Why is it that when guys have a sex life, it’s fine, but when girls do, they’re sluts...

Why is it that when guys have a sex life, it’s fine, but when girls do, they’re sluts? Why do guys feel the need to shame women for having done sexual things with their partners in the past? If you date a girl, it’s because you feel in love with them and who they are. But when a guy finds out a girl’s sexual past, it’s like they’re disgusting whores. It’s like girl’s are only good if they’re virgins. And why do guys make being insecure with a girl who’s experienced such a problem? You’re dating her and get to fuck her, why think about what’s she done in the past? What’s the point of bringing up her sexual history?

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because a key that opens any lock is a master key but a lock thay any key can open is a shitty lock.

key opens more than one lock, it's fuckin great
lock opens by any key, shit lock

cuz shes a disgusting slut if she has a big sexual history, duh. is that really a question user?

you stole my idea fucker

>Why do guys feel the need to shame women for having done sexual things with their partners in the past?
Nothing wrong with that. However the random guy that you met on tinder 1 hour ago isn't your "partner" and getting fucked by dozens of guys makes you a slut.

>You’re dating her and get to fuck her, why think about what’s she done in the past?
Because some whore that fucks another guy every week is incapable of bonding and won't be able to maintain an actual relationship.

Because it's easy for them

being the ten millionth tool to repeat the meme doesn't make it any more valid of an argument. Dicks and vaginas are not keys and locks and your comparison is good enough to make a joke and not much more than that.

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Ok sure but how about an argument that’s not a proverb?

because you're both a pair of braindead cumstains who do nothing but absorb and repost the garbage they trolled out of Yea Forums et al. Neither of you have produced an original idea in your lives so it's pretty petty to cry that one stole it from the other.

What a woman wants more than anything is to please men.

Women think that they are better than men in every way, why should we not expect them to be better in every way?

Assmad roastie

Because women are stupid and i dont respect them

all this mad and so little getting laid. No wonder you posted this thread, whiteknightfag

Women select mates in society. For a man, being selected from hundreds of other men is a win.
For women, fucking hundreds of men is just devaluing your position.

One is bragworthy because of the effort involved, the other is just giving it up freely.

Never met a dude who cared about what a chick did in her past, as long as she was still up for it currently.

Then again I go outside and meet real people.

You were already given an argument see

basically this

Alright then, let’s say she has had 1-3 past sexual partners in the past before she dated you. Is she still a slut?

Sounds like your dad called you a slut and now you're taking to Yea Forums lol

Girls that fuck many men are sluts and whores, been that way for ages.

There's a difference between considering the past of a woman you want to pump & dump and considering the past of a woman you want to marry and raise your children.

trick question, all women are sluts

Literally this

because a girl can basically go up to any random guy and he will have sex with her. Thats the difference. Men need to work for it while for women its the easiest thing fucking ever. Get a grip brainlet

I second. /Thread

How brilliant of you both to reply with one-liner insults that you think are original because you don't hear them in "real life" but have been floating from dead brain to dead brain here for over a decade? Is there a name for this kind of thing? It's more like a reflex than a conscious post.

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this video answers it all

This..

Because it's a challenge to get laid as a guy, so it's admired when someone manages it a lot.

Getting laid as a woman is a choice, so people see it as greedy.

Bingo

*fedora tip intensifies*

They're slutty whores, get over it :)

It's a purely valid analogy. No need to be salty.

Because, for a man to have sex with many women he must exihibit a lot of value, he has to be good looking, well dressed, charismatic or funny, good personality and have money.

For a woman to have sex with multiple men, all she has to do is be willing.

It doesn't make one right and the other wrong, but that is the reason why a prolific man is regarded in more esteem for his ability to "conqour" many women, than a woman is for her willingness to spread her legs for many men.

Put it this way. There are fat, ugly, poor sluts, there are no fat, ugly, poor players.

Depends. Were these sexual partners people she was in a long term relationship with whom, prior to the sex, she would have considered a potential life partner, or were these guys that picked her up at bars or she met on tinder? One night stands = slut

Ight so let’s say you meet the girl of your dreams. You love her to death, think of marriage, a family, etc. Then you find out she slept with the person she dated before you.

Do you still like her?

You're good at dodging all the legitimate arguments and only focusing on the tards. Typical to only hear what you wanna hear. Slut.

I love sluts. They're the best to fuck and if you're re non-judgmental and not insecure, they can be really cool to date too. Sluts are fun. Dudes with weak dick game usually complain about it lol

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Biology.

Men can cum twice a day until their 70's and a baby is made each time if they're potent enough. Its minimal effort for high reward in terms of a reproductive cycle, so biology rewards this behaviour.

Women on the other hand have to give up their movement, emotional state and well-being for 9 whole months to reproduce. Its high effort, so therefore a woman must be more selective when picking a mate. They must ensure not just that good genetics will get passed on, but that they also have a good father for their offspring to develop well adjusted.

Of course in the age of birth control this isn't so much of an issue.

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Depends. Were they dating for 5 years or 2 days? Was he an urban youth?

Because every bitch that has too much dick is either disturbed or brain damaged. Any chick can call out her window and have 10 guys at her feet.
So the number one problem is that she has poor choice. Guyss don't get that choice so when a guy fucks a lot it means he has something special. And on another note when a guy finds "the one" he sticks with them. What girl do you know that has fucked a billion guys can make the rational decision to commit after having her holes gaped? She's ruined after that.

This.

Although it has been proven in studies that when there are more females than males the males become more selective and the females up their game. In most of western society though the man is the one who must put in the effort.

Because generally speaking, a guy has to try.
An average girl can basically walk into a pub, asks who wants to fuck and then take her pick.
An average guy will have a harder time unless he's a fag.

Basically, girls play the dating game on easy mode, we do on normal.
And all ugly hambeasts of either gender play on nightmare.

I'm just waiting for the internet and the neckbeards to realize all humans are sluts and that human societies will never be fair to all groups at any one time.

>cuck

Because it's nothing to brag about. If a woman wants to have sex, she has sex. There is a line in front of every woman just waiting.
If a man wants to have sex, he has to work for it.
"not because they are easy, but because they are hard."
That's what I respect. I respect people who ignore the easy route and take the path less traveled. For a man, it's getting laid. For a woman, the difficult thing is resisting the urge to get laid.
In my experience, when women want to talk about their sexual past, they do it with a chip on their shoulder. But it always equates to, "I'm so awesome I can get out of bed in the morning, walk in a straight line and not drown in the bathtub!" A woman getting laid is the most basic, mundane task a human can preform. It's not worthy of respect. Now, if a 5'8" 250 lb ginger with a thick layer of bacon grease on his face tells me he found a woman willing to open her legs for him, I will high five the mother fucker, then wash my hands.

tl;dr
I don't respect things that take no effort.

Now reading back I see a lot of people see it this way too.

Everybody loves to fuck a slut as long as she's down to fuck. OP question is relationship with sluts. Guys who brag about "dick game" usually aren't looking for anything else and usually don't have that much "game"

The average mans standards for who he will have sex with are signifficantly lower than the average womans. A man who is able to seduce many women displays a higher social value than a woman who is prepared to put out for many men. To elaborate, men make the move, buy the drinks/dinner, lead the conversation, the man has to prove himself worth for a woman before he can get some. The woman just has to be willing for a man to give her some dick.

Let’s say a year or two

>if you date a girl, it's because you feel in love with them and who they are
You obviously have a warped view of human relationships. Dating is NOT something people do because they are "in love". Dating is something you do when you have romantic interest and want to spend more time with the person and get to know them more in depth, which can potentially lead to love.

Anyways, I personally don't give a shit if a woman has fucked other men. To me a slut isn't someone who has fucked other people in the past, but rather a person who commits to a monogamous relationship and then cheats. A cheater is always a slut, regardless of whether they have a penis or a vagina. They put base sexual instinct above their meaningful commitments to other human beings.

If they want an open relationship, and it is agreed upon by two people then that is a different story. Anyways, good luck with your batshit insane notions about human relationships.

Then explain how it is a valid comparison. What similarities exist besides the strict relation that dicks fit in vaginas and keys fit in locks?

>I don't respect things that take no effort.

I rate that user, its kind of how I feel about posting here in general tbh.

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Yeah but a slut isn't someone who fucked 3 guys before you it's someone who's fucked every guy before you

I was trying to focus more on having a relationship with someone who’s had sexual partners in the past. Not as in having casual sex, but had dated someone and had sex with them.

Is it hard to date a girl who had sex with someone before you?

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Because a girl who has had lots of different partners and sleeps with males so easily can be viewed as a potential unfaithful partner. No self restraint, no loyalty etc

By nature Women desire emotional intimacy and need closeness . It would be expected that women show reluctance to sleep with males so easily, hence why some males are incels and find it hard to fuck women because women by nature want high status/high value men and don't just sleep with any dude just because it's a goal. They tend to need a connection, normally emotional, or at least know you're high status/value.

On the other hand men don't require emotional intimacy as highly as physical or at least they're equal. A male has to chase a woman and if they are loyal & in love they won't chase another woman or at least won't put much effort in. I find guys take the path of least resistance most times so they would not actively go to cheat unless the relationship goes sour or for some other reason. Men tend to be passive cheaters or opportunist.

A woman on the other hand gets chased. As a man you can almost guarantee another guy is going to hit on your girl at some point. Now if they've had lots of partners, let guys fuck them easily or has had lots of past partners that would somewhat give the impression she is quite inclined to let any man that chases her to fuck her. Unless she has slept with 20 guys and has been chased by 500 guys, maybe she isn't a slut or "easy". But no one knows the figure Guys don't get chased so its hard to imagine a girl gets chased by THAT many people. For all I know it could be 20/20 so she has just let any guy that chased her hit it? those statistics don't bode well for the future of the next guy that chases her.

Additionally men's highest priority in a women is her physical, her "goods" to know it's in good order and not everyone has had them is highly prized. Women prioritise material goods in a man.. worth, wealth, status

If this is the only guy she's had sex with and it wasn't too deviant than no this wouldn't be considered slut. I would still want to know why they broke up and expect that she didn't associate with this guy anymore.

This post. Just because something is a meme and sounds jokey, doesn't mean it isn't based on deeper analysis. Its just a shorthand way of stating it that's kinda funny because of the penis/vagina imagery.

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I think bill burr explained it best

If there was a dude who looked average and drove a forklift for a living, almost no woman is going to approach him and ask to have sex. If that same man was a professional golfer, or some billionaire, he would constantly have women waiting and asking to have sex with him.

If a woman drove a forklift for a living, guys would still approach her and try to have sex, even if she was average looking.

That’s pretty much the lock key argument explained. Women don’t have to try that hard to get laid.

Why are you focussing all your energy into arguing a point you believe to be an invalid argument, when there are some solid explanations for why sluts are shamed that you're completely ignoring?

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Such as? You posed an opinion with nothing to back it up.

I personally think a person who fucked many people in a short period of time without committing to any meaningful relationship or at least trying to is a slut, regardless of whether they are a man or a woman.

Show me your genitals

we aren't talking about keys or locks, how is that relevant in any way you stupid fuck

society is extremely sexist, especially Yea Forums, so don't expect anything intelligent to be said on the subject itt.

completely regardless of whether or not the post you quoted is valid or not (and I am even inclined to agree) there is absolutely no validation of the "joke" answer. It doesn't have to be "false" for it to be a bad meme or bad reasoning.

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Best sex I've ever had has been with hookers, so I'm certainly not judging their past.

>implying i have sex

go be a whore somewhere else

Men have always competed for resources and always have taken what was easy to get.

Also.

Any man not striving for something better and "settling" isnt a man, hes a tool.

because that is what I'm arguing. I fucking hate retarded ass memes that get continuous exposure because they're "catchy" despite being useless or outright illogical. I don't give a fuck who is a slut or not. You're all faggots so it's not like it matters.

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Was he a basketball american?

Do you think you're going to stop people using memes if they don't meet your specific criteria for being useful/logical?
Logically, no. you don't believe that.
So then you are arguing with the end goal of being what, exactly? To convince one anonymous person that some memes are stupid? Why does it matter what he things? That's like using a cocktail umberella to stop rain hitting a football feild in a tsunami.

It's easy to look at your pedantic and futile exercise as being a prime example of illogical retardation, by definition, so perhaps you should choose better worlds to classify the things you wish to oppose.

Because human is emotionally and mentally unstable animal that lacks objectivism. lucky, undeserved living creature but still shitty result of evolution. That's it. You can clearly see that in this thread, there's enough ignorant monkeys already.

Considerations of past for pump & dump: 0
or if dick hasn't overridden all brain functions: does she have something I can catch

Considerations of past for marriage material: STDs, number, ethnicity, frequency, 1 at a time vs multiples, in relationship vs pickups, do you know ex's, are you going to encounter ex's frequently, reason for breakups, did she cheat, did she have abortion

Because men prefer chastitycross culturally. Women dont prioritize it.

I've posted this before but here goes again - I'll save it so I can just paste it in the future.

Women control access to sex. When it happens, where it happens, what is done during the act, etc. It is even codified in law almost everywhere in the US (men cannot be legally raped by a woman). So when a women has sex often and with a variety of partners she is seen as "less than" because her power is to say "no". She can be discerning and picky about her partners and when she is not she is a "slut". Men must work to have sex, he must "convince" his partner to open her legs to him...and so a man who has sex often with a variety of partners is considered "skilled" because of the work a man has to put in to make sex happen. Pretty simple and straight forward.

Generally it’s easier for women to get laid than men. Plus women have always been seen as more valuable and selective. So when one isn’t it’s more looked down upon.

newfagging this hard

How many fat ugly chads do you get fucking loads of girls? None. how many fat ugly slags do you get fucking loads of guys? Unlimited. If a man is picking up a lot of chicks he must be doing something right because girls are picky as fuck with high standards but us men we'll fuck anything that walks, its easy for slags to be slags, minimum effort to lure a man into their slaggy clunge.

Look at a woman as a cup of water and look at men as paint brushes. As a man, you can dip your brush your in multiple cups and you basically spread your stuff in those cups color in each cup.
Now with the woman, there is no dropping. Everyone you fuck leaves their colors in you. So when a woman is fucking everyone, you see a cup that doesnt even have an identifiable color anymore. Its just a mixture of all the colors and it has that weird murky shitty color (like the cup of water painters use to dip/clean their brushes with).

The problem with your thinking is that you assume there is a logical reason to shitpost.
I'll tell you why I do, though: consider it a turing test.

InceLogic

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Umm good luck finding a virgin, let alone one who is the girl of your dreams

idk what a turing test is

Brags about Shitposting. user is trying to intellectually justify being a contrarian dickhead simply because he's bored and has internet. Turing test is a question & answer session with a computer. The idea being that if you can't tell its a computer its evidence the computer is acting intelligent.

This. Only super insecure dudes get hung up on sexual history

Obviously this...

pussy gets stanky and dirtier easier then dick does

meh, when a guy has a nice sex life he usually earned it. a 2/10 obese woman can create a profile on a dating website and get fucked by 10 guys the same night

For sex purposes, sluts are fine. For dating/relationships, it's a different story.

She doesn't have to be a virgin, but she has to have exhibited SOME selectivity as to who and how many she's let inside her.

You get a woman who has been with 50 guys before you, she's not gonna stop there. Just use her like every other guy she's been with has done.

because if a lock doesnt key and the chain is stainless, the lock is better

I don't think it's from insecurities. It's from not wanting sloppy seconds and there's nothing wrong with that. Many girls have the same standards and won't date a guy who sticks his dick in any hole he can find. Also I don't know what reality you're living because women are being praised in our society more and more for being as slutty as possible. And yes I'm aware this is bait

No better way to explain..

nice argument

You're right women get it good in western society

If he's potent enough.

You even mention the phrase reproductive cycle, but clearly don't have a firm grasp on it. Women only have like a 6 day window every month in which to become pregnant. Sperm can live for like 5 days inside a woman, but her egg only lasts for about 24hrs.

It actually requires skill and looks to be a player as a man. As a woman, you can pretty much just ask any guy to have sex with you as long as you don't look like a sea monster.

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>sex life
>being a whore
These two are not mutually exclusive. There is such a thing called a monogamous relationship, which tend to lead to having a familly and real meaning in life.
You're all fucking losers and whores with an IQ below lukewarm.

If a key opens many locks it's a master key.
If a lock can be opened by many keys it's a shitty lock.

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This used to be true, but no more. Men are becoming pariahs for their sex lives, and are increasingly treated as dogs, useful only for physical labor. As time goes on, they will be forced to take testosterone limiting drugs and learn feminine ways. Their remaining sex drive will be governed so that they will no longer be permitted to impregnate and leave a woman. Thus, men will become traps, and to the extent they are permitted to engage in coitus with a female, they will be physically restrained from leaving the residence or presence of their matriarch. Escapees from this slavery will roam the wilderness with their breast implants as feral shemales.
What was your question again, OP?

There is an element of jealousy. If a woman has had a lot of sexual partners it's likely she's slept with someone who is better in bed than you are, has a bigger dick, better looking, etc...

Also there is the angle that it shows poor impulse control. It's a lot easier for a woman to get laid, pretty much all she needs to do is say "yes" so if she's slept with a lot of guys it's a lot less impressive on your end than if you were able to sleep with someone who is more selective with who she chooses to sleep with.

>Women select mates in society. For a man, being selected from hundreds of other men is a win.
>For women, fucking hundreds of men is just devaluing your position.

Truth has been told.

fpbp

A key that can open all locks is a master key.

A lock that can be opened by anything is just a shitty lock.

it wasnt your idea to start with... you are all just recycling old joke

>Because some whore that fucks another guy every week is incapable of bonding and won't be able to maintain an actual relationship.
And a slutty guy who fucks a different girl every week will have the same problem.
Right?

It's not fine either way. Equality. Not all guys fuck around or have a shitton of experience. And let's be clear, it's way easier for a woman to get laid. Not really incel logic there, I mean my fucking mom gets a shitton of messages from men, it's ''blessing'' and a fucking curse (f they're creepers). But you gotta admit it's true.

Yep. Everything in modernation. I might be pure but I only fuck in serious relationships. And I date only people that take relationships seriously, I'm not dating someone that had 10 broken serious relationships before me, unless there's a good reason.

most women dont have much more than their cunts going on for them. whats wrong with calling them what they actually are?

because a key opening every lock is an excellent key

and a lock that can be opened by more than a key is the worst lock

When a key opens many locks, it's a master key. When a lock is opened by many keys, it's a shitty lock.

Man you've never been around women in manual labor. They sure as fuck don't have a line out the door looking to fuck them.

Those are exceptions not the rule, manual labour is mostly done by men, not women. There are exceptions for fucking everything. Doesn't make the comparison any less true.

that's because most women who drive forklifts are nebraska pig people, and don't look anywhere near average

the Nebraska pig people

Ok BASED

Bro all I asked was opinion on dating a girl where you wouldnt he her first sexual partner

Only Incels with no game believe this that woman """select""". Work out and fucking download tinder, it's not that fucking hard to get laid, jesus christ. got to /soc/ if you need help.

Yeah right. Women literally get constant message to the point I had to threaten creeps for my family members.
Sure men can get laid, but we do get ''selected''.