don't wank, don't fuck anyone. you'll restore eventually